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Just watching Liza's Barnyard Bliss brought this thought to mind. The nearest it happened to me was last year on holidays. We left the kids and found a secluded bay to go skinnydipping. As no-one was around we started having sex in the sea before moving onto the beach where my wife gave me a great wank and blowjob. We're not sure how long they'd been there but I noticed a small pleasure boat had stopped about 50 yards away and the occupants were having a good look. My wife couldn't carry on with an audience so we slunk back into the water - pity. They waved and moved on.
Being more of a voyeur than exhibitionist I think I'd prefer watching than being watched. Interested to hear of any other's experiences.
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i have never masturbated outside in public during the day but i want to try it soon. there's a park nearby with lots of trees so that should be ok. i have masturbated outside at night on a golf course where my parents live but i doubt anyone saw me. i've never caught anyone but my husband chuck has. he told me about a time he was walking over some sand dunes at a beach where he grew up and found a girl and boy in their mid teens in a mutual masturbation thing. he hid and watched until they finished and says he doesn't know if anyone saw him.
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I masturbated on the roof of my house last summer. It's a semi highrise with student dorms in it, surrounded by other identical houses, and if you go to the top floor you can walk out on the roof like a terrace. During the entire summer I had this obsession with rain. I just had to go up on the roof during a heavy summer rain for some reason. The idea seemed to turn me on a bit.
When I finally did it, it wasn't actually raining as much as I wanted it to (I wanted to get soaked within seconds of stepping out through the door), but I stayed up long enough to look around, seeing noone on the neighbouring rooftops, and decided I would endulge myself.
The end experience wasn't really all that great. I masturbated to ejaculation very quickly (I'm seriosuly not sure the term orgasm applies here), without even getting a proper erection, but it still felt kind of naughty, and of course, anyone else living in the same house could have appeared at any moment (if it hadn't been for the rain that is).
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Hmmm... My wife, it seems, is telling my tales while I am working and she's home. Yes, I did once come upon a couple who, at the time, were about my age. They were making out and their hands were, umm, busy. Eventually, the guy came. In all honesty, I don't know for certain that she came or not, but it appeared that she did. I do know she definitely enjoyed what was happening, as did I. Yes, I admit that I hid and watched them, and yes, my hands were rather busy themselves.
This wasn't the only time I caught someone. The story of catching my female cousin has already been told in another thread some time back.
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Back in about 2000 I was doing my security rounds and I came across a guy who looked like he was working at his computer. I was kind of impatient to have the building to myself (that's how I like it) so I asked him "Having any luck?" He partially turned & said "Well I would.." That's when I saw the guy in front he was "fudge packing". I walked away embarassed but also amused-- quietly laughing to myself. A month or so later I then discovered a couple in the aftermath of sex. I felt as if they knew about the earlier situation & were taking advantage of my good nature so I spoke to them. Everything ended O.K. & I haven't seen anything since but I'm still chuckling as I write.
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A nature preserve near my home has several secluded waterfall swimming holes that are popular with skinny dippers and nude sunbathers. While the preserve is not offically clothing optional, the rangers that patrol the preseve do not take issue with nudity in the more secluded areas. I enjoy visits to the preserve especially on hot summer days to cool off in the pools and relax on the shady ledges along side the waterfalls. Others do the same.
My favorite spot is at the most secluded waterfall. I take a place on the rocks along side the waterfall and dip off in the swimming hole from time to time to stay cool. I also masturbate on and off (edging) for most of my stay. I usually save the orgasm until just before the last dip of the day. It is a delight to masturbate freely outdoors while listening to the soothing sounds of the waterfall, the song birds and the rustle of leaves from the gentle breezes.
From my spot I can usually see others approaching before they can see me. Most who visit the swimming hole do enjoy a skinny dip and some chose to enjoy sexual activity as well. I find the risk of 'getting caught' to be very exhilarating and if the new arrivals seem 'friendly to the cause' I allow them to catch me masturbating. The sensations of being caught, then being watched are exquisite. For me few other forms of sex produce such an instense thrill. The eventual orgasms are deep and fulfilling.
