IFeelMyself for guys

ewcsiy · 01-07-09 22:29:56

I think men dont know how to be sexy or honest, there is too much macho porn shit that comes with it. I have tried to watch BA clips of men but they dont have the same feeling. I am a straight male but i have noticed that men worry and put on a show. I pick it up and then i get turned off by the clip. Men do have something but a deep breath and losing yourself would be a turn on. I masturbate and i dont make a peep....maybe a little at the end. To see a guy undress slowly and go from soft to hard and could forget that a camera is there and honestly get into it and not do it to get women but only pleasure, that would be the only way. I hope this makes sense?

gala · 02-07-09 07:12:26

That surprises me that you find male performance on BA. I disagree completely. I've seen lots of examples of males being very sexy and very honest on that website. Most of the men that I meet / sleep with seem to feel a bit shortchanged by the conception that they should be macho or put on any of the stuff that is presented in mainstream pornography, just the same way that women do. I think the porn standard is out of reach (or well below reach) for most people. I wouldn't want to film anyone who was doing it to score chicks, that's cheesy. But yes, I do think it's possible to film a man going through the entire process of self-pleasure without any of the theatrics associated with mainstream images of male sexuality. Very possible.

artist_charlotte_v · 02-07-09 09:20:02

The feasibility/possibility of IFM for guys aside, I think it would be cool to see some more "friends" contributions featuring boys.

mikey69 · 24-07-09 23:39:26

I would definitely submit a homemade video if there was such a site, or if there is a place to post on here. Luv the site and there is no need to go to another site, when the content is this good!

entreri · 25-07-09 13:34:03

I would second the idea of "friends" contributions featuring mixed gender setups, especially if they'd show both the female and male orgasm(s), rather then just featuring boys "helping" the girls.

danygirl65 · 30-07-09 17:55:27

i agree with Gala, but the whole thing it is not about how good a guy can spurt????? It is all about the mood, the guy personnality, mostly like the girls on IFM... I would watch men masturbating of course....

xxEPxx · 15-09-09 00:37:07

I don't consider myself an exhibitionist at all, in fact I've always thought I'm the opposite, and yet I find the idea of contributing to a (theorhetical) male IFM-type project oddly intruiging! As some have said, there are guys out there who could bring a similar vibe and honesty as the girls do so wonderfully on IFM.

xxEPxx

spiderboy · 16-09-09 10:44:25

Well I'm certainly on the record of thinking its a pretty hot and liberating idea...

BillKipling · 25-09-09 20:45:43

Hummm. as a new member, My hands are down (now, now, no funny comments) ;-)
It's an academic topic; but the financial model just lacks realism.
Men masterbating are just NOT lovely.
Kip

Rooster99 · 26-09-09 13:58:05

I would love to see boy/girl or boy solo scenes provided that they were shot as artistically as the IFM ones are. Most porn showing male orgasm is crude and caters for baser instincts. A guy masturbating slowly and sensually would be very erotic, and so would a scene of a girl manually bringing him to climax. Orally would also be good, provided that it doesn't end with him coming on her face like mainstream porn.

Rooster99 · 27-09-09 15:38:13

As an example of how erotic it could be, watch 'A Hard Place' by Matti.
It was almost disappointing that the penis became redundant. At first I thought she might be transexual. Now that also would be nice to watch!

gala · 28-09-09 01:57:50

At the time of that filming, as I understand it, Matti was at a point of transition. I'm not sure whether, at this point, Matti identifies as transgender or transexual - I think it's the former but I haven't had any contact in a year or two. I think it's cool, though, that you could see that as a good example of what it would be like to watch a male masturbation video. I don't know if it's that the penis became 'redundant' so much as it just didn't fit into the technique Matti uses at orgasm. It may have been very much in mind at that moment, just not physically present.

Thanks for digging on this film. I dig it too.

I'm not sure whether NoFauxxx.com do masturbation videos, but they are offering a free day on Oct 1 so you might have a browse through the site to see if you can find some transfolk you fancy. You need a login for that so if it's not posted on the site I'll post it here. They are specifically interested in representing the trans community. They do have a different aesthetic from us, though, so might not be your style, but it's at least worth a look! They're doing some great things over there.

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Rooster99 · 28-09-09 11:23:59

Thanks Gala, I will keep an eye on that site. Trans sexuality fascinates me (mind you, ALL sexuality fascinates me!). Most 'normal' guy masturbation seems to employ a brute force yanking technique, and I find it erotic to watch a penis being lovingly caressed, whether by a second party or by the owner. I consider myself to be straight, and yet an erect penis is very erotic. My own techniques have changed over the years and I now seldom employ the 'yank'. I wonder if this is an age thing?

btec348 · 29-09-09 04:51:33

BillKipling wrote:

It's an academic topic; but the financial model just lacks realism.

I dunno, there are a number of male masturbation sites out there that seem to survive just fine. Does your financial modeling include gay and bisexual men?

gala · 01-10-09 02:45:01

BillKipling wrote:

Hummm. as a new member, My hands are down (now, now, no funny comments) ;-)
It's an academic topic; but the financial model just lacks realism.
Men masterbating are just NOT lovely.
Kip

That's a total value judgment, my friend, and is not a sound basis for any 'financial model'. There are vast numbers of folks in the world who believe that masturbating males are quite lovely. I think your dismissal of it as an 'academic topic' is a veil for a matter of your personal taste, particularly becuase the discussion generated around it here has been very un-academic, and it's running on three pages now. If you can support that statement, though, I'd be keen to hear it.

gala · 01-10-09 02:49:37

Rooster99 wrote:

Most 'normal' guy masturbation seems to employ a brute force yanking technique, and I find it erotic to watch a penis being lovingly caressed, whether by a second party or by the owner. I consider myself to be straight, and yet an erect penis is very erotic. My own techniques have changed over the years and I now seldom employ the 'yank'. I wonder if this is an age thing?

That's interesting, I hadn't thought of that. Good point though. I've seen some really interesting techniques in my travels and now that I think about it, my least favourite is repetitious and fervent 'yanking' as you put it. But that seems to be a popular one once a man gets close to orgasm, does it not? The more variety the better, just like with female masturbation. You'll notice that particularly interesting techniques often get a lot of discussion around here. I think that's a good thing to keep in mind if you're making such things.

I like your open mind and your curiosity, Rooster99. They provoke my own.

gala · 01-10-09 06:52:00

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nofauxxx wrote:

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I should note that this in no way means that free porn is better than porn you pay for, and everyone should always subscribe to IFM forever and ever and ever. And, if you like what's at NoFauxxx fer free, maybe you should give them their money also, but only after you've spent some on us.

Okthx!

Folly · 01-10-09 08:50:15

oh so sad i don't have an internet connection at home

Rooster99 · 03-10-09 14:55:18

gala wrote:

..my least favourite is repetitious and fervent 'yanking' as you put it. But that seems to be a popular one once a man gets close to orgasm, does it not? I like your open mind and your curiosity, Rooster99. They provoke my own.

Certainly when I was younger if orgasm was imminent then nothing on Earth could have stopped me grabbing and yanking to conclusion. With males there is that subtle point of no return when you just have to strive for climax. I often wander if it is the same for females?

But after 30000 orgasms (conservative estimate) gentler techniques were found to be just as intense, and because of the sensuality, more fulfilling.

If I provoke 1/100th in you as you have in me, Gala, then I feel very flattered.

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