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#1 18-08-07 03:13:07

bobsyme
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Where are the women of color??

Everyone here is so white.

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#2 18-08-07 03:48:08

blissed
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Re: Where are the women of color??

I think if you went to metropolitain or suburban Australia you'd say the same thing, and as the site is made in Oz.......:)

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#3 18-08-07 03:52:35

blissed
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Re: Where are the women of color??

There are some here tho. If you look through the thumbnails in the 58 page archive at the bottom of the homepage, you'll see them easily.

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#4 18-08-07 17:39:37

Will
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Registered: 06-04-06
Posts: 216

Re: Where are the women of color??

And remember, the site is completely a voluntary project. It's all well bemoaning the lack of women of colour coming forward to contribute, but it's exactly that. Not too many have come forward to contribute. It's a shame, but it's not as if the IFM team can just go out on the street and abduct random girls on the street and force them to contribute.

More's the pity....

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#5 19-08-07 05:02:40

kesia
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Re: Where are the women of color??

I'd say I am a woman of colour since I seem to have the misfortune of turning a rather bright shade of berry when fiddling is complete...

Last edited by kesia (19-08-07 05:04:48)

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#6 20-08-07 03:06:59

blissed
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Re: Where are the women of color??

Welcome to the forum Kesia! I wonder if anyone has ever said to you, "you know I've seen you before but I can't think where" :) then you'd go bright red and then they do :) then you two have a good chinwag about fiddling :)

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#7 20-08-07 17:38:35

Brobdig
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Registered: 28-06-06
Posts: 6

Re: Where are the women of color??

Kesia: May I suggest that "turning a rather bright shade of berry" is NOT a misfortune!!!! Some of us think it very attractive and enhances the genuine nature of this site as the crude sites cannot show orgasmic flush for the simple reason that there ain't none!

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#8 20-08-07 22:45:59

gala
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Registered: 11-04-06
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Re: Where are the women of color??

Hi bobsyme - This is a valid issue and has been discussed intelligently at length several times on the Forum.  Here are two examples:

http://forum.ifeelmyself.com/forum/view … hp?id=1351
http://forum.ifeelmyself.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=778

It's definitely a concern of ours and we would like to have more diversity on the site, but there are also some ethical issues with specifically recruiting a particular demographic, so it's a tough thing to solve.  I know that the responses to your query have been a bit glib, but you are right to point that out and it's always worth discussing.

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#9 23-09-07 22:56:22

Ianclarke
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Registered: 15-08-07
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Re: Where are the women of color??

Of course in using the term "people of color" you immediately offend one particular group of people, viz. English pedants, such as myself smile COLOUR!!!!

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#10 24-09-07 20:37:11

Ianclarke
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Re: Where are the women of color??

I don't know if shzay_jay counts here? Definitely a beautiful exotic woman whatever her family origins. And her movie "Shudder" is AWESOME. Achieving multiple orgasms with such a simple minimalist technique is ---- WOW. More of the same PLEASE!!!

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#11 25-09-07 02:29:12

gala
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Re: Where are the women of color??

Yikes...there's that lovely word 'exotic' again.  Can anyone else smell that imperialism? 

I have to wonder how one 'counts' in regards to race.  Do you have any idea, Ianclarke?

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#12 25-09-07 02:56:09

kirejos
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From: New York
Registered: 20-07-06
Posts: 457

Re: Where are the women of color??

Mm, we just had this discussion too.

See here- The "Ethnicity and 'exotic' races?" thread/discussion we had like, last week.


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#13 25-09-07 21:47:38

Ianclarke
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Re: Where are the women of color??

gala wrote:

Yikes...there's that lovely word 'exotic' again.  Can anyone else smell that imperialism? 

I have to wonder how one 'counts' in regards to race.  Do you have any idea, Ianclarke?

To be honest (which I always try to be, although it gets me into all sorts of interesting debates) no, I can't define it!!

I don't have a degree in anthropology: maybe if I had, I could do you a dissertation on the detailed characterisics of various African, European, Asian and Native Australian "races".

But of course a high, and increasing, proportion of the world's population has a mixture of those characteristics anyway. I am happy with that. Some of the most handsome people that I know, (male or female) have physical characteristics which originate in a mixture of anthropological types.

As it is I have to rely on my own experience and observation. Most of the contributors to IFM are of European origin, which probably reflects the balance of the population of Australia.

For those of us who appreciate the various subtle differences in the human form, shzay_jay is an example of a beautiful woman who is NOT the stereotypical European.

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#14 26-09-07 03:41:49

blissed
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Re: Where are the women of color??

Ianclarke is a genius :)

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