Would I have asked an inappropriate question?

alsbosilver · 24-03-21 09:16:36

A few days ago I posted a question about women keeping their panties on while masturbating.
I see that did not elicit any response ...
It seems to me, however, that this is something very common.
I take the liberty of reposting this question:

“In the thousands of videos of women masturbating that I have watched here and there and even with many of my partners, I have noticed that a lot of women like to keep their panties on. Either they masturbate on it, put their hand in it or more often than not spread it to the side.
I wanted to know if it feels special, if it makes you feel more naughty, or just because you want to make yourself cum so badly that you don't take the time to take it off.
Kisses to all, delicious women ... "

Christian (France)

viva · 24-03-21 23:37:03

I'm not sure if its an inappropriate question, maybe it just got missed!

Me personally it's mostly a combination of liking my panties and pure laziness.

Miriam_R · 25-03-21 01:00:22

I like the feel of the added friction when rubbing through panties, especially when I'm on my tummy. But that is usually reserved for a quickie in the morning or something, and not so much a session of self indulgence.

Mikaela · 25-03-21 02:07:17

For me, it's associated with a sense of urgency. There is something so tantalizing about not even wanting to spend an extra second to take them off. I also really enjoy it when a partner pulls my panties to side, not even bothering to take them off, before having sex because there simply isn't time!

viva · 25-03-21 02:11:47

sometimes I think my boyfriend is a little bit sad that I hardly ever wear undies. I will have to wear some for him so he can have a play.

on this topic, can someone please tell me what the deal is with like, wearing lingerie for a man? like what makes it lingerie and not just a bra and panties. and like, is there a special way to like....... show him you're wearing it.... for him....? Like we are naked and in various states of undress all the time. I'm not sure he would even notice if i was in "lingerie" as opposed to just regular underwear which ... I dont know my bras are all lacey and stuff. How does it work?

Mikaela · 25-03-21 02:42:59

I think I have my own definition of lingerie Viva - I have my "normal" underwear draw and then my lingerie draws. All my "lingerie" are matching sets, and often a little bit lacey/strappy. I don't really know what the official definition is though. If I wearing a suspender belt and stockings, that is definitely considered lingerie in my eyes.

viva · 25-03-21 03:21:18

Yeah that makes sense, if there's stockings and suspenders, he would definitely double take!

Miriam_R · 25-03-21 03:25:04

For me its also about matching sets, and I have to feel sexy and beautiful in it. As someone who doesnt usually wear bra's, when I do, its usually lacey or strappy, and I am wearing it for myself to feel sexy or for him to know I am feeling sexy.
I see underwear as plain cotton, maybe with a little bit of lace trim, but nothing fancy. That doesnt mean you cant feel sexy and cute while wearing it though!
In regards to letting him know you are wearing it from him (whether it is underwear or lingerie) , its all about the eye contact for me. Standing there in nothing but the lingerie, and very purposeful eye contact.

smoothed · 25-03-21 08:03:54

i am aware that as a cishet male, I'm in the minority when I say I don't really like lingerie. For me, I've always found it presents a very reductive objectified view of the female body.

But, when my partner began purchasing Agent Provocatuer and wearing it in beneath her dress when we went out on dates, I began to understand what it could represent. Lingerie became for her a means of straddling (pun intended!) the dual realities of the female body - she could appear normal and unadorned, and yet lurking under the surface was a teasing, mischievous being.

I've lately taken a liking to la fille d’O lingerie, I find their designs to be bold, inclusive, tasteful and sexy all at once. Hoping to save up so I can buy my partner a set or two.

alsbosilver · 25-03-21 10:04:35

Thanks for your answers, I really like this idea of urgency and also when Viva says she is lazy to take off her panties ...

alsbosilver · 25-03-21 10:09:02

Miriam_R wrote:

I like the feel of the added friction when rubbing through panties, especially when I'm on my tummy. But that is usually reserved for a quickie in the morning or something, and not so much a session of self indulgence.

Maybe just to start but I have observed that you really need to rub your clit directly ...

_hyperballad_ · 25-03-21 23:44:44

Not gonna lie, I only wank this specific way if I'm paid to - either making a clip or selling a pair of used panties. Otherwise it doesn't do much for me!

viva · 25-03-21 23:58:46

smoothed wrote:

I've lately taken a liking to la fille d’O lingerie, I find their designs to be bold, inclusive, tasteful and sexy all at once. Hoping to save up so I can buy my partner a set or two.

All of HQ has been gathered around my computer freaking out about this gorgeous brand. Woah.

