Orgasm

carstuff1000 · 26-06-11 07:58:53

Is it better to have an orgasm, or to give an orgasm ?

kypris · 26-06-11 15:16:16

Whom do you like give an orgasm? You can’t give anybody an orgasm. Everybody gives itself an orgasm, together with a partner or alone. Orgasm is very personally your own feeling and not everybody else can give you that feeling.

carstuff1000 · 26-06-11 19:15:59

You are 100% right. What I meant was, help someone have orgasm, if at all possible. Thank you for correcting me. Some times my writing not perfect.

errikka · 30-06-11 23:22:18

follow the kama sutra

carstuff1000 · 01-07-11 08:41:26

Good book, should be in libraries and bookshops. Would make an ideal wedding gift. ;-) You can buy on Amazon.

Greggor · 27-01-12 13:56:24

Interesting thread. I think more focus should be put on sharing orgasms. However the orgasm is achieved, it seems best when shared with another.

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artemesia · 28-01-12 14:28:56

ohhhh tough one... i'm going to go with having one because you can always direct part of your sexual energy to helping someone else have one, and i like being helpful. hahahaha

seriously though, if i'm with a partner i like and trust, or in a special place, i like directing my sexual energy to a spiritual purpose. so for me, having an orgasm can be part of a higher purpose.

one of my strangest 'directing-earth-energies-to-where-they-are-needed' experiences was a week before fukushima where my energy very clearly went to the north of japan.

since then i have directed a lot of my thoughts (and some of my funds there) but it was strange nonetheless to have a precursor grounding to the spot via the sexual energy channel.

uh geez, sorry for getting mystical on your asses, i try not to let it happen too often but tis a pastime for me...

viva · 30-01-12 00:51:51

Oh man I really like when I have an orgasm and it makes my partner come - on me, around me, inside me, on top of me, underneath me.

Greggor · 21-02-12 09:58:53

Delightful!!! Cumming on a partner is very hot!

Anya_K · 21-02-12 14:00:04

I love getting someone else off on me, then making myself come, it makes me feel very... useful.

Scottblueeyes · 26-02-12 19:55:26

Have always had a problem with just receiving, so the knee-jerk answer is; "of course, giving, then getting, and if I could have only one it would be giving". My best experiences have been taking time in bringing my lover to orgasm, then the "it's your turn" part. Seems to work best this way, woman first, then man vs. vice versa; because to sleep phenomena for men (which from my personal experience is a powerful siren call). For me, when she orgasms, there is this wonderful period of "I'm not going to have another orgasm, but it feels SO good to have you inside me while you take your time". That's bliss.

And....much would be gained for me from being able to enjoy just receiving and having the only orgasm of the evening. Not an easy thing for me to feel complete about.

viva · 27-02-12 00:43:25

If the guy keeps going after I come, and takes his time, I'm likely to come again. That said, guys being able to 'take their time' is fairly rare and to have "good sex" I generally need a guy to be willing to come twice in a session - or, stay aroused and not come at all, or come and then get aroused again without coming - I'm not fussy about who-gets-what, but maintaining arousal or at least being willing to get aroused again - sometimes it ebbs and flows throughout the session - is really important to me.

TAKEOFF13 · 01-03-12 05:05:15

I love watching the ladies masturbate, its a big turn on, when there humping on there tummies also.

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