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#1 24-01-11 17:43:25

daveincali
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why only young girls?

The artists on this site are mostly early 20's. They have done a great job and I would not get rid of any of them. But I think we should expand our artist base to include older women too. Hey, soccer moms like orgasms too. Even my 50's wife gets it on with herself and it's hot to watch.
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#2 24-01-11 17:58:29

xxEPxx
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Re: why only young girls?

Er, well IFM don't have any hard and fast policy on age when it comes to contributors. I think it's just a case of whoever happens to be available; if more ladies in their 40s or 50s were to approach IFM, I would assume that something might happen. Richard (the admin) or one of the staff here would be better positioned to answer, but I personally don't see any deliberate bias of any kind.

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#3 25-01-11 00:10:26

ashmedi2
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Re: why only young girls?

Look for Spangles and Shea ...

As was said, the not so young are every bit as welcome as the young, but they come from a generation where it was more taboo and have a greater reluctance to come forward ... But they can be found on all 3 sites, BA, ISM, and IFM and if more would come forward, more would be shown smile

Maybe your wife would like to add a submission ??


Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust ...
I never feel rage, but lust is my fav of the 7 deadly sins ...

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#4 25-01-11 00:26:30

richard
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Re: why only young girls?

We would love to have more older women participate.

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#5 25-01-11 00:32:20

Xebeche
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Re: why only young girls?

richard wrote:

We would love to have more older women participate.

Ditto.


"I read Shakespeare and the Bible, and I can shoot dice. That's what I call a liberal education" - Tallulah Bankhead

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#6 27-01-11 03:59:47

hyperballad
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Re: why only young girls?

We can't exactly attend a soccer match and proposition all the mums present to contribute here.

I for one adore our over 30's contributors, but for whatever reason they seem fewer and far between in these parts.


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#7 31-01-11 14:18:09

stubawdi1
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Re: why only young girls?

I have to say whilst I love all of the existing contributors, especially you hyperballad (very naughty!!! lol) I would also adore to see more gorgeous mature ladies contribute, there is something extremely erotic watching a lady with tons of sexual experience take herself into a state of pure bliss using all of the tricks she has gathered along the way!! obviously can't just round up a group and ask for them to film but there must be a way "encouraging" more?

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#8 31-01-11 23:50:46

ashmedi2
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Re: why only young girls?

stubawdi1 wrote:

..... obviously can't just round up a group and ask for them to film but there must be a way "encouraging" more?

Why not? What's the worst thing that could happen? smile LOL

Maybe you're a better salesman than you think and the group has been waiting for this opportunity and just didn't know where to go smile

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Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust ...
I never feel rage, but lust is my fav of the 7 deadly sins ...

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#9 09-02-11 10:03:08

artist_kitkat
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Re: why only young girls?

I'll be 39 in March... wink, do I count?


I like it.  I like it a lot. I like it a lot and then sometimes not.

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#10 09-02-11 13:55:13

ashmedi2
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Re: why only young girls?

artist_kitkat wrote:

I'll be 39 in March... wink, do I count?

Kitkat ... in my world you are just barely legal smile
And very cute smile Loved your latest smile


Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust ...
I never feel rage, but lust is my fav of the 7 deadly sins ...

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#11 09-02-11 17:42:01

kypris
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Re: why only young girls?

Oh Kitkat, 39 and such an unbelievable great sexual power! Your «kitkatupclose» is one of the most erotic contributions I’ve seen here. Your passionate naturalness is just awesome.

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#12 12-02-11 09:30:59

artist_kitkat
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Re: why only young girls?

And who would believe at age 25 I was struggling with being frigid? My poor suffering boyfriend from that time is still very good friends with me though, I guess having a personality can get you through..:)


I like it.  I like it a lot. I like it a lot and then sometimes not.

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#13 08-03-11 17:09:47

Liandra_Dahl
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Re: why only young girls?

Well there is something to be said for not doing everything imaginable in a sexual sense under the age of 25... sometimes I would like to get amnesia so I can have first times again! heheheh

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#14 31-03-11 12:11:53

Damien742
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Re: why only young girls?

