masturbation party

henrik · 05-11-09 22:52:34

Has anybody of you experiences with masturbation parties. I have been told,that
some people meet there for masturbating in front of each other ,but setting the rule, that nobody is touching another one during that party.
Must be a special experience and atmosphere.
Who can tell us about such an experience?

blissed · 05-11-09 23:16:28

The masterbatorium at the masterbate-A-Thon is the closest I know of to what you've described.

http://www.sfweekly.com/slideshow/view/8331293/1

Heres the video interview.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaxWdp3rJro

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henrik · 05-11-09 23:48:09

Thanks blissed for your reply. But the masturbating party I have been described
was much more the kind of a private gathering. 6-8 people, man and women in a private living room. Sitting opposite eachother and pleasuring themselves and
that all without touching one another before and after.
Must be a kind of ascetic and I don't think I could hold me back. But that might be the special kick.

aven frey · 14-11-09 23:09:25

Hmm I vaguely remember reading about a, not sure what to call it, movement perhaps to do with these parties in the 80's in Australia of all places. As far as I know this died away. I shall endeavor to find the article when I get back to Melbourne (I think I know which book it's in). If you're still interested come back here in a month Henrik and I will have answers for you!

Greggor · 28-01-12 13:35:57

I too have searched for masturbation groups and have found groups of men who masturbate together. I do participate but would prefer a co-ed group. This is not to be found in my area. It has been suggested that I start one. Finding female participants is the problem. At best it looks like it would be several guys and mabye one woman. However, I keep my hopes up. I wouldn't mind participating in one of the masturbation marathons but it would involve more travel than I'd care for.

viva · 30-01-12 01:00:44

Co-ed group masturbation sounds kinda hot in theory but actually scary and uncomfortable when I think about doing it in real life with strangers. I'd rather fuck, to be honest - less confronting than touching myself in front of them.

There is of course Betty Dodson's gorgeous Bodysex workshops... they are for women only.. they are about creating a safe space to feel our bodies and our orgasms as a shared experience.. I wish to one day participate in one.

artemesia · 30-01-12 03:44:57

I think is something you could/would/will see happen in sharehouses of the future. There's a bit of a trend going around (melbourne and adelaide at least) that sees people giving up their individual rooms, in favour of a sleep space, sex space, private/quiet room etc. It sound like something quite a few people I know would be into, thanks for the idea guys!
ps viva, your invite will be forthcoming if i can get the thing off the ground

viva · 30-01-12 03:58:33

yes please!

what happens if you fuck in the sleep space, like by accident? Is everyone mad?

can you masturbate in the sleep space or do you have to go to sex space for that? what if someone is trying to make love while I'm watching anal rape porn?

aven frey · 30-01-12 05:44:56

you always have to complicate everything with your anal rape porn. Jesus, porno.

artemesia · 30-01-12 05:52:56

well..... if you fuck in the sleep space, i reckon people would just tell you to leave, you know, cause they're such empowered hippies. or you might change the vibe and the sleep space could become the orgy space by proxy..

but there might need to be a seperate room for the anal rape fantasy porn play, but yeah why not. the revolution is supposed to be inclusive right? so you get your anal rape fantasy play, but you might need to wear headphones...

viva · 30-01-12 05:56:12

NO HEADPHONES! *pout*

what about period sex! I like to do that in bed what if they laugh at me? what if they don't want to sex in my menstrual-space? can I have sexplay in the toilet space? where do I pee on you? do they tell us to go outside? I feel really marginalized!

I DONT WANT TO SHARE ANYMORE ARTEMESIA!!

artemesia · 30-01-12 06:00:34

well geez, if that's what we get for trying to include you, maybe you can just visit then and wreak havoc by eating peanut butter while you're peeing in the doorway?

besides, i think i'd like to build my own seperate menstrual house in that situation anyway...

viva · 30-01-12 06:02:58

Ha! Peanut butter is vegan and no one is allowed to be offended by that. When I pee in the doorway it's simply a territorial thing, there's no offense intended. I think in a true share home, we should all pee in the doorway, as opposed to those other houses where no one pees in the doorway... it's like no one truly lives there.

You can stay in my menstrual house artemesia <3

blissed · 30-01-12 13:01:03

I suppose peeing in the doorway is different from having to take your shoes off But don't be offended if I simply can't pee because sometimes you simply can't.

I love this tiny house

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pl … uyHGIxdjuQ

and the idea of microhouses as winter spaces, but for more that one person you need a seperate space. Praps some sleeping capsules that eject away from the house if the house catches fire. I think you'd still need headphones for watching porn that involves cries of pain though

Actually the body sex group was women only but it was open gendered and contained at least 2 people who were self declared and proud gynosexuial, (Betty and Liandra) if you know guys who aren't into dumbass broism and who are intellectually and emotionally open (and there must be quite a few in the artistic part of Melbourne, and I know at least one in the burbs) you could have a unisex bodysex group.

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Nowaysis · 31-01-12 13:48:49

This all inclusive house would simply have to be very very large. A room for anal rape porn with headphones, and one, soundproofed, with huge speakers. And of course one adjacent room with a wall that ISN'T soundproofed.

A sex space where period sex is okay, a sex space where period sex means you fuck wearing 18th century pilgrim attire, and one for both. The period squared space.

This would be some clever architect's dream project, with so many needs to fulfil.

of course, there would be doorways for pissing, and doorways for fucking. And doorways for fucking while you piss.

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