The real thing!

metrosexualbloke · 10-09-08 23:26:02

I love this site, but nothing beats watching a real person masturbate in front of you. Or masturbting in front of an attentive audience. Yes, penetrative sex is good, but I am just so into watching and being watched. I still feel a little bit of a wierdo for being so into mutual masturbation, most of my friends cannot see beyond screwing and getiing blow jobs, and look on me as a case of arrested development. As much as I can see why gay people want to have their own communities, as I can no more change my essential sexual make-up than anyone, I would love to meet people who would validate and support my views. I have had girlfriends who would not admit to touching themselves, and did not want to get involved- and this killed the relationship.
Perhaps this site could foster meeting in a local area. Jack and jill contacts or parties would be a good way of having a form of safe promiscuty in the era of Aids. I really do think that it could result in an openness that would blow a lot of the cobwebs away. I live in Glasgow and would be particularly interested to hear from any lady wankers in the area.

blissed · 11-09-08 00:52:45

First you should make a hotmail address just for your replies and put it in your profile here or put it in the post above. Then take what you've written here and use it to make a post you can make kind of anywhere on many different forums, I know there's loads out there, you'll have to do some exploring and search google http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q= … arch&meta= and then just see what comes in. I would think you'd be very lucky to find anyone through just this forum but you never know.

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gala · 11-09-08 01:53:57

I think there are other places where you can organise these things, and don't feel that our Forums are the appropriate place.

blissed · 11-09-08 12:53:27

True, though I see what your proposing as harmless and positive for you and see you as someone who's come to the wrong place and needs directions to get where they need to go. Hope my advice leads to you having some success, I think it would be really good for you to make friends who share the same sexual feelings. Good luck.

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metrosexualbloke · 14-09-08 21:19:35

I have taken the advice if blissed, and have got myself a hotmail account. I am a very respectful, "right-on" sort of chap, and, although the post was about making contact, I am happy just to chat. Yes I am a big "blokish" sort of chap, and I do like penetration, sport and beer. But I am very into female sexual expression; two of my biggest heroes are Betty Dodson and Carol Queen. I have learnt that you get more out of sex the more you talk, and watch, and talk and allow yourself to be watched. So I am not looking for some free live sex show. Far from it. I would be happy to display sexually and talk about sexuality with any woman, provided that their interest was based on healthy curiosity and personal growth, and for no return except sincere appreciation. I like women young (mid 20's and over) and old, provided that they have personality. I might just be a breath of fresh air for someone. Contact me at foolishbloke@live.com

blissed · 15-09-08 00:55:48

You should start a good blog about your idea, have a look at Sequoia's blog http://sequoiaredd.net/ and her post about her involvement with swinging and polyamory. I wouldn't specify what age or type of person your looking for unless you have a long long que at your door :) I would think how attractive you are and what your personality is like is gonna play the biggest part in this.

In the mean time you could do what hugh grant did (about his own fetish for public sex ) and see a nice legal lady of pleasure, if your lucky you may find someone who loves being watched, in which case she'll likely give you some valuable insights.

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