Arrrrh... Todays quota reached and I never saw you before kitkat. This will be a long 17 hours big_smile
But its great to look forward to! I like you face. Its kind and pretty and I love your eyes.

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#15 31-03-11 18:04:36

xxEPxx
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Re: why only young girls?

A kind and pretty face is so nice, I agree. Especially if they are of a kind nature as well. Kitkat is most certainly in that category smile

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#16 01-03-12 06:27:53

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Re: why only young girls?

Keep them young, and please keep the men out....!

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#17 01-03-12 06:34:46

aven frey
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Re: why only young girls?

of the barn? What happens when old men get into the barn? I think you're being a little unfair on old men, I'm sure you wouldn't like being banned from the barn. I'd take that back if I were you and wash your mouth out with acid. Thanks.

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#18 01-03-12 06:42:33

viva
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Re: why only young girls?

Probably Takeoff wouldn't like it outside - it's so cold and badly lit out there - but the barn smells so much nicer without him in it.

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#19 01-03-12 13:45:18

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Re: why only young girls?

back to the original sentiment of the post, I spend a heap of time on ISM and I love contributors over the age of 25... I'm not too sure why though. Maybe because they're my contemporaries. But I totally feel the same way on IFM. I love it when ladies take the time to check in with their bodies, and really build up the pressure... but frankly any contributor of any age still inspires me with their techniques wink


"You look ridiculous if you dance
You look ridiculous if you don't dance
So you might as well dance."
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#20 01-03-12 21:11:52

WLV612
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Re: why only young girls?

artist_kitkat wrote:

I'll be 39 in March... wink, do I count?

I wasn't going to renew until I knew the new Amari vid's were up however, I've been following the forums and there's been a lot of topics on which I wanted to comment and have been champing at the bit to insert my 2 cents worth but this is just to priceless too pass on and so I'm rolling the dice here but it's worth the effort.

kitkat, not trying to pump any sunshine up your skirt but I guessed your age at 28, tops, erring to the high side.
So what is it that so many of you do to stay looking so youthful? If you keep fit, you're going to look about the same in 10 years.

Perhaps IFM needs to produce a diet and exercise vid. There's quite a few contributors who haven't aged at all from their earliest vids.
Anyway......there's been a lot of great topics posted but all my replies are now dated and so I'll just add where I can on the new stuff.

As far as age or gender, makes no difference to me. I watch what I choose and pass on what I don't care to view. How simple is that? The tone of the site has been the same since my first visit and unless there's a radical departure in the offing, I'll keep looking in. IFM doesn't screen out males over twenty five, at least not yet. If they do, I'm toast.


"Chacun prépare sa propre mort."

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#21 07-03-12 14:15:28

artist_kitkat
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Re: why only young girls?

Hmm, good question. (Thanks for the compliment too smile ) Perhaps some research ought to be done into the anti-aging qualities of good orgasms.. We all seem to have that in common.  But I would also suggest that perhaps women who are willing to explore their sexuality (and body image) in a positive way are perhaps also aware of pursuing pleasure in other ways - like great food, laughter, sleep, sunshine and fresh air and the great feeling of being alive and fit.  I think enjoyment of life is the key to keeping young.  My grandmother remains my inspiration to this day.


I like it.  I like it a lot. I like it a lot and then sometimes not.

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#22 07-03-12 16:31:42

WLV612
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Re: why only young girls?

artist_kitkat wrote:

Hmm, good question. (Thanks for the compliment too smile )

You're welcome but it was an observation as much a compliment. I try to make an effort, when posting a physical observation about a site member to be objective but I've been in awe of girls/women, since I was 11 years old and I feel if I express an observation it's simply a reflection of what I see and my perception. Not hollow flattery or a shameless come on, but hang me for a fool, I love women and it bothers me to know of so many women who can't see the beauty they have. If you want to be seen as masculine, you're going to have to work a lot harder at it..

artist_kitkat wrote:

But I would also suggest that perhaps women who are willing to explore their sexuality (and body image) in a positive way are perhaps also aware of pursuing pleasure in other ways - like great food, laughter, sleep, sunshine and fresh air and the great feeling of being alive and fit.  I think enjoyment of life is the key to keeping young.  My grandmother remains my inspiration to this day.