_hyperballad_ · 26-03-21 00:00:07

viva wrote:

smoothed wrote:
I've lately taken a liking to la fille d’O lingerie, I find their designs to be bold, inclusive, tasteful and sexy all at once. Hoping to save up so I can buy my partner a set or two.
All of HQ has been gathered around my computer freaking out about this gorgeous brand. Woah.

NEED THAT TURTLE NECK SO BAD

viva · 26-03-21 05:23:44

this question has everybody buying lingerie on their breaks at work today lol

smoothed · 27-03-21 04:39:12

haha i really simp la fille d’O. IFM should do a collab with them *wink wink*

smoothed · 25-05-21 07:19:40

quick update re: la fille d’O - I finally bought my partner a bonte playsuit, and we had a great time with it. It took a bit of work to get her in it, but once she had it on neither of us wanted to get it off ... and boy did we get off. 5 out of 5! I highly recommend getting a piece from them. This is not sexual advice.

Mew · 25-05-21 07:57:36

So sexy! Not gonna lie though, all those exposed underwires give me the heebie jeebies - I find them HORRIBLY uncomfortable

Might be getting off-topic now but I am obsessed JBC lingerie....
https://jbc-lingerie.com/shop/women/

smoothed · 25-05-21 08:40:33

Mew wrote:

So sexy! Not gonna lie though, all those exposed underwires give me the heebie jeebies - I find them HORRIBLY uncomfortable

I was afraid she was going to find it uncomfortable too, but my partner found that it didn't dig into her chest at all!

Mew wrote:

Might be getting off-topic now but I am obsessed JBC lingerie....
https://jbc-lingerie.com/shop/women/

Wow this is very interesting! The garters are decidely retro, but the cut and stylings are oh so modern!

Piper_A · 25-05-21 10:11:16

Omg Mew how GOOD is JBC lingerie?! They make such beautiful things, but I particularly just love how inclusive they are - they offer custom sizing and have so many trans, plus size and POC bodies represented in their advertising. I hope the future of lingerie looks a lot like what they do!
P.s. miss youuuu!

tom1986 · 15-09-21 05:07:09

Le sigh, i was gonna write about how i have a thing for pyjama bottoms, probably cos it got burned into my head during early sexual experiences. Elasticated waistbands, being slowly pulled down over hips and revealing the curves of stomach leading to pussy... fucking hell, that really does it for me. But instead of basically writing a short erotic fantasy, something Viva wrote now has me thinking shit, how do I get to work at IFM?! It would be so fucking perfect, god knows what role I would take but I love the mission and the ethos and, and... I might have to make a serious attempt... hmm

tom1986 · 15-09-21 05:27:16

And also, Viva, any advice on that endeavour?

richard · 15-09-21 07:18:55

tom1986 wrote:

Le sigh, i was gonna write about how i have a thing for pyjama bottoms, probably cos it got burned into my head during early sexual experiences. Elasticated waistbands, being slowly pulled down over hips and revealing the curves of stomach leading to pussy... fucking hell, that really does it for me. But instead of basically writing a short erotic fantasy, something Viva wrote now has me thinking shit, how do I get to work at IFM?! It would be so fucking perfect, god knows what role I would take but I love the mission and the ethos and, and... I might have to make a serious attempt... hmm

ha good luck with your job search.

However you've reminded me of a theme I've been meaning to do for ages - we'll see if someone wants to recreate that pyjama fantasy for you. I can see how evocative it could be.

tom1986 · 20-09-21 15:23:25

Amazing! Yeah an ex told me that it was because it felt 'illicit'

holzspam · 21-09-21 01:09:57

tom1986 wrote:

Le sigh, i was gonna write about how i have a thing for pyjama bottoms, probably cos it got burned into my head during early sexual experiences. Elasticated waistbands, being slowly pulled down over hips and revealing the curves of stomach leading to pussy... fucking hell, that really does it for me. But instead of basically writing a short erotic fantasy, something Viva wrote now has me thinking shit, how do I get to work at IFM?! It would be so fucking perfect, god knows what role I would take but I love the mission and the ethos and, and... I might have to make a serious attempt... hmm

This is a powerful comment for me as I distinctly remember those seemingly endless nights during my earliest of self-exploration days. Even closing my bedroom door, knowing what was about to happen next, made me twitch in anticipation. The act of hooking my thumbs into my panties, almost in slow motion, as I lifted my butt and pushed them to my ankles, became a nightly ritual. I loved how on some nights, the slight spreading of my legs would render the gusset of my panties taut, revealing traces of my wet excitement.

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