booking tickets to japan

artemesia · 02-11-12 06:30:34

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQybuEiYTw8

"...Love Joule, a colorful new bar in the Shibuya district Tokyo, is the first "love and sex bar dedicated to women," according to the Tokyo Reporter. What does this mean, exactly? Proprietor Megumi Nakagawa minces few words. "Once they take a seat, customers are able to experience a pleasant place in which they can openly discuss masturbation," she said. "Since most people view female masturbation as something of a mystery or taboo, it is not a usual topic at typical bars." It's hard to imagine not talking about the bar's unique theme. Behind the counter, where rows of liquor bottles would normally stand, are colourful display cases filled with dozens and dozens of different types of vibrators..."

It might just be the first step to the masturbation dinner party I'd like my house to host one day...

blissed · 02-11-12 12:07:43

To the guy in the clip, the point of the bar is the sharing of ideas and information. When men do that there is a certain awkward barrier to break through first, but when you do it's a nice relief to discuss and calibrate ideas on something so personal.

Interested to know what the table manners are at a masturbation dinner party. Do you have to wait until everyone else has finished their food?

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artemesia · 02-11-12 14:58:54

Haha, no, we're anarchist enough to respect that we can't really give people rules, except that if you use it for your pleasure you put it back on your plate and not back on the table for dinner... oh and the general respect of not touching peoples bits or otherwise unless you are invited to do so

blissed · 02-11-12 20:47:14

You can't have a masturbation dinner party without cucumbers, bananas and the odd spotted dick

Could play games like the readings http://forum.ifeelmyself.com/forum/view … p?id=12821 Then there's the usual spray on whipped cream pubes and beards. Then the self Fellatio contests.

But back to the bar I found an article about it. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/0 … 30552.html It's a safe space to talk about masturbation. Much like this forum but not so inclusive. Love the internet for the wonderful exchange of all this information that was either female only or available to no-one. I certainly didn't talk about masturbation with other guys or anyone pre-internet.

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Orioneye · 07-11-12 06:54:45

Do you folks down under also eat spotted dick?

Clever... Blissed, you don't want to know what I thought it was!

blissed · 07-11-12 20:25:56

Spotted penis is a name crying out for a recipe Also here in England when carving the turkey at Christmas, you have to ask each person you serve if they want stuffing.

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Orioneye · 08-11-12 06:33:29

Yeah, we like to offer our guests a good stuffing here in Canada as well!

The version my mother makes (which is actually from the east side, where she was born, in the maritimes) might be fairly similar to yours-- sorry, I digress from the original topic-- but I can't help it... Food! Anyways, she uses lightly mashed potatoes with medium-dice sautéed onion, savory (a really delicious hardy herb, kinda similar in growth patterns to rosemary, but very unique flavour), bread cubes, and salt and pepper.

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artemesia · 10-11-12 01:11:03

Well gents, spotted dick is not a dish often served in good old oz. But from the sounds of it, if orions recipe is the one to follow it would work out well enough. I like the idea of making nipple puff biscuits.. i guess that would be some sort of meringue recipe, but not very approps for my vegan guests but whatever

Orioneye · 13-11-12 07:32:37

Artemesia how do you invite people to a masturbation party? Do friends invite their friends? When would people (or would it be necessary to) remove their clothes?

This is all new and interesting to me!

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artemesia · 19-11-12 08:03:36

Yo Orion,

There's no need for me invite anyone to the masturbation party, I'd just cook a dinner when I know all of my flatmates (stick and the wonderlust kid to name a few) are going to be home and I'd invite home the work crew too.

But I guess I could make invitations just for the collectables. I think I'd make it a nude portraiture event (I've seen another house do this) and have an allusion to solo play on it too. I currently feel like the masturbation fairy at my house (I showed one of my flatties ISM the other day, I bought the other one a vibrator, and I'm going to have a talk to one of them about not seeing the person he's currently seeing as he will have his heart broken again...)

I did try having a naked dinner before, but the idea got veto'd. But there is a long standing house rule that if (more like when) the temperature reaches over 42, everyone will have to be naked.

Wanna help me plan the menu?

blissed · 19-11-12 13:38:27

Do you now and then get a utility worker arrive unannounced to read the water meter. I do, and sometimes it's not really very convenient. I'd love that to happen at your place, as they come in, and on their way to the kitchen they walk through a room full of naked people, one of whom is on the floor covered in cream.

I can see them not making it back to their van in a typical porn scenario as they and their toolbag finally make it onto the site as part of your video diary

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jane_e · 19-11-12 16:55:37

There is something about melding food and sex that I just can't wrap my head around. I like food. I like sex. Ergo, food + sex should = good. But the thought of them combined continues to weird me out. When you have your party I'll be the fully clothed girl sitting outside with her bowl of whipped cream asking the meter guy how he feels about the price of water in Melbourn these days.

viva · 20-11-12 00:37:48

food + sex is not good for me either (ew, do not ever cover me in chocolate, do not lick it off, ew ew ew, do not kiss me with food in your mouth NO) but food + flirting DEFINETLY go together. A sexy long delicious dinner, as long as you keep it nice and light... food comas = not sexy. But dressed nice, eye contact, great wine, oysters, strawberries, and camembert, and laughter and slow smiles, separated by a table, innuendos in conversation that make my cheeks hot... well that that is a definite evening recipe for great sex.

Similarly, a bag of cherries while sitting on the floor in a new apartment, cotton candy on the pier, homemade sangria in front of the fire, tea and oranges when I peel the oranges for him, fresh basil picked walking through the herb garden, candied sage, fresh lemonade on the porch... unhmm.

I think my take on it is that sharing is sexy. Brushing hands, experiencing the same taste at the same time, touching each others' mouths, that widening of eyes when some extraordinary pleasure of taste sensation rises through your brain... all of these things are so sensual to me. Sharing sensual pleasure with someone I share attraction with too, the sexual heat will rise between us for sure. But god please no do not ever try to put whipped cream or candy anywhere near my vagina. And you can leave your flavored condoms at home too. Sex should taste like skin and cum and salt and breath and sweat, thank you, not vanilla or flowers or caramel green apples.

Orioneye · 20-11-12 02:53:15

I think I too might be outside with Jane_E, fully clothed but with fewer witty comments.

Viva, those are really great food images that mostly make me so nostalgic (especially those picked from the garden). What is more sexy than someone who has gotten sweaty in the garden and brought delicious bits back for you?

I think things like peeled or sliced fruit would be great for those inclined to eat and masturbate/whatever. Free hands?

I've never tried candied sage before... Care to share your recipe Viva? And what you would typically use it for? Perhaps this could be a goody for the food thread, wherever that thing got to.

Yo Artemesia, I guess I had envisioned it happening differently, but I suppose you work for Feck and are involved with some awesome folk... It seems like the platform for communication is already flourishing. I suppose that is what my biggest curiosity was.

I think there have been some lovely food ideas already mentioned. Maybe a finger food potluck (or just make some easy to assemble things done yourself)

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jane_e · 20-11-12 14:56:16

Orioneye wrote:

I think I too might be outside with Jane_E, fully clothed but with fewer witty comments.

Don't worry Orioneye. I am much funnier on the internet then in real life.

viva wrote:

I think my take on it is that sharing is sexy. Brushing hands, experiencing the same taste at the same time, touching each others' mouths, that widening of eyes when some extraordinary pleasure of taste sensation rises through your brain...

This makes me want to fly across the country just to brush hands with the last boy whose kisses I've tasted.

blissed · 24-11-12 11:08:43

Just a few more niknaks for people to munch on at the party

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