I am an exhibitionist and do enjoy any opportunity to perform sexually either solo or with a partner while (friendly and polite) others are watching. I am also a voyeur and enjoy watching as well. I've 'caught' many others masturbating at the preserve and, at times, couples having sex. I've become friends (at least summer friends) with many and enjoy sensual conversation and casual safe sex with at least a few. I'm fortunate to have found and become a part of this alt-sex culture. I also feel fortunate to have grown to a point in my own sexuality where I can be free and open about the sex that I enjoy. Closed doors, lights out and repression are no fun! I look forward to the summer ahead.
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@ Nowaysis..... I think you're onto something!!
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i've been caught having very public sex at a clothing optional festival. it was pretty nasty sex too, so i was rather pleased with myself that I kept on going despite the audience. maybe if the dude had been a babe, instead of a sweet talking swede we might have gained quite an audience.
I don't think i'd be able to masturbate alone in public somewhere. I've recently become obsessed with safer spaces, and I don't feel comfortable enough doing it on my own. But with a partner in crime, ah, sky would be the limit. But I personally haven't been caught masturbating since I was a kid though.
I have caught a guy masturbating before, but that was an awful experience. In a park near where I used to live, there was a public sex party every full moon (you read about these things in local graffiti, if you've got the eyes- and it was a hippy suburb). I was just walking home with my housemates dog, having accidentally stumbled upon it (i didn't stick around), and about a block away a guy started asking me questions about it. Gulliable me, it took me a full 4 minutes of his questioning for me to realise he was having a wank, and it him about that long to realise there was a girl standing in front of him. Needless to say, I ran off pretty quick.
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@ Nowaysis..... I think you're onto something!!
You mean the rain, or just public masturbation in general?
There's something about summer rains that turn me on. I think it has something to do with memories of being a young child running around outside our summer house wearing very little and jsut getting wet at grassy all over (lawns tend to get slippery when wet, as some other areas with overgrowth tend to do...), the sensual freedom afforded by not having an active conscious sexuality yet.
That same summer (which is now almost five years ago, I actually went up to the roof again on a sunny day and lay down on a blanket. That time, I took a bit longer, and since the sun was out and it was the middle of the day, I kept a look and an ear out for other people going up onto the roof. Just about as I was finishing up and getting ready to leave, I half noticed, half remembered hearing or seeing one of my neighbours from my very dorm opening the door out onto the terrace, but he went to the other side of the roof, putting the top floor building between us, so I don't think he ever saw me.
I sometimes fantasise about masturbating more publicly, not in just any kind of open space, but just vaguely in a place where people could see me, and I've actually indulged my desires in public showers ("Ew, gross!", I know but I figure, I'm showering with shampoo and whatnot, the stall is likely to be cleaner when i get out than when I got in anyway), but never when there were other people around. I'm not entirely certain, but I think the fantasy of displaying myself turns me on more than the actual act would. At least if the only people watching were other men in the bathhouse.
Also, being realistic, it seems far more likely that someone who caught me in such a place would be grossed out and offended than turned on.
I don't think i'd be able to masturbate alone in public somewhere. I've recently become obsessed with safer spaces, and I don't feel comfortable enough doing it on my own. But with a partner in crime, ah, sky would be the limit.
Funny that, how masturbation is kind of even more intimate than sex with a partner, and thus can make one feel even more vulnerable. Or is it just that having a partner would make you feel a sort of safety in numbers, sort of an "at least I'm not the only one doing it..."-situation?
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Nowaysis, I think Artemesia is referring to the fact that masturbating in public, especially in those secluded spaces with minimal foot traffic which are ideal for public wanking, is not really a safe thrill for a solo female. If spotted by a man with ill intentions there is potential of being taken by surprise and overpowered, and perceived as "asking for it". There is naturally more safety in numbers, so having sex with a partner is safer for a woman than jerking off alone.
I like to masturbate outside and in fairly "public" places - I mean, if my house is the only private place, they would be public, but generally I hide myself away pretty well. I like the places inside bushes where everyone thinks it's totally full of ... nature.. but really the branches bend in the middle enough to make a little burrow. I also like places where I can get on the roof because people almost never look up and if they did, they would just see my dangling feet. I have a place near my house where I like to go with some cushions and a small lamp, if the hobos aren't there by nightfall they usually won't come that night. I have a fantasy of jerking off at the local sports field under the bleachers but I would need to do that as an IFM because it's not safe enough unless I have a lookout. I also fantasize about having one off while sitting on the bleachers in plain view of the road, but I would be so small no one could make out detail, and I am very good at being discreet. The key is the book in your lap.
