Oral fixation by Frauline

bodyhead · 09-08-06 19:19:24

I would like to expound on Liandra's post in that I think there's a definitely room for a a site that shows what films like Frauline and Marcus', with all combinations and sexes. Based on my own feelings I would have thought a lot of heterosexual women would have very much liked that video because apart from what Liandra said, Marcus was dead sexy with his jeans constantly slipping down, and he was a nice little mover too. The whole film had an extremely sexy rhythm to it, which can only be achieved by real lovers, I believe. And it had a poignant story to go with it.

So anyway I would greatly like to see a place for couple's films - woman on man, man on man, woman on woman, done in the IFM style. It would be nice to have interviews too, or at least some of their story . (This isn't to do with IFM, it's just that it needs to be the right people to do it.)

Siobhan · 09-08-06 19:28:55

bodyhead wrote:

...I would greatly like to see a place for couple's films - woman on man, man on man, woman on woman, done in the IFM style. It would be nice to have interviews too, or at least some of their story.

I very much agree.

All my life (or since before I could read, anyway) I've wanted to watch other people masturbate, and so this site has given me something I never thought I'd get outside of time with my lovers. It's wonderful.

AND something else I would enjoy would be watching couples I find attractive and (this is important:) to whom I can relate emotionally have sex.

richard · 10-08-06 04:32:36

Siobhan wrote:

bodyhead wrote:
...I would greatly like to see a place for couple's films - woman on man, man on man, woman on woman, done in the IFM style. It would be nice to have interviews too, or at least some of their story.
I very much agree.
All my life (or since before I could read, anyway) I've wanted to watch other people masturbate, and so this site has given me something I never thought I'd get outside of time with my lovers. It's wonderful.
AND something else I would enjoy would be watching couples I find attractive and (this is important:) to whom I can relate emotionally have sex.

Have you seen Tony Comstock's films? He does quite a good job of it, but intermingling the interviews and sex scenes is annoying.

Siobhan · 10-08-06 04:47:10

no; thanks for the recommendation.

distantadmirer · 13-08-06 03:15:02

I think it was lovely. I really don't care about policy. She was the focus. He was anonymous. I feel deeply that her orgasm was real. I thought this was a site devoted to female orgasm and not just masturbation. I thought that the parting comment about her losing her visa was a little catty.

Burlesque · 13-08-06 12:42:27

"Catty", Distantadmirer? Please expound.

Oh, and welcome to the forum! I should have said that before, but I have been weird lately.

Burlesque.

Burlesque · 13-08-06 14:39:32

Good! That means I am a man of some taste .

Burlesque.

aven frey · 19-08-06 03:59:05

When you get a bit busy you can miss it when someone says something lovely about you on the forum!! Thankyou Liandra, takes one to know one!! xoxox

aven frey · 19-08-06 04:06:32

bodyhead wrote:

So anyway I would greatly like to see a place for couple's films - woman on man, man on man, woman on woman, done in the IFM style. It would be nice to have interviews too, or at least some of their story . (This isn't to do with IFM, it's just that it needs to be the right people to do it.)

Defianlty - Tony Comstock does it really well but not often enough!!

heynowfolks · 25-10-06 18:45:16

Just joined, have watched 6 or 7 of the vids and am very happy about this site ! Many months past I belonged to BA and that is a great idea as well.

SO, after noticing the controversey about "Oral Fixation" I thought I would watch it and see what's up. Beautiful vid, very beautiful !

My question is this, to most here which is more important: the orgasm or the masturbation (meaning that it is self inflicted) ?

To me it is the orgasm, by leaving that door open I think you'll end up with a wider variety and deeper beauty.

hnf

Nowaysis · 25-10-06 19:02:11

Very true. Also, consider the possible double meaning of the site's name, I Feel Myself. That "feel" needn't always refer to the probing of soft erogenous tissue with fingers and dildos. It could just as well refer to the feeling of feeling your own orgasm. Feeling one's self, as opposed to feeling oneself.

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swzzlstk38 · 25-10-06 21:35:56

heynowfolks and nowaysis...Those were two of the most intelligent and cogent posts I have read on this or most any subject. Nice to know there are folks like you subscribed to IFM. I agree wholeheartedly with both of you. It's the orgasm, not the method of achievment that is important. I thought this submission was beautifully done in all respects. "I feel myself" certainly can have more than one derivation. I don't want to get in any arguments over semantics, and now that there is a separate category for "friends", it is a moot point. The usual great job by Richard and Max..can we find out what happened to Frauline? Would be nice to see her again...

aven frey · 26-10-06 04:15:37

swzzlstk38 wrote:

heynowfolks and nowaysis...Those were two of the most intelligent and cogent posts I have read on this or most any subject. Nice to know there are folks like you subscribed to IFM. I agree wholeheartedly with both of you. It's the orgasm, not the method of achievment that is important.

