opening up

viva · 13-11-12 01:02:19

Hi guys. I just read this, a diary entry by a woman calling herself the hurricane sex diarist. She has an incredible libido and it's fun to read how the dynamics of her open marriage and her many sex partners interact, one with the others. It's also pretty damn sexy.

At the moment, I'm all a flutter with a raging crush that came to me out of nowhere. One day I was sitting with my friend and I heard myself saying, "Oh, xxxx? Yeah, I would totally fuck xxxx." I was surprised because I hadn't thought about it before it came out of my mouth. Then I fell asleep that night and had sex dreams all night about him, and when he called and woke me up in the morning it was clinched.

I do have an open relationship, but xxxx is leaving the country soon and it's too complicated to introduce this new element. He is also close with my partner. I don't know if he finds me attractive because he probably just sees me as someone's girlfriend. I don't know if all the sexual tension is all in my head, in my body, and maybe none of this has anything to do with him at all. We looked at the stars over the river. I slept over in his bed but he didn't make a move and I was too shy. The whole thing is delicious, a bit of exquisite torture in the sweetest way. I guess it would be even better if I could take it to the next level but even this is just... good. It's good to have a crush, the immediacy, the urgency, the uncertainty. I feel like I'm constantly turned on.

Anyone else crushing on someone right now?

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blissed · 13-11-12 02:10:02

I think you should sit with him at a computer and both read this ^

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Orioneye · 13-11-12 07:30:14

I find that a really sexy and endearing way to approach it, Blissed.

Thanks for the link Viva! It has proven to be a really nice read. Quality erotica (or, as in this case, sexy journalism) is hard to come by on the interwebs. Hot!

viva · 15-11-12 02:16:30

Oof! This is not erotica at all, but kind of within the theme of my musings, except sooo much bleaker than the way I look at my monogamish-ism!! However, I was intrigued by that mood, not despair but a post-despair, this matter of fact dismissal for our ability to be happy with our long term partners, the silly binary proposal of love being either "hot" or "warm" ie. comforting, safe, and equal OR sexy, powerplays, and passion. What a silly idea that I'd have to choose, than my lover can't bring me chicken soup when I'm sick AND wrap his fingers around my throat as he fingers me to a third orgasm!

Poor people who wrote those things but just think, to cheer you, about this brave new world we have to explore...

Here's the article.The sex issue: Is monogamy dead?

Orioneye · 20-11-12 03:02:57

It is a pretty bleak piece of writing, I agree with you Viva. Thanks for the correction on my minced words.

Just make sure you don't spill hot soup on yourself

viva · 20-11-12 03:29:27

wait hold on.. no correction necessary my friend, the first thing I linked way up at the top was heaps hot as, and the second was the bleak unfortunate piece. yes? you were spot on the money.

haraggan · 07-01-13 12:35:13

viva wrote:

Anyone else crushing on someone right now?

Other than you? Yes, of course. but neither of us is in an open relationship.

Cheers,

Matt

SongofMyself · 24-01-13 03:45:33

The "Sandy Sex Diaries" is why I sometimes love erotica. The "telling" part of sexy scenes. There's really nothing better than reading things like,"Half the bourbon is gone. I tell Husband to go down on me. We've been together forever and he knows exactly what gets me off."

Women compartmentalize, at least I do. I can respect her diary not only from a sex stand point. The woman is getting her needs met and is unapologetic about it. It's refreshing. While she receives sexual pleasure from all men it seems she picks and chooses who she receives emotional gratification. To a certain extent it's hard to discern which holds more weight for me.

I think Dom elicits a a deeper emotional reaction from our diarist. Throughout the entries Dom continues to be a source of anxiety as she is "feeling down. This happens sometimes after seeing Dom" and constantly tries to firm up plans to see him again. He seems elusive.

I like her characterizations and,not only is she a good writer/storyteller, the content is compeling.

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