Trains and other public transport is a whole other story, there is safety in numbers and inevitably someone will know what you're doing - they can smell you. and see your color rise. but I have gotten very good at being invisible in spaces like this - again, the book helps - and also to be ok with someone knowing. As long as I am very discreet, the thrill is just that - I am not flashing anyone and anyone who's not actively perving on me has no idea. It's a very interesting, safe way to explore the sex with anonymous strangers fantasy... as long as you remember to get off the train in a public place, like a central station, so you don't get followed home. This has happened to me and it's really scary
One of my most risky experiences was in an elevator, one of the quickest orgasms of my life and I nearly got caught. That full story is floating around her somewhere and it is one of my top sexual experiences, I was crazy wet and literally couldn't help myself, I might have come anyway if I didn't touch.
My most public IFM videos have been my favorite to shoot, I'm looking forward to seeing them go up on the site one day.
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Nowaysis, I think Artemesia is referring to the fact that masturbating in public, especially in those secluded spaces with minimal foot traffic which are ideal for public wanking, is not really a safe thrill for a solo female. If spotted by a man with ill intentions there is potential of being taken by surprise and overpowered, and perceived as "asking for it". There is naturally more safety in numbers, so having sex with a partner is safer for a woman than jerking off alone.
That was something I did not consider at all actually. =/
My most public IFM videos have been my favorite to shoot, I'm looking forward to seeing them go up on the site one day.
I can hardly wait either now.
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This is a very interesting thread for me and many thoughts come to mind. As a boy of 14 or so I was 'shipped off' to my uncle's farm to work for two weeks one summer. My uncle would go off to his day job and we (my two cousins and myself) were left to do the farm chores. My aunt would take care of the house, the meals and a much younger cousin who was not yet old enough to help with the chores. It was mostly work but there was some play.
When it rained we were allowed to go out and play in the yard wearing only our our underwear. Being a farm the yard was rather large. There was a strawberry patch off to the side of the yard that was very secluded and we could slip off our underwear and play naked in the rain there. It was a new experience for me and after some acclimation I found it to be delightful. This play eventually led to some masturbation. Outdoor masturbation in the rain and masturbation again at night as we recapped the day before going off to sleep. I don't recall putting much thought into the matter, it seemed to come about quite naturally. It did plant a seed that continues to grow. I love outdoor masturation and continue to seek (safe and sane) opportunities to masturbate outdoors and to meet others who enjoy this pleasure.
As a young adult I did tend to keep my outdoor masturbation sessions to myself and out of sight of others. One day a young man came around and changed all that. I was sunbathing nude on a little island in a small lake. It was still morning and only a few people were out and about. The young man took a spot along the lake side just across from my spot on the island. We were separated by 30 feet (10 meters) or so. He was a good looking young man with a very nice body. He spread his blanket, got naked and sat for awhile taking in the nature.
He soon began to masturbate with his legs spread nicely apart. Slow and easy masturbation. Skillfull masturbation. At first I tried to hide the fact that I was watching him. Watching with great interest. However I quickly came to realize that his masturbation was meant for me to see. I could see that much of his pleasure came from being watched. I began to watch more openly and we acknowledged each other with smiles and nods. He continued to masturbate for pehaps twenty or thirty minutes. Beautiful masturbation leading to a very nice orgasm. He relaxed for a bit then gathered his belongings and went on his way.
This rocked my world as the social norms of the day would have me believe that masturbation was a desperate act performed only for relief and by the misfits of the world. While that can be the case the young man certainly showed me another side of masturbation that was very beautiful and also very thrilling. I became more open with my own masturbation and from that point on began to seek opportunities to masturbate with and for safe partners. It seemed that the young man showed me the (distinct) difference between 'jerking off' and 'masturbating'.
Since that time it has not been difficult to find masturbation partners. Most have been men but there have been some women as well. A young woman would sunbath nude at one of my favorate spots. Sometimes she would come on her own and sometimes with a couple of female friends. We'd smoke a joint together and just hang out enjoying the sun, the nature and the buzz. We'd also enjoy the sight of each others naked bodies. Sometimes I'd play a bit while applying suntan oil as she watched. Sometimes she'd masturbate a bit while reading books as I watched. It was great fun and remained a voyeur/exhibitionist/tease game for an entire summer. I do find that sharing time naked with others as with nude sunbathing and swimming tends to raise the comfort level and helps to rule in or rule out the potential for open masturbation.
