2021... lets go

viva · 12-01-21 05:01:58

Alright people. I started 2021 hitting one of my most treasured dreamed of goals - having an orgasm without touching my own clit. Was it amazing? YES. Was it easy? YES! Have I been able to do it again? NO!

It was just this spur of the moment thing... I was laying in bed reading with my boyfriend, not a care in the world, when I just started feeling crazy horny. I was going to ignore it cause my book was very good and I was near the end, but my body would NOT be ignored. I told my boyfriend I needed to come and he started giving me oral and touching me.. usually I'll let him do that and work me up but eventually I'll take over while he fingers me which is my favourite way to come. But in this case I just... everything was feeling so good I couldn't be bothered! I was so in the moment and didn't feel the need to change anything... he changed position from oral+fingering (I think he got tired) to fingering with his thumb on my clit, again, usually I'd take over then for sure but... I just... let it go... it was feeling so good... I just knew I was going to be able to come so I just rode that way and... WHeeeeeee!!! I did it!!

Then I took over my clit while he fingered me for like 4.. maybe more.. orgasms... we fucked.. then we fell asleep.. I woke up still horny!! I had 3 more orgasms!

Since then I have had some good o's but that was out of control.

My new 2021 goal? Figure out how to bring that easy, horny, needy, top of my arousal game back so I can indulge in it when ever I want to. MAN. There is just nothing like kicking back and someone else just gives you your orgasm... its the most awesome thing ever. I truly wish I were a man (or a woman with an easy time of it) just so I could have that all the time.

Anyone else have any lovely or exciting sex or orgasm moments over the holiday? Mikayla, you're always good for a tale or two...

Mikaela · 13-01-21 07:50:51

Oh wow, that is so amazing Viva! It sounds like 2021 is shaping up to be a year of awesome sexual development! My 2021 has been amazing thus far in terms of sexy times. I generally find it pretty difficult to reach orgasm, and it always takes me a while. When I am with a partner, I always preface the interaction by letting them know that sometimes I won't be able to orgasm with someone else as I really dislike the pressure (usually its unintentional) that makes it way into an interaction when someone is determined to get me to orgasm.

Anyways, I have been regularly seeing a relatively new play partner who is incredibly skilled at making me cum. The first time we played together, I had 20 orgasms and each time since then, we have broken that record. Not only that, i've been able to reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation (that had never happened before - I usually require a vibrator). I am getting super good at anal orgasms now, with no other stimulation required.

I also learnt I am able to reach orgasm through receiving pain (this particular play partner and I have a very kink focused arrangement). I had received impact on my thighs earlier and they were very tender, and he was poking, prodding and pulling on the sore areas with one hand and very roughly playing with my breasts with the other and I began to experience that familiar feeling I get in the lead up to an orgasm. He kept going, and I was able to reach orgasm. I have had a few orgasms like this since, and they feel different to my typical orgasm. More abrupt, and sometimes quite short but very very intense. However, the most amazing thing to me was being able to orgasm with no physical stimulation whatsoever. This has only happened once so far, but it was incredibly powerful. We were laying in the park in the evening, and he began telling me about some fantasies, whispering them into my as I laid beside him. I could feel myself getting very aroused, which isn't unusual in this type of situation but there was something about this which felt different. After a while, I began to squirm a little and he said "are you going to cum?" and I was adamant that I wouldn't, as I didn't think I was capable of that. He really really likes a challenge, so he continued with the fantasies, but he started to talk about my fantasies (some of which I don't think I had even acknowledged myself). After about 25 more minutes of this, I came - again, it was different to my usual orgasm. More subtle, gentler and less urgent but still magical. I am still astounded that through mental stimulation alone it happened. I definitely don't think this is something that will be happening with other people, well not yet anyway - hopefully one day!

viva · 13-01-21 23:41:05

That is all so amazing Mikaela... the feeling of being able to come when you're intellectually so sure it can't happen like that is just incredible isn't it. It makes me feel free, like there's so much left to explore... so much potential from my own body and the whole universe. I really want to experience anal orgasm. It sounds amazing. can you tell me more?

alsbosilver · 14-01-21 10:24:06

Wonderful story, Viva and Mickaela, I am really delighted for you that such extraordinary experiences happen !!

privignus · 22-01-21 08:07:40

Congratulations viva! I'm not feeling very sexy right now with the depression / burnout (and its hard to date or meet new people when the only person outside my household I can see face to face is the check-out person at the supermarket).

Over the past few months, I decided that many of the ways I find the human world so confusing and disturbing are related to my neurodivergence, which is probably the one that the DSM-V calls autism. I don't like labels, and we don't really understand what these brain differences that have medical names are or how they are all connected. But things like how I relate well with individuals but tend to get into trouble with groups when someone influential starts to take advantage of members, or my issues in crowded noisy spaces, or my clumsiness, or my keenness to research topics and provide evidence and expertise. I hope that this introspection helps me move forward to find my next job! Thinking about sex and relationships did not lead to big changes in my sex life.

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