sex with a stranger

nibbler · 26-07-06 13:49:36

Has any of you ever had sex with a stranger? Like meeting someone on a train? Or in a library?

The_Elfman · 26-07-06 18:12:28

no

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Will · 26-07-06 20:05:50

Not a complete stranger, but I have had a one night stand before with someone I had literally just met within the hour. I remember her name, but that's pretty much all I remember about her.

I wouldn't want to do it again though. It wasn't my proudest moment, and it didn't leave me feeling great about myself. To each their own however...

ashmedi · 26-07-06 21:10:52

Unfortunately No

Burlesque · 26-07-06 21:14:39

Who on earth would want to have sex with me, stranger or not? (This is not an invitation, just a bewildered rhetorical question.)

Burlesque.

jerryb76 · 27-07-06 15:46:10

nibbler wrote:

Has any of you ever had sex with a stranger? Like meeting someone on a train? Or in a library?

I have never been one for one night stands or casual sex...I prefer to make love to a woman, not just have sex and in order to make love to a woamn, I have to at a minimum know their name.

Siobhan · 27-07-06 15:52:10

yeah.

me too.

but on the other hand, i've had stranger-sex with men that was so hot that the memories are sort of seared into my brain.

jerryb76 · 28-07-06 00:38:34

Siobhan wrote:

yeah.
me too.
but on the other hand, i've had stranger-sex with men that was so hot that the memories are sort of seared into my brain.

Stranger could have several definations in that sentence!

Siobhan · 28-07-06 00:49:17

hmm.
is this like eats, shoots and leaves? ~

fredgreat · 28-07-06 03:32:54

Interesting. Maybe women can enjoy as opposed to engage in stranger sex better then men? I once in college (years ago) had the opportunity and it went close but I couldn't. The mind is such a big part of sex. Maybe not from some brutes but for most guys I think so. I think stranger sex is something a woman wants and initiates. I might be niaeve though.

Siobhan · 28-07-06 04:04:08

fredgreat wrote:

I think stranger sex is something a woman wants and initiates. I might be niaeve though.

Hmm. well, for one thing, i think the nature of the beast (with two backs) means that men can not so easily initiate something like that. Everytime I open my browser today theres' this article about this whacko who killed 40+ women, mostly strangers, by offering to take their photos. . . .

So that sort of leaves it up to the woman, who is not going to present quite as threatening an image to a guy.

I can't imagine having initiated it with a woman -- good lord. What would one say? But with men I typically knew they'd be into it, so it was easy.
(really deep insightful commentary, I know. sorry. it's late!)

I don't know that we've met, Fred; Hi!

nihpuad · 28-07-06 23:19:12

Siobhan wrote:

hmm.
is this like eats, shoots and leaves? ~

It never dawned on me before how much that sounds like the plot summary for a porn flick.

Siobhan · 29-07-06 00:24:37

::bwahahahahaha!!:: quite true.

good to see you, dauphin. been missing you.

nihpuad · 29-07-06 18:43:22

Siobhan wrote:

::bwahahahahaha!!:: quite true.
good to see you, dauphin. been missing you.

I'm still here; just haven't had time to post much recently.

Siobhan · 29-07-06 19:23:05

hmm. me neither. Well, I'm not supposed to have had time, but my inner addict has been focusing on anything and everything besides the huge deadline bearing down on me.

Which is the perfect segue to say that I shall now put aside thoughts of preparing talking points for an event this evening and instead settle into memories of times when, in my fresh and carefree youth, I enjoyed the occasional pleasure of sex with strangers.

Let's see. . . which one to begin with? Well, several of us have mentioned trains, planes, busses and automobiles as moving palaces of pleasure; I think, in keeping with the mission of this site, I'll head back to that afternoon in London with the guy in the suit.

---

I was 18. I had lined up a paid internship with the Financial Times, mostly due to the connections of my godmother, my father's sister (the most beautiful woman in the world, among other things, and a seamless networker who seemed to know everyone one needed to know to live a charmed life).

He had clearly been one of her former beaus, and I gather it had not ended well for him, because he had been willing to see me, to hear me pitch my skills, but it was much harder to get the position. Only now, after his death and my ability to see her in another light, do I realize that he was angry at her.

Since he's dead, I can say that his name was Nick, and he was a great man. Not my boss, someone from another department ended up hiring me, so I only got to hear him in meetings, and, later, read his books and articles.

SO.
My aunt and cousins lived in Wimbledon on a sweet, ivy-strewn lane, in a Victorian rowhouse that alternately charmed and scared me. Oh, suddenly on remembering that house, I recall that I had more than a little sex that summer; goodness, I open another door of that house and it all comes flooding back.

It was a summer of pent-up desire. I was bursting at the seams with a wanting to fuck anything, everything. Two things probably converged to create this bottleneck; one was that I was in love with this incredibly hot sorority sister with eyes that were an unheard-of deep lavendar, although my mother always told me that Elizabeth Taylor also had them. Her name was Nina Tamara Froozzjhhtayar; I'm deliberately misspelling her name to avoid search engines and libel; but i'm also trying to spell it phonetically. it was the way j sounds in "jambon." Or "jardin;"

Nina was this very sexy party girl whose friends had no idea that she had performed at Carnegie Hall, or that she had a straight 4.0 as a biomedical engineer. She would do her physics problems at 2 in the morning, after 4 or 5 martinis and a couple of joints, in about 20 minutes, whilst I could barely manage to get out of my clothes after 2 beers. She was, in other words, Superwoman.

But, whoops, this story is not about her!
It's about another beautiful person, a stranger on a train.
And argh, I'm out of time. Someone's picking me up in 20 minutes and I need to bathe and dress. I promise to return to the tale and we'll get to the shuddering climax before that train goes through the tunnel. ciao for now.

jerryb76 · 29-07-06 20:27:37

Siobhan wrote:

....It's about another beautiful person, a stranger on a train.
And argh, I'm out of time. Someone's picking me up in 20 minutes and I need to bathe and dress. I promise to return to the tale and we'll get to the shuddering climax before that train goes through the tunnel. ciao for now.

Cruelty cruelty!
I did not know you had it in you sweet Siobhan!

corey2 · 30-07-06 05:03:17

I thought that was a rabbit... eats roots and leaves..????

Siobhan · 10-08-06 04:35:57

I remember that ride like it was just last week -- what I was wearing, the way the sky looked, how ready I was to get off on anything that moved....

I need to check out a map of the london underground to get my bearings; brb

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