#1 16-11-12 20:21:34

doneduardo

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Registered: 14-11-12

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How to get your lover to want to be eaten more often

First of all, this site is amazing! It's wonderful to see so many amazing women who really feel comfortable enjoying themselves. As for me, my sexual relationship with my lover is great. There is a real connection that we have emotionally, and our encounters are frequent. But what really turns me on is going down on her. Unfortunately, that isn't as frequent as I would like. There havr been times when she has allowed me, and it has been wonderful. Other times I feel like I have a lot of learning to do. She's the only one for me, and I don't want to be with anyone else, but I would love for her to desire to be eaten. The sensation of her hair brushing up against my cheek and her taste in my mouth is intoxicating to me. Any help is appreciated.

blissed

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Re: How to get your lover to want to be eaten more often

Ask her why she's reluctant as part of an honest communication. Say that what she says won't hurt your ego  but make you a better lover and let her teach you how to please her so that pleasing her is your aim. What ever it is, whether it's using a dildo or vibrator, for you she's hot so your going to enjoy it. Not everyone likes a tongue on their clit, some people hate it, or are just not keen and you have to be prepared for that answer too.

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doneduardo

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Re: How to get your lover to want to be eaten more often

Thanks blissed. I think that the part about open communication and letting go of ego is the key. Being with her and pleasing her is what i love. It's all a part of the process.

blissed

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Re: How to get your lover to want to be eaten more often

I forgot to mention, a good site to share with your partner is Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross http://dodsonandross.com/ Be nice if you could share this site with your partner too. I don't think anyone's a definitive expert on sex, but there are people around who's views convey some good information to get creative with.

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viva

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Re: How to get your lover to want to be eaten more often

I was just talking to some other ladies recently about this very subject. It seems most chicks fall into one of two camps - have orgasms from getting head and love it, or don't generally have orgasms that way and find the whole process ho-hum.

I fall into the second camp and my partner is someone who enjoys the sensual experience of going down on me as well. Of course getting his mouth down there is part of the general rolling around we call sex, but as for like, sustained periods of time, I'm not down

I wish I could come like that but it doesn't seem realistic. Mostly it feels good but I feel so disconnected from my partner when his head is so far away from my head. I get bored and distracted. I get out of the mood, no matter what witty tricks his tongue is playing.

My second-camp friends and I go around in circles. Is it us, or them? Would the world's most clever cunnilingus be able to enlighten us? Or are we just not that into it?