Yes I second all that!!

swzzlstk38 wrote:

can we find out what happened to Frauline? Would be nice to see her again...

All I know of Frauline is she returned to her home country but if you want to see more of her there is an ISM video that went up on ishotmyself.com last week. Hows that for cross promotion, excuse me while I go wash my hands!!

polarchill · 26-10-06 05:00:55

Liandra wrote:

Why is it that because mainstream pornography has made such a hash of human sexuality we should all be afraid to touch male/ female sex like it has the lurgy. Doesn't that fear perpetuate the current status quo? Isn't it the case that only bad things happen ( or continue to happen) when good people fail to act? I hope that IFM continues to portray female sexuality, and female sexual enjoyment and orgasm in all the forms it takes. I have faith that Max and Richard can do that with the utmost integrity and I should hope that fears and stigma will not turn them away.

Indeed. As John F. Kennedy would say if he were alive today, "Ask not what erotica can do for you, but instead ask what you can do for erotica." (no, seriously, he would ask that; after all, the guy was a serious horndog) If there is a site that is willing to approach a view of human sexuality in a refreshingly bold and honest way, is it too much to ask that the membership sit back and let the waves of progress rush over them? After all, the day-to-day goings-on around here are hardly unpleasant, now, are they? If from time to time something gets uploaded that doesn't match a particular member's kink, is it not too much for the member to roll with it, shrug, and say, "Eh. Tomorrow will be more to my liking"?

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Polarchill

Khanada Faye · 07-05-07 06:48:08

Since I have had an off-again, on-again subscription history here at IFM (due strictly to funding, just to clarify), I spend whatever moments I get with the site trying to catch up on past videos that I have missed during any of my absences.

I have just watched "Oral Fixation" and, upon reading that Frauline's visa expired five days after the film was made, burst into tears. Perhaps it is the late hour that makes me so emotional, but I suspect, rather, that it is the love that is evident between these two people--the respect they have for one another, how tenderly and voraciously they kiss (still, in my book, the sexiest thing two people can do together)--that makes the knowledge of her leaving that much sadder. There is the possibility that my love and I might be going long distance this coming fall (we've been together for nearly four and a half years), and the thought of this has left me very emotionally tender, indeed. I suppose that I empathized a great deal with this couple--the juxtaposition of their smiling at one another lovingly at the end, their gentle gaze, with the words indicating that she essentially knew she was about to leave him, was fairly heartbreaking. This is a beautiful film. I liked the use of subtitles--getting their story along with their lovemaking emphasized that they were real people who had a life together outside of the camera, who were sharing very kindly with us something intimate that truly existed between them. It's one of the reasons I also enjoy the Cherries videos.

So, yes, I'm a latecomer to a lot of these films, but I did want to voice my appreciation for this one and resurrect it from the vault.

Desertgirl44 · 07-05-07 09:01:48

Khanada Faye wrote:

I have just watched "Oral Fixation" and, upon reading that Frauline's visa expired five days after the film was made, burst into tears.

I also only recently caught up with this particular video (thanks Mr Elfman for the tip, in another thread) and was also struck with great sadness at the ending.

Khanada Faye wrote:

I liked the use of subtitles--getting their story along with their lovemaking emphasized that they were real people who had a life together outside of the camera, who were sharing very kindly with us something intimate that truly existed between them.

This was just a different kind of video, and I just loved the "whole story" concept. It was simply ... beautiful. Their shared intimacy and love really showed through on the film.

momentextase · 20-05-07 23:08:27

I am on again and off again too, I get so busy that just keeping up is a trick, and am so undiciplined at writing, I usually pass on posting.

Still, absolutely must add my voice to everyone who really liked this video. It is beautiful, and the relationship between these two people (sense of relationship-this is what is so totally lacking in common porn and makes it mechanical) creates such erotic potential that the sum is greater than the parts. While I understand it strays a bit from the usual IFM format, IMHO a bit of variety now and then is the spice of life!

Ditto to the comment "It's the orgasm, not the method of achievment that is important."

Yes, this story has such pathos, and that makes me empathise. Empathy and passion always go so, so well together.

n72ikkI · 25-05-07 17:37:57

Okay, so Oral fixation was a bit out of the ordinary for this site. It was still tastefully done and much appreciated!

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