#1 29-10-09 05:03:29

btec348

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a quick one

The question was asked, so...

When time is short and I'm alone, I can turn up the intensity of my fantasies to make me come faster; I generally can't do the same with physical sensations. I guess I could stand to learn some new tricks!

(More intense fantasy usually means more people, saying dirtier things.)

I suppose the opposite is true too, that if I've been going for a long time, a fantasy's energy will sort of plateau, but I can physically push myself harder.

[Edited to add: And I'm very curious whether other people work similarly.]

Last edited by btec348 (29-10-09 05:04:05)

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Re: a quick one

It has taken me until now to figure out what you were referring to here.  And I wrote the question! 

I think I tend to be the same.  I will just choose a really specific idea or mental image to focus on and pinpoint my concentration there.  There isn't much I can do physically to make orgasm happen faster, apart from a few days during my cycle when my nipples are really sensitive.  But I find that generally masturbation is very much about the mental processes and that's what I can usually zero in on when I am in a rush.  I can also get up pretty much immediately when I'm done.  I reckon I could get the whole operation finished within sixty seconds. 

If a fantasy plateaus, I just move on to another one, like in a longer session for example.  But there are times when I just can't really focus my concentration and the whole thing is just a lost cause.  If my mind isn't there it's not likely to happen.  That is not true for sex with a partner.  I wonder if that should be a concern. 

I want to know if anyone has any distinct quickie techniques, I'm sure there are folks out there who have a few special things they reserve only for the times when the pressure is really on.