#1 20-05-11 06:53:58

carstuff1000

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From: UK

Registered: 19-01-11

Posts: 395

Don't U just hate it :-(

Don't U just hate it, when your secretly watching, a contribution, on I Feel Myself, and feeling yourself, and your half way through the video, and U know the best is yet to come, [an earth shattering, volcanic eruption, of an orgasm]  and U can hear noises in the house, and U can hear your wife coming down the stairs, and U know U have 2 switch websites, otherwise U will B caught red handed, [with your hand in the cookie jar]  as they say, and your wife comes in the room, and U say morning, wan't a cup of T darling, and U know U will have 2 wait ages B4 U can watch the rest of the video :-(

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viva

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Registered: 14-05-10

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Re: Don't U just hate it :-(

Carstuff, if you take a look at the IFM.com forum, you'll find that I've just made a post about forum etiquette. If you would like to share your frustration in a situation like the one you're describing, please do so on a personal blog. This is not really the place for it.

hyperballad

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From: ifeelmyself.com HQ

Registered: 12-05-08

Posts: 635

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Re: Don't U just hate it :-(

What Viva said.

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carstuff1000

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From: UK

Registered: 19-01-11

Posts: 395

Re: Don't U just hate it :-(

Apologies :-((

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blissed

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From: The bus station of the future

Registered: 17-03-06

Posts: 5,622

Re: Don't U just hate it :-(

Well people have sort marriage counselling here before and it's really hard when you don't see the people face to face in a lengthy discussion. You have made one other thread about your wife not being interested in sex. And the best forum to get sound advice is Dodson and Ross http://dodsonandross.com/community It's veeeeery slow moving though and they'll tell you to seek counselling. 

Your wife not wanting sex and you wanking and hiding your sources of sexual inspiration  from her is fine if your both happy with that and I don't think you should feel guilty and neither should she if she's doing the same. I can't remember if you said your in the UK but here  The sexual health clinics (GUM clinics short for genito-urinary medicine) of any major hospital are great and have much more consistent specialist advice than GP's. Before they check your sexual health they discuss the context of your sex life and can recommend people who can counsel you and your wife. Disclosing IFM to the counsellor with the link so they can see exactly what it is you like,and that you like to see people enjoying orgasm can only be in your favour.

You can find your nearest here by selecting GUM  clinics and entering your postcode. http://www.fpa.org.uk/helpandadvice/findaclinic

Be nice if you could sort it out because you've posted about this before and I don't think your happy about it. Be nice if both you and your wife can enjoy mutual orgasms  and external sexual inspiration. And when you look at what you've chosen to view as porn!! I'm really hopeful.

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Last edited by blissed (20-05-11 13:58:00)

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