#1 29-06-09 15:50:54

Squidgeon

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Registered: 06-05-09

Posts: 14

It Just goes to show

Hi guys and girlies, I just wanted to put up a little thingy jiggy that's been on my cerebral cortex of late. It pertains to the fact that no matter how much we go through, how much we experience and how much we are learnt ( a deliberate err of grammar). We actually have the power to blow our own minds apart and discover NEW things beyond what we already expect are our own limits as well as those that are around us.

The other Night something happened to me that absolutely left me in awe, Gobsmacked, Grinning like a chesire cat and extremely HORNY!, there also was however a morsel of me that was shall we say bewildered, a bit sad (for me and my partner) and little bewildered.

As a young male some years ago (I am now 32) I had myself a great deal of genital shame and embarrassment, mainly over size and appearance etc also a little teasing etc come sports day in the showers etc... Hence the fact that as an post pubescent male in my era I never experience they endeavors of my peers as I exp[ected that I did not have a lot to offer a girl in 'That' department. But I soon faced my fears and resolved that I would for sure make up for my misgivings in many other avenues and be the best damned lover I could be.

Many many years of researching my mothers medical books (A nurse) along with playboy penthouse etc I wizened myself up to the ways of the lady and actually forgot the fact that I didn't have what I perceived to be what others had. I made many of my conquests very happy and always made sure they were taken care of.... ( funnily enough the whole perceived size issue never came up) Turns out I was a grower and not a show-er.

Enough of that though back to the point of my posting. And that point is, No matter how much you know or how confident you are no matter how many orgasms she has, You can Never EVER! stop learning about sex. for years and years I tried and tried to get girls to squirt without success I totally and utterly love my partner now and we have been together for nearly fifteen years and we had both thought that she was not ever going to experience female ejaculation we tried everything..... or so we thought.

The other night I found myself yearning for her tenderness, her touch and her breath against my bare chest I was finding myself more and more in love and lust with her as every minute past. Now I have never been a slacker in the foreplay department and have always made sure my partners at least have one or two climaxes before I can even be satisfied. I LOVE FOREPLAY, this night however was very different. I took things much slower than usual and used my tender caress and kisses for almost an hour she was so relaxed she could have slept for days, yet so horny she was champing at the bit..... I took my time on her whole body and soon dissolved the tensions from her body and she eagerly awaited my loving touch.

when I finally did get to her most sacred haven she was shuddering with anticipation, and was the wettest she had ever been her clitoris - too tender and past the point of touching so I decide to adopt the two finger devil horns approach on her G - spot, Now she has never much liked this as she hates the feel of wanting to pee. but the other night was different. She knew it and I knew it as I softly yet firmly giddered (Patent/Trademark Pending) on her G - spot she started to dance on my hand, and with a few more gentle and firm thrusts the first of many wonderful delicious spurts of her essence found their target on the bed spread. We spent the next hour both very very happy and totally amazed before finally drifting off to sweet slumber in the wee small hours..... we now know what true sexual loving is.

Don't ever give up and do not be afraid to explore your path to sexual bliss. I only thought I was a good lover before. Just because I made sure she came before me. I now know that we all have much to learn!!

Peace out and enjoy yourselves.

Squid

Sorry about the novel length post I just couldn't describe this any other way, please comment if you like.

blissed

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Re: It Just goes to show

My view is that for everyone sex is more an art than a science and has it's own  opportunities for diversity of expression and creativity.

I made many of my conquests very happy

The conquest thing is straight out of the male libido, some people have it more than others but it's a trick to get you to procreate with as many people as possible, and it's a fantasy because for each logically successful conquest you have to be responsible for their children! So having to make years of maintenance payments doesn't really equal a conquest Lol

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Squidgeon

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Registered: 06-05-09

Posts: 14

Re: It Just goes to show

The conquest thing is straight out of the male libido, some people have it more than others but it's a trick to get you to procreate with as many people as possible, and it's a fantasy because for each logically successful conquest you have to be responsible for their children! So having to make years of maintenance payments doesn't really equal a conquest Lol

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Try telling that to the Vikings! lol.

Can't you at least be as happy for me as I am lol.
Seriously, Yeah I get it. But dude! I made her SqUiRt!! lol.

And now we are certain that what we are doing is making pure unadulterated love and not just sex, even without the wonders of female ejaculation something magical happened between us that night and it's been happening ever since.