#1 17-06-11 12:29:07

carstuff1000

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Beauty and the not so beautiful.

Isn't it strange, how watching, one of the most beautiful women on the planet i.e. I Feel Myself contributors masturbating in the most delapidated rooms or buildings, full of muck, rubbish, dirt, old furniture and aged matresses, works so well, and is so erotically charged and sexy. Why is that ? Is it because the surroundings do not distract from the beauty that is so mesmorising and awe inspiring ?

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richard

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

We've been conditioned by American porn (and popular culture in general) to believe that wealth is sexy.  It's revelatory to find that actually, people are sexy, and if anything, wealth can make them less so.

blissed

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

People won't just give you money because they want you to be rich. and generally no-ones gonna give you lots of money if you don't do something well, so What's a turn on and sexualy attractive is the diverse skills and qualities including confidence that enable someone to attract money, not really the money itself.  Though the 2 types of attraction can run side by side.
     Carstuff the neglected locations are just so aesthetic and unusually amospheric and if abandoned are just there begging to be used for free.

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carstuff1000

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

I like "people are sexy" :-)
I like "aesthetic and atmospheric"
Thank you.

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viva

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

Is it because the surroundings do not distract from the beauty that is so mesmorising and awe inspiring ?

Ooh I find it's the opposite, the surroundings are completely part of the aesthetic pictures and the fantasy for me. Naked skin looks vulnerable in a harsh environment, more real, and that whole urban decay thing - mattresses with the stitching popping out, graffiti, crumbling walls - serve in contrast to a woman's beauty, intensifying her if anything. But then again I do sort of have a thing for sex where its unexpected and lush satin sheets never did anything for me. I'll take a cold metal railing over a chaise lounge any day.

For me, the novelty of orgasm in dynamic, "unsafe" places also really serves to intensify the experience... maybe making for a more visually engaging orgasm? as opposed to those quiet comfy ones that happen inside under big fluffy blankets..

carstuff1000

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

I like the whole answer, really good, [bit like when you're young, and you do "it" any time-anywhere, cheers :-)

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xxEPxx

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

I'm reminded of Charlotte V's "Machinations", which is still one of the most erotically-charged contributions I've ever seen, and which surprised me as being one of my absolute favourites, since grimy urban decay wasn't something I thought of as a turn-on hehe.

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carstuff1000

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Re: Beauty and the not so beautiful.

Now that we know, what is sexy, I imagine, that the locations, may become, more grimy and urban decayed :-))

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