I have had my own share of unwanted advances and continue to have them. None have ever led to a physical solution. Some have resulted in apologies. I think in the era of cell phones and phone-cams the person who choses to carry one has great power over an unwanted intruder especially if you take their picture before they can intrude on your space. A general knowledge of the place and the people helps most for me. I masturbate outdoors in only a few places that I know fairly well. I 'get caught' by others who I know are at least comfortable with nudity. Beyond that it's sensual adventure.
I find when I masturbate at home that I need something to inspire the masturbation. Usually pictures and videos along with fantasies. When I masturbate outdoors and especially when I'm likely to be 'caught' (by friendlies without clothes) I'm living the fantasy which for me heightens the sensations considerably. Balancing the risks and the thrills can sometimes be tricky. The eventual orgasms can be very hot.
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Greggor I just had mind-sex with you and I hope it was consensual.
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Oooo some great stories here. I have to say I have the same inclination as Nowaysis when it comes to summer rain. I have been hoping to shoot in a summer storm for the last five years. I recall the best summer storm in 2006. It had been about 40 degrees before and too damn hot. When it rained I danced outside like crazy then lay down and let the heavy drops tickle me all over. It is so erotic and so I wanked.
I've been caught masturbating in a few places a wood, a beach and a train. Nothing too exciting to report but the hurried zipping up and exchanged awkward apologies.
I think the funniest time I got caught was in my own backyard. It was about 1am and I was listing to Sarah Vaughan. I had been drinking with a friend who had just gone home and I decided to masturbate outside before going to bed. Apparently my music was too loud and so the neighbour came around to tell me. They let themselves in my gate to the back yard and caught me. They were in the middle of angrily telling me I was keeping their baby from sleeping when they noticed my jeans and knickers around my ankles and tripped over the step! It was pretty funny for me and their head long stumble gave me ample time to get my pants back on and turn the music down. Next time the music was too loud they just sent the police. heh heh.
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That's hot Viva and I'd be glad to consent anytime.
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Greggor is it the act of masturbation itself that you find arousing when men do it for you to view or do you identify as bisexual?
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Greggor is it the act of masturbation itself that you find arousing when men do it for you to view or do you identify as bisexual?
I didn't identify as bisexual in the start. As a nudist man and also being exhibitionistic, I did find watching other men masturbating to be both exciting and arousing. Arousing at first in the sense that I wanted to be more free in my own masturbation. Arousing also in the sense that I prerceive other nudist men differently than I perceive men in general. I was surprised by that. I do like the demeanor of most nudist men. I definately like male genitals. If I meet a guy, like the guy and find him to be physically attractive; If I enjoy the feeling of his company and conversations; I will masturbate as we spend time together. It usually is reciprocal. It sometimes leads to more but not that often. I do consider myself to be bisexual and that is the outcome of 'growing' in my own sexuality. However my sexual interest in other men is mostly for casual masturbation and sensual conversation. I do like to relate to men in that way. There are some men that I masturbate with on an onging basis. I am somewhat curious to do more. My interest in woman remains nicely intact. Yes, bisexual and aroused. Thanks for your interest.
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Bisexual men are just.. great.
it seems that its a big stretch for a man to identify as bisexual, or to feel arousal from seeing another guy's cock, and then again to admit it once it's felt. So any man open to a 3-some with another man - who will actually sexually enjoy the other man's presence, instead of just tolerating it for the sake of the playtime - tends to identify as bisexual or queer or something.
I personally don't identify as bisexual but I am definitely aroused by women and pleased to have a sexual experience that includes women. I think many hetero, openminded women are open to a ffm 3-way situation. but most het guys...
BLAH! Is my frustration showing? I just want my man to kiss another man while I jerk them both off! Is that so much to ask? MAN!
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The thought of a mmf 3some is intriguing to me. A true 3some where everyone has sex with everyone else. The thought of kissing a man or sucking his cock while his women gets pleasure from watching or contributing is very exciting to me. It works so well in my head but in real life it's a problem. For every hundred or so women that I find attractive and appealing, there might be one man. The chance of finding that couple with the right guy is slim to none. Damn!!
