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#1 21-07-12 11:07:33
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Sexy Uganda.....Kachabali
Really interesting film about how sex is taught in Uganda. We need to import 2 words into English ssengaerne and Kachabali. You'll find out why if you watch 
http://www.dr.dk/tv/se/sexy-uganda/sexy-uganda#!/00:04
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#2 23-07-12 02:47:58
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Re: Sexy Uganda.....Kachabali
That was pretty fascinating. I love that the women there embrace their womanhood (especially the labia pride) but I don't know about having an aunt sit in on first sexual encounters. Sounds rather intimidating and distracting.
It's funny how bashful they are with speaking about sex in public though, considering the relative openness in regards to sex education and the family involvement in a couples sex life.
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#3 23-07-12 10:35:49
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Re: Sexy Uganda.....Kachabali
Yeah their view of sex as represented in the film seems very prescriptive with women faking pleasure to maintain a man's erection and pulling their labia wether they want to or not. I'd prefer a lot more latitude. It's a shame the question to the man "Is a womans orgasm important" which was answered in Ugandan didn't have English subtitles. But if they're faking pleasure the answer could be yes but still result in few orgasms for women. The main focus seems to be the mans pleasure which results in children. Kachabali was interesting and as one of the guys said in the diner was introduced from the west. I think when they're online properly with computers , with their openness, their online dialogue could develop a lot of creativity and variety extending into safe sex, kink and different styles just like music or any human art form. and they really badly need safe sex!
The idea that if you don't give a man what he wants he will get it somewhere else (by implication) by cheating on you, is awful. OK though if it's by honest open agreement and applies to both sexes. It;s then polyamoury.
They're tradition of not having a word for homosexuality, just that your spirit is for men or women was lovely. and I loved the words, "why be ashamed of your body, it doesn't make sense, you can't change it and you have it for your whole life. "
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