Wanking habits - how is everyone getting off at the moment?

Mikaela · 16-06-21 01:36:13

Do you always wank the same way - that one tried and trusted method that will get you over the edge reliably? Or are you more experimental, trying out different techniques here and there?

I find I tend to adopt a cycle - i'll try something new and if it works, it'll be my go to for a few weeks before I decide to switch it up. If I don't have a new technique to try out, I circle back to past techniques.

At the moment, i'm really into anal penetration with the narrow end of my Njoy Pure Wand, combined with clit stimulation from a vibrator. If i'm feeling particularly insatiable (which is a common occurrence), i'll add in some vaginal penetration too. Sometimes I wish I had more hands, but i've managed to work out a way to use all three toys that involves lying on my back and moving slightly to move the toy in my butt, whilst using my hands for the toy in my pussy and my vibrator. Multi-tasking at its finest!

What techniques are you enjoying at the moment?

eden14 · 17-06-21 00:27:10

Wow that sounds amazing Mikaela, sadly I'm far more boring by comparison!

JAMMYMAN · 17-06-21 08:38:10

I think as a broad generalization, men have fewer ways of wanking than women.

Although there are of course exceptions, men tend to just rub their penises - some men use their thumb on top of their penis and two or three fingers on the underside, and just rub back and forth. Other men (probably most) take their penis in their whole hand and rub it that way. That's how I do it - I suppose it feels quite like it's inside a vagina.

Women, though, masturbate in lots of different ways - some rub their clitoris with their fingers, some insert one or two fingers into their vagina, some use a dido to 'fuck' themselves, some use a vibrator on their clitoris, some use water from the faucet (tap) in the bath, some use water from a shower head in the shower, some do it standing and rubbing their pussy against furniture or against the edge of a wash basin, and some do it face down on a bed humping their hand or humping a pillow or a soft toy. That's just a few examples - I'm sure there are quite a few more.

privignus · 17-06-21 18:12:09

Jammyman, guys have toys these days too! And before the fleshlight guys were inserting things in various holes (and inserting their thing into various objects) and sometimes having to go to the emergency room afterwards.

I have not been masturbating very often because of stress and antidepressants.

JAMMYMAN · 18-06-21 09:00:28

privignus, I'm sure you are right. Some guys experiment and some will use toys or insertions pretty well all the time. But the point that I was trying to make was that for most guys, most of the time, simply rubbing the penis is the way they wank. It's very satisfying, you have complete control over how long you take over it, it's free and you don't end up in the Emergency Room.

Girls, though, seem to wank in more varied ways. There are no absolutes, though. No doubt a lot of women wank in the same way that men do - by simply rubbing themselves until they come.

I'm sorry to hear that you are not masturbating very often because of stress and medication. I hope that things improve for you in that respect. At least you have a good place to talk about things here, and that usually helps.

CarlosCB82 · 18-06-21 14:35:02

Apologies in advance for the long post (so to speak)!

So I'm always looking at ways to extend my pleasure - I do of course have quickies, but when I have the time I do love to indulge myself. I've been exploring frenulum-based masturbation for a while now and marvelling at just how sensitive that little spot is, which got me thinking, what if I stimulate the least sensitive part of my genitals in order to approach climax more slowly? So I held myself in an unusual way. Imagine someone holding a burger in both hands (you're doing the hand gesture now aren't you?!) Now rotate your hands 90 degrees away from you, close your fingers slightly closer together and that is the grip I used on myself, right at the base of my shaft. The furthest point away from the sensitivity of my glans. Then it was a case of beginning a slow but steady up-and-down stroking, enjoying the hard, ribbed feel of my shaft with each pass. Rather than a normal wank, where the arousal rises quickly and intensely, this meant that I got excited constantly, but so slowly. So it felt good but not so good I was going to go over the edge any moment, a gorgeous, continual pleasure increasing ever so gradually. I kept the same speed the whole way through, resisting the urge to go faster or move up to my glans.

As I felt myself slowly approach orgasm, firstly I noticed my legs beginning to shake, then a warm feeling in my shaft as my pre-cum prepared to spill. Still that steady stroke, no faster, no slower. Then that first pre-orgasmic wave which normally would be there and gone in a split second but now drawn out over half a minute. Legs shaking uncontrollably now. I realized my orgasm had arrived now and my cock began twitching as if to say "faster, faster", urging me to stimulate it more quickly. But I held firm, the same slow pace holding me in ecstasy for 20 seconds or more. Hot cum flowing out of me and onto my chest. My anus contracting with each wave. I slowed my stroke down in sync with my subsiding pleasure and lay for several minutes, basking in that gorgeous post-orgasmic glow.

Donutbar55 · 16-08-21 03:23:56

i have a fleshlight fleshskins, their new smaller toy, i enjoy it far more than their other toys which are bulky and hard to use.

Ejaculator · 16-08-21 08:05:20

Hi Mikaela,
I've been wanking for a bit more than 50 years now. I never stopped enjoying it.
When I started wanking, there was no internet, no porn movies and the rare sex books were not allowed to be bought at my age. So I explored a few techniques but the common cock stroking quickly surpassed the others. Only where and when I did it varied, in the bath, sat on the toilets, laying on my bed, standing in front of the opened toilet (loved one) to ejaculate in them. Anyhow I agree with Jammyman on the fact that men, in general, are using much less techniques to wank that wowen.
When I got older and that majority age was turned from 21 to 18, I started to go to specialized movies to watch porn films. Of course I was wanking in front of the film and ejaculated in my handkerchief.
Later on VHS arrived which allowed wanking at home but implied to buy them in sex-shops. By the way the number of specialized porn movies started to decrease while VHS increased.
Then came DVD and finally internet. I was already "old" when te latter was easily available at home, not so long ago.
Nowadays to masturbate I need watching porn on internet (IFM of course but not only). The variety of films is incredible. If my wanking technique didn't change, what changed is the infinite (or nearly) possibilities of stimulation. What excites me the most is to discover something I never saw before and that's why I appreciate IFM who proposes nearly every day something different in the wowen wanking category.
Enjoy wanking and of course coming !

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