But............., I wonder what your man is like Viva?
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Oh I feel your pain Viva. It is so damn sexy and so so hard to find. I am trying to find two men of fluid sexuality that would be interested in the MMF 3some with full male male sexual interaction. It's impossible it seems. I blame the social stigma attached to male bisexual activity being much stronger than it is for women. So when men experience homosexual attraction and heterosexual attraction they simply opt solely for the latter to avoid the stigma with the first. Then they supress the gay attractions or they use anonymous glory-holes (or something) in secret.
Often heterosexual men and women are more comfortable with female female sex acts because they see them as softer (subtext; not as legitimate) as penetrative penis/vagina sex. It's a commonly held belief that creates a hierarchy of sex acts and sexual preference and the construct of "virginity" is entirely built on that premise.
In many ways I am happy that it is easier to be actively sexual with both genders as a woman my happiness is a little sullied by the implications of why that is. In most open relationship I have been in, whether it is with a man or woman, my partner has always been more threatened by another male being in the picture more than by another woman. male sexuality, when generalised about, is perceived as so much more predatory and disrespectful than female sexuality. I endeavour to tell as many men as possible how damn sexy it is to see to see two men getting it on. On many occasions I have succeeded in getting to guys to kiss and a few to confess they experience homosexual attractions. I have not as yet found any willing to do this on camera. *sigh* I haven't as yet approached gay identified male couples as I know many lesbians who hate it when men ask them to have a three way and I'm figuring the same rule applies.
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I haven't as yet approached gay identified male couples as I know many lesbians who hate it when men ask them to have a three way and I'm figuring the same rule applies.
According to Dan Savage, gay guys in general are less stressed about women approaching them for and about sex - whether or not they will actually have that sex - than lesbians are likely to be about men approaching them. This goes back to what you were saying about both women and men being threatened by a male coming into the picture whereas with a woman they might be more likely to feel fine - it is simply different.
There's hope man. I flew out on a whim Friday night to join my man for the weekend, where he's been living in the forest for the past month, and he told me he fell asleep cuddling other guys lots of nights and that he feels more open to affection from and with men.
score!
my first threesome was with 2 men. They were so hot. I was so angry that night.. I had crashed my car. I went to a house where my friends were and outlasted everyone but these two guys, and we were the 3 of us moshing hard around the tiny trailer kitchen. I had the bruises to prove it the next day. I was very attracted to both of them and one I had always slept with on an off... and I knew they were curious about each other... man. I am so freakin' lucky. The kissed each other, and then me, and then each other... and then it got rough. sigh!
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Oh My God Viva I'm So Jealous!
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I spent time over the weekend with a few friends who I sunbath and swim with nude during the summer months (it's winter here). It was a small house party with everyone in the nude. We all know each other fairly well and the comfort level amongst the group is quite high. Two of the women who attended are bi and freely express interest in one another. They touch, kiss, caress and feel quite openly. One of the women brought a young gay male friend with her. A very cute guy in his early 20's who from my more mature age seemed quite boy-like. He danced quite a bit (a sexy dancer) with one of the women (not the woman he came with) and she had fun touching is cute young body as they danced.
He also took interest in me. Our conversations started out at arms length but eventually we talked while sitting close together and body to body. He would place is hand on my (slightly opened) leg and I would put my arm around his waist as we talked. The woman who he was dancing with took notice. The situation was hot and suggestive and for me it was a rush to be open about my interests in this guy at the party.
At some point I ended up with the young man in the kitchen. We were alone and I took him into my arms, caressed is naked body and nuzzled is neck and face while pressing together c2c. The woman 'caught' us but did not join in. The 3 of us regrouped on the couch, sat close togther and talked for a while. It was getting late and the party was winding down.
While not quite resulting in an mmf 3some, it certainly was a step in that direction. There appears to be hope. We get togehter from time to time and more could follow. I'd love to share orgasms with both of them. Perhaps the day will come. We have digressed from the original topic. Perhaps a new thread should be started.
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Hot story greggor - implied sex is hotter than the real thing sometimes. does c2c mean cock to cock? I love that.
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Yes Viva, c2c means cock to cock and yes, the real adventure is in the journey. The slow burn will continue until the next time we are all together.
I am truely fortunate for these friends.
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