#1 29-07-08 02:01:59

metrosexualbloke

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Girls Watching Guys

Do girls really like to watch guys masturbate? I convinced a friend of mine to watch me (a lady in her early 50's- who remained dressed throughout), who looked embarrassed for me when I finished- certainly not turned on. It was not the liberating experience I had hoped that it would be for both of us. Are only younger women into this sort of stuff?

blissed

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

Oh well she didn't go for it, doesn't mean anyone else in their early 50s wouldn't. Within most demographics there's lots of variety, it's just about being lucky and (whether they're younger or older) finding the right person.

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hyperballad

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

I really enjoy watching my current partner in crime masturbating... 

In fact I have watched a lot of men masturbate.  I find it incredibly hot.  Its also really fascinating to see all the different ways men touch their cock.  Pleasure aside, its a fantastic instructional guide too!

That being said its been something I've either asked to see during foreplay or its just kind of happened...  I'm not sure if it would be something I'd find arousing if someone was trying to convince me to watch them.

So I'd say keep on suggesting it to people you're intimate with metrosexualbloke, but I think its always going to be an awkward encounter if you're doing it with a mate. 

And its not something only younger women are into necessarily, different strokes for different folks - you *will* find someone open to the possibility I'm sure

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sequoia

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

Do girls really like to watch guys masturbate? I convinced a friend of mine to watch me (a lady in her early 50's- who remained dressed throughout), who looked embarrassed for me when I finished- certainly not turned on. It was not the liberating experience I had hoped that it would be for both of us. Are only younger women into this sort of stuff?

I'm sorry your experience wasn't a good one, metro.

There was one time when I was overseas watching my boyfriend jerk off on a webcam and it turned me on. But I'm 21, so I suppose I qualify as a younger woman.

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dandan

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

Depends entirely on the person.  A lot of people have moral issues with masturbation ingrained in them from a young age.  Being female and older makes that even more likely.  There are many girls who do like to watch guys masturbate, others who don't, and still another group who probably enjoy it but have difficulty expressing it due to their upbringing.

kengel

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

Does anyone know if there is a site for girls "helping" guys, like the friends-section in IFM?

bigrig

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Look under Hand Jobs

Soberman

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Sex and the appreciation thereof ain't age specific. So long as you're in relative  good shape,  the joints (the calicifed ones) don't ache too badly and you maintain a good sense of humor and modest perspective on life, you can crank and wank, watch and participate or anything else you libido desires.

Had lunch with a former girlfriend today at a lovely restaurant and she foot jerked me under the table, watched me the whole time sipping her wine and nearly burst out laughing when I quietly blew my rocks. The best part was when the waiter arrived and asked if we were ready for dessert. She's a pistol and hot at 54!

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CousinWayne

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

Eons ago, I was dining at McDonalds with a friend of mine from work, and quite out of the blue, she asked if she could watch me masturbate. I nearly choked on my cheeseburger. When I recovered, I agreed, and we went to her place later that afternoon. (She hadn't changed her mind!) She sat fully clothed sipping tea, while I gave her the full performance, nothing hidden or held back. She told me afterwards that she had always wanted to see a man masturbate, but had never been comfortable in making such a request until this event.  She said it was very exciting and stimulating. Once we were both satisfied that both of us had enjoyed having her watch me, and we were comfortable with the activity we decided to do it again sometime. I came around to entertain her a number of times, and she always enjoyed it, but she could never bring herself to let me sit quietly and watch her perform.

I have met other women who admit to enjoying watching a man masturbate, and a number of them have watched me. It's a great activity. I think most women who are old enough to be comfortable with sexuality, theirs and others', enjoy watching a man experiencing a nice wank.

Most women are horrified at the thought of a stranger leaping from the bushes, pecker in hand, to confront her with his performance. Rightly so; there are laws, and should be, about this. But most women, I believe, truly enjoy watching a friend or lover, or other known and trusted male, as he masturbates for her viewing enjoyment.

For some women, though, it is difficult to verbalize this, due to taboos and inhibitions. The hardest part of this event for her is mustering up the courage to ask, or to admit that she likes the idea. But that does not give the man the right to barge into her life and make her watch; when she is ready for it, she will say so.

For a man, the hardest part of the program is actually getting started. Once he is about thirty seconds along with his stimulation, the self-consciousness is gone, and the lady viewer is well into taking in the scene before her.

Women I have watched report the same thing. Standing in front of a clothed man, even a close friend or established partner, and undressing, lying down, and starting the masturbatory event is very difficult, but as soon as the first pangs of sensation come on, there's no turning back.

Yes, the viewer is clothed, and the masturbator is fully naked, completely visible, and the lights are on. This adds an almost palpable sense of a theatrical performance, with performer and audience in their respective roles. It's a hoot.

Extra credit: does she have a friend who might like to come over and watch with her?

richard

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Re: Girls Watching Guys

That's a good story, and you're a generous guy.  I'd have been asking for some reciprocation at least!