Male sessions

920663loulou · 16-08-08 11:30:35

Dear Sirs , why you dont put a section for males orgasms?
Lou lou

richard · 16-08-08 15:43:21

Lou Lou, some of the girls here are working on just that...

metrosexualbloke · 16-08-08 23:44:42

As a hetrosexual male who is into watching and being watched, I would like to see hetrosexual couples engaged in mutual masturbation. It is good to see a woman masturbate by herself, but also to see her get off seeing her man doing it. If the message of this site is that masturbating is healthy and beautiful, and should be part of mormal sex, this would set a good example.

taiwan2008 · 30-09-08 17:07:15

I agree with metro ... would love to see mutual masturbation as well. That said, I'm more concerned that with any new directions the honesty, simplicity, beauty and respectful eroticism is retained.

youlookgreat · 01-11-08 04:49:42

A key question/challenge for this site. Of course, I haven't looked at everything on the site, but have looked at a fair bit of "Friends," and suspect that there is no erect penis shown here. Of course, in the universe of porn there are plenty of them.

This site tries, pretty successfully (and thank you), to be a sort of lonely planet in that universe. Is it not possible to keep the focus you have, and also allow the male erection to be seen and appreciated? By both your viewers, and those you are filming.

Maybe it isn't possible, and that is why you haven't done it, but if so 'twould be interesting to hear thoughts of moderators/artists about why that is.

Greggor · 28-01-12 14:17:50

Very interesting thread! I too would like if male masturbation were added to this site. I do find masturbation to be beautiful and appreciate that (at last) masturbation is becoming accepted as healthy and legitimate sex. It is a delight to watch a person masturbate openly with skill and passion and without shame or guilt. It is a delight to see a person bring themself to that moment of orgasm and enjoy sharing that moment with others. Guys seem to be perceived as 'jerk-offs' and there are many out there. There are also many guys who are beautiful and skillful in the art of self pleasure. It would be nice if this site could present male masturbation in the tasteful and real-world manner that female masturbation is represented here. I will keep my hopes up.

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viva · 30-01-12 00:53:06

Don't worry folks, one day there will be a beautiful site dedicated to the beauty of male orgasm... and we will go there, and wank at them, in all their boyish glory.

Nowaysis · 31-01-12 13:45:39

viva wrote:

Don't worry folks, one day there will be a beautiful site dedicated to the beauty of male orgasm... and we will go there, and wank at them, in all their boyish glory.

I'm sure what it is, but your unbridled postings make me slightly giddy. And I'm not really into watching boys jerk off.

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viva · 01-02-12 00:48:45

Well I can be quite flippant, so I hope that's a positive kinda giddy

Yeah sometimes I forget that there's like, a huge part of the population that doesn't like penises... and parts of the population that only like a single penis, 1 lucky penis in the world that is attached to them.

I just think cocks are amazing, beautiful, special, and cool.

Nowaysis · 01-02-12 01:13:28

viva wrote:

Well I can be quite flippant, so I hope that's a positive kinda giddy
Yeah sometimes I forget that there's like, a huge part of the population that doesn't like penises... and parts of the population that only like a single penis, 1 lucky penis in the world that is attached to them.
I just think cocks are amazing, beautiful, special, and cool.

Definitely the good kind.:)

I don't mind penises as such, in fact I think they're pretty awesome too, and the generally ignorant and/or neglectful attitude many people seem to have towards them is a damn shame. It's like, female sexuality is this beautiful mysterious thing that's all soft and pink and fluffy and inviting, while male sexuality is at best laughable and comical, at worst invasive and violent. And these attitudes extend to the views people have of the genital organs as well.

I remember a fairly lengthy discussion I had with a female friend of mine about how we look at male and female bodies. It probably originated in a discussion of objectification, but it ended with me, the male part, trying to convince her, a very sexual person who really loves her men, but has said on repeated occasions that she really doesn't like the look of a penis, that we should be able to see men's bodies as just as beautiful on a purely aesthetic level as women's, but that' we're simply not taught to look at male bodies that way.