As this site is proof positive of what you express, I'll extend it a bit further and note that the intellectual level of same type of woman is much higher as well.
So which comes first? I think once a woman (Or man for that matter...) has freed their mind of the repression that society can place on them, the other freedoms just fall in line.
That attitude, that sense of freedom is what makes IFM and the contributors on IFM so amazing.
The posts on these topics are as much fun as they are enlightening.  As free spirited as they are educational.


"Chacun prépare sa propre mort."

French saying.

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#23 08-03-12 00:36:29

viva
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Re: why only young girls?

I reckon winning life necessitates first taking responsibility - for everything you are and for everything you do. I think once you begin taking responsibility for all your actions, that "societal repression" is no longer an excuse not to explore your own body and lifestyle, and guilt begins to unravel into pure joyful rationality.

Aside from taking care of yourself in the case of random tragedies, the only thing left is to work out what you want and how to get it. I think that in general, taking responsibility for our lives and actions is what makes us proud of ourselves - and frees us up to enjoy the good things in life, while intellectual consideration remains necessary to make other good judgements.

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#24 08-03-12 01:38:37

WLV612
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Re: why only young girls?

viva wrote:

I reckon winning life necessitates first taking responsibility - for everything you are and for everything you do. I think once you begin taking responsibility for all your actions, that "societal repression" is no longer an excuse not to explore your own body and lifestyle, and guilt begins to unravel into pure joyful rationality.

Aside from taking care of yourself in the case of random tragedies, the only thing left is to work out what you want and how to get it. I think that in general, taking responsibility for our lives and actions is what makes us proud of ourselves - and frees us up to enjoy the good things in life, while intellectual consideration remains necessary to make other good judgements.

That's just perfect. I want to add something but there's nothing I can add.

You only get one shot at life. No, "Do overs".
What you've stated is as good a life guide as I've ever encountered.
I will add this quotation from Alan Moore's, 25,000 Years of Erotic Freedom , "Sexually progressive cultures gave us literature, philosophy, civilization and the rest, while sexually restrictive cultures gave us the Dark Ages and the Holocaust."
Really great post, Viva.


"Chacun prépare sa propre mort."

French saying.

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#25 04-05-12 08:47:59

artist_kitkat
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Re: why only young girls?

TAKEOFF13 wrote:

Keep them young, and please keep the men out....!

I'm not personally offended by this (although a slightly younger me would have told you to fuck off) but, I do feel somewhat saddened by it.  Granted, it is your fantasy, and no one can quibble against that (and I did find some of the quibbles a tad rude in their response) but I would question why you joined the site in the first place, being that this is a site about reality, first and foremost and about honouring that reality.  Which includes; age, sex, race, proclivity, personal appearance, and, intelligence, diversity, empowerment and the challenging of (ho hum) sexual stereotypes and the (ho hum) porn industry and it's tendency towards exploitation, not only of women (and young women especially) but of men's sexuality as well.   

Also, and I think this is the bit that saddens me the most (unless you are especially young, but even then, it bears thinking about) - what kind of restrictions are you putting on your own sexuality? Considering that sexuality is learnt behaviour and most women DON'T hit their stride until about 30 (which is still young, in my books, but definitely not the young of the usual porn demographic) and that this is not about faked orgasms (oh the irony of the porn industry! You gotta laugh, really.), you are missing out personally on some great experience.  But, beyond that - if you think that about women, what do you think about you?  What perceptions about age and your own sexuality do you unwittingly carry?  What do you really think about it? 

It's challenging, facing the truth of one's life, and one of the biggest truths is aging.  I think it's strange, personally, that we idealise youth so much, when really it is such a short time in our lives.  We spend most of our lives aging, and personally, I love it.  It's challenging, indeed, in many ways - but I've always found the harder road to travel ends up being the easier in the end.

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I like it.  I like it a lot. I like it a lot and then sometimes not.

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