#1 24-09-13 08:56:06

Laney

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Sexy Sexy Meditation

This class sounds like an IFM duet video, although if it was I'm sure it would en in "orgasmic enlightenment"

http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/09/i-went- … class.html

Last edited by Laney (24-09-13 08:58:53)

viva

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Re: Sexy Sexy Meditation

Woah I read about this on the plane! But the article sounds way weirder than what I read about - I think the person who wrote the thing I read hadn't attended a class. To be honest it sounds pretty awful - letting go enough for someone to give me a clitoral orgasm, personally, is not any matter of nerve clusters, clit mapping, or mechanics - that takes trust, yo. And smelly candles.

viva

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Re: Sexy Sexy Meditation

Reading a little more of the actual website, I do find it interesting again - if you can ignore the cringy terms they've chosen to coin surrounding the whole topic.

For example, I do believe that (as a woman, at least) when I am sexually activated my life is better in certain ways - my emotions flow more smoothly, I am more conscious of moments of pleasurable physical stimulus in the world (the feeling of cloth on my skin, water on my face, scents and colors) - but if you have to refer to that experience in noun form as "TurnON!" it kind of just makes me want to bury your face in my garden and pee on it.

Buuuuuut I am interested in the idea of an intentional "practice" around stimulating one's girl partner sexually, as a discipline, even when neither person is "in the mood". I have experienced firsthand how the daily blahblah can get in the way of connection and presence - sometimes I feel so spun out that I can't relax and might even slip straight from scattered, intense energy, directly to sleep, skipping any potential for emotional and sensual connection with my partner at all.

I don't know if this kind of thing is for me, but the concept could help a lot of couples who struggle with cold beds and diminished sensual connection in their relationships. If only the lady had some grace about the way she uses our language. The buzz words really irritate me.