But I digress...

... and cumshots can be incredibly sexy if they're shot (lol) right. I'm just not sure I'd be interested in paying to see solo male videos, at least not beyond satisfying my hopes that it can be shot just as beautifully as the female videos you make here now. Now contributing on the other hand...

viva · 02-02-12 01:26:33

Nowaysis wrote:

It's like, female sexuality is this beautiful mysterious thing that's all soft and pink and fluffy and inviting, while male sexuality is at best laughable and comical, at worst invasive and violent.

This is so well-said, and so true. And it makes me sad.

IFM, so far as I know, does not intend to go down a mixed-gender path, but if/when we do see the male equivalent, I truly hope that the contributions ultimately portray masculine sexuality in all of it's bated-breath, naked-need, flushed and gorgeous glory. I hope that a site like that would be able to accomplish for men what I do believe IFM can, has, and will accomplish for women.

blissed · 02-02-12 01:49:21

Nowaysis wrote:

we should be able to see men's bodies as just as beautiful on a purely aesthetic level as women's, but that' we're simply not taught to look at male bodies that way.

True!

There are blogs though like

Naked men happy women. For now looking at it as an archive is good both for androsexual fantasy and even if you own a male body and are gynosexual. When you see your own body type portrayed with respect it lets you enjoy owning it and that feels good. It is a kind of male Feck type experience really https://nakedmenhappywomen.wordpress.com/

and there's Eden Magazine too http://www.eden-pure-erotic.de/EDEN-pur … 44904.html

http://my-miki.com/miki/eden-pure-eroti … azin/17141

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Nowaysis · 02-02-12 14:38:20

blissed wrote:

Nowaysis wrote:
we should be able to see men's bodies as just as beautiful on a purely aesthetic level as women's, but that' we're simply not taught to look at male bodies that way.
True!
There are blogs though like
Naked men happy women. For now looking at it as an archive is good both for androsexual fantasy and even if you own a male body and are gynosexual. When you see your own body type portrayed with respect it lets you enjoy owning it and that feels good. It is a kind of male Feck type experience really https://nakedmenhappywomen.wordpress.com/
and there's Eden Magazine too http://www.eden-pure-erotic.de/EDEN-pur … 44904.html

http://my-miki.com/miki/eden-pure-eroti … azin/17141
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Damn you, blissed! Now my browser is full of tabs with interesting articles and strangely titillating photos, and I have to go to work in about ten minutes.

WLV612 · 01-03-12 23:22:11

Nowaysis wrote:

I don't mind penises as such, in fact I think they're pretty awesome too, and the generally ignorant and/or neglectful attitude many people seem to have towards them is a damn shame. It's like, female sexuality is this beautiful mysterious thing that's all soft and pink and fluffy and inviting, while male sexuality is at best laughable and comical, at worst invasive and violent. And these attitudes extend to the views people have of the genital organs as well.
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I had a more in depth reply when this was posted but time has passed and I only remember thinking, "That's the truth!", when I read this.
I could continue but this has played out pretty much. I'll say this, if I had have been offered my choice on day one, my life would have been a whole lot different.

viva · 02-03-12 00:16:57

You'd choose pussy over cock? Wow. I mean I love my junk, don't get me wrong... aww shucks. I'm glad I didn't have to choose.

blissed · 02-03-12 00:59:31

Be nice to choose. When DNA resequencing is available it would all be reversable so a real choice. You could preview the look on a site like this http://morph.cs.st-andrews.ac.uk/ and it copuld write the DNA changes for you I'm gonna upload a photo and have go on it later.

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hyperballad · 02-03-12 01:14:02

This has nothing to do what is being said directly above, but for the record: I seriously love cock.

I adore the way so many men touch their cocks without any sort of self consciousness. Like they're making a sandwich or putting their shoes on. It's just so direct and honest.

I love watching men being tender towards themselves and especially other men. Probably why I love watching gay porn.

All of my male partners have been incredibly surprised when I asked to watch them masturbate. I don't understand why male masturbation has this perception of being 'not that special' - maybe it doesn't seem like that to others, but this is an attitude I have encountered too many times to count over my life.

A few of my female friends and male too have turned my unabashed love of cock into a big joke, it's ongoing and everyone laughs about it. It's weird. Although if that's how the people around me need to deal with feeling confronted, it's much better than being negative or down right nasteh.

My 2 cents anywho...

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HollyWood · 02-03-12 07:24:56

I LOVE COCK TOO HYPERBALLAD! It is also quite the joke to my friends. But, I do border on obsession sometimes... There is heeaps of cock paraphernalia in my house/life. I've asked boys to masturbate in front of me heaps - only one has denied me (we never had sex again). I think for boys it's just seen as another daily task like brushing your teeth so I think alot of people see it more as a fetish than a healthy sexual desire..

aven frey · 02-03-12 08:10:44

Me too. Just sayin.

WLV612 · 02-03-12 23:45:32

viva wrote:

You'd choose pussy over cock? Wow. I mean I love my junk, don't get me wrong... aww shucks. I'm glad I didn't have to choose.

It goes a bit deeper than the physical aspects of gender. Much deeper but yes, I would. In a heart beat. The M2f's I know are glad and in some cases lucky they were able to make the switch. They feel liberated and they explain it's not like putting a different set of clothing but rather more like removing a costume.
Some become attracted to males, many don't. So it's just an adjustment that wasn't made at the outset.
I agree with HollyWood. Many males do approach masturbation as a bodily function like taking a slash but more and more men are rethinking masturbation as a healthy and beneficial sexual activity. The rise in sales of men's sex toys or whatever one chooses to call them, and the refinements and focus on actually replicating as much as possible, the contact with a female (Or another male.) have contributed greatly to removing the "school boy" back of the barn attitude toward male masturbation.
However, there's no comparison to the female version. This site is proof positive of that fact.

blissed · 03-03-12 15:16:28

Being a woman is a nicer place to be mentally but a penis is so much less complicated. Men don't need a regular andrologist to maintain sexual health. no periods, your dick is as easy to find as your nose and can come powerfully in 2 mins. The down side can be for some, 365 day a year self pumped testosterone fuelled PMT's and the notion that you have to perform as an individual at everything!! even when your part of a team. Would be nice to have 4 hour orgasm orgies though. I guess I want a cock and a cunt I like them both and I'm sure when DNA resequencing is available I'll have them

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viva · 05-03-12 00:15:19

Boo! Last time I said penis was less complicated than vagina I got in trouble!

whatever, complicated or no, cock is ace. I wrote this ode to cock for sonic erotica that never got published... will find and post in honor of this favorite topic.

viva · 05-03-12 00:17:28

"I look forward to your cock. Most things in life are complicated, but your cock is not one of them. I look forward to it like a present, it's something I can feel through your jeans, find without looking, anticipate exact texture and reactions before I even get to it. I know you will smell like sex even before I make you hard. When I press my tits against your back and reach around you to place both palms on your cock, through your jeans, I know exactly where it will be, exactly how hard it will be, and the hotter my breath is on your neck and the more insistently my hips push up against your ass, the harder you'll get, you will try to press back against me and forth against my hands at the same time, the harder you get the less sense your actions will make - but they all make sense to me, because I control them. I call you and push you away, I wrap my hands around the length of your cock and squeeze and twist as if my hands were yours, the way I know you like it, cause I've seen how you use your own hands to jerk yourself off. I like manipulating you like this because its the only time I can get away with manipulation, and we like both it. Once I have you where I want you your cock is really insistent and hard, like its begging, but you, shy, act like you don't know what to do with it. I like this game, because I know what to do with it. "

Awww <3

ashmedi2 · 05-03-12 00:52:15

Ahhhh Viva <3 You paint such an exquisite picture
Just beautifully articulated ... too bad I was not him

blissed · 06-03-12 01:11:37

Viva that's really good! That penis erection belongs to you don't forget, it's yours

The clitoris and vulva's complexity is lovely and so is the penises simplicity. It's all good.

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