favourite fetish?

viva · 10-06-20 01:31:44

Oh boys and girls, it is time to DISCLOSE!

I wanna know. What really gets you going? What's behind those normally-oh-so-responsible eyes of yours? What you wouldn't disclose in public... but you'll tell us here, in our cozy little anony-nest of pervs and wankers. Is it toes? Is it flows? Is it "oh no!"s?

I just have been finding myself discussing this topic a lot lately in my personal private nest of wankers (ie my house) and I find myself so curious about what weird little sex thoughts other people are having.

I'll show you mine if you show me yours, and here's one of mine...

Lately, when I'm wanking alone, my favourite way to come is to stretch out my legs and imagine a gallery of IFM members watching me, just beyond a screen just in front of me. And as I get closer and closer I stretch harder and imagine my toes penetrating and going through the screen, so that everyone watching can touch them.. and as they all make contact, skin to skin, I come.

Weird? Yeah! But it's working for me right now. So tell me tell me, what weird and specific things are you guys thinking about!?!?

Mikaela · 10-06-20 02:05:15

Brilliant question Viva! My mind is often overflowing with fantasies, so here are some of my most recent ones.

Not too long ago, I got to play on a Tremor sex toy (a saddle like, extremely powerful toy that has a clitoral stimulation or dildo attachment option). After using it, I often think about how sexy it would be to be in the middle of a room full of people who are observing me riding this machine, using it for my pleasure until I come. In my fantasy, the onlookers are vocal and are telling me what they observe, with really intricate level of detail. The exhibitionist in me is so strong.

I've also been really enjoying thinking about drool - specifically, me drooling as someone puts their fingers in my mouth while penetrating me so that I can't swallow properly and have no choice but to just dribble all over their hand. In this fantasy, I often have red lipstick on and as things progress, it starts to get smeared all over my chin. I was telling my housemates (who are a couple) about this little fantasy, and one of them was disgusted by it, saying she hates it when she has too much spit in her mouth when she is giving her partner head. Later that night, as I was self-pleasuring, I started to vision myself as a dental assistant who was on hand with one of those dental sucky things that they use to suction out the saliva and while my housemates were having sex I was using it to extract the excess saliva from her mouth. I wasn't sexually involved in their play though. When I told them they politely declined that ever happening, but they did think it was hilarious.

_hyperballad_ · 10-06-20 02:28:18

Oh goodness, I feel like the filthy internal parts of me have been turned up to 11 in iso.

Although a lot of what I've been fantasizing about is making pornography. Or really dirty live 'sex show' kind of stuff. All kinds of being watched & knowing that people are touching their dicks over me. You know what they say about not wanting something til it isn't on the table anymore...

I have been exploring & thinking about butt stuff considerably. I've found all of these intensely pleasurable spots inside my ass, to the point where if I'm having a regular mazz sometimes just thinking about the feeling of inserting fingers/a toy into my butt tips me over the edge.

Right now my brain is particularly enjoying 2 specific scenarios: 1) complete loss of autonomy, being restrained & forced to orgasm through all different kinds of methods. There is a definite element of being used as a play thing but mostly it's the restraints, being put on 'show' & the forced orgasms & 2) piss. I love everything about peeing, but I'm so very fixated on a fantasy of peeing directly into a mans mouth & watching him very much -react- in real time. Then pegging his nose & 'making' him drink it.

That's probably enough from me lol

viva · 10-06-20 02:58:53

oh my gosh I love you guys so much. the absolute hotness!! I love that we all want to be watched... that's so consistent with what we do here... Mikaela that drool thing, what the actual fuck, I love it so much. super hot, and the detail with which you write about it... Ive got shivers... the dentist thing... agh I just love your brain. I want you to write smut and then I want to read it and wank to it.

Hyperb I love yours too, I love how the two specific scenarios are so contrasting and yet harmonious with one another... in one, to be acted upon, in the other, to act upon. What kind of reactions do you imagine from the man taking your pee?

moreva79 · 10-06-20 03:26:25

Oh Viva! We are very in tune here... i often think about what it would be like to be inside the IFM videos and mutually masturbating with everyone. i love edging myself to time my orgasm with whoever I'm watching.

Mikaela, i've been to a number of sex-positive festivals where there has been drooling workshops. One of the hottest, most erotic and sensual experiences I had was being naked and drooled all over, including in my mouth. Never knew I would love that fetish as much as I did!

_redbird_ · 10-06-20 04:25:07

Narrative really turns me on, and when I fantasize I make up a convoluted plot that often involves reluctant feelings and/or attraction and the sex part in the fantasy is more of a nice added bonus. My fantasies basically always feature Doctor Who characters, or just fictional characters (sometimes of my own creation) but I've also had some friend's parents and teacher fantasies of late. Silver foxes do it for me so much, and I find that in these fantasies I'm rarely ever adored or admired, as indifference and/or unwanted attraction turns me on much more than being told I'm desired ever could.

Someone I occasionally fantasize about is my semi-regular doctor at my local health clinic. To look at him he doesn't immediately strike you as someone you would fantasize about, he's slightly balding, and quite short and stocky but he has a beautiful calming voice and the clinical and professional way he touches me whenever I've had to see him is so flippin' hot. One time when he was lightly pressing on my abdomen I got the biggest lady boner and my heart started racing and I worried that he could somehow tell what I was thinking and be offended, but then that also turned me on even more. I masturbated almost immediately when I got home, but came very close to taking up a spot in the bathroom at the clinic and going to town on myself there. If it wasn't for the fact that there was only one toilet and I felt bad occupying it for non-essential reasons, I would have absolutely had a quick mazz, as it physically hurts (in a good way) when I'm so turned on that my clit and up inside my butt throbs, and it's like a little sexy demon that I need to exorcise from my body.

Howland · 11-06-20 19:13:25

_redbird_ wrote:

Silver foxes do it for me so much, and I find that in these fantasies I'm rarely ever adored or admired, as indifference and/or unwanted attraction turns me on much more than being told I'm desired ever could.

I might be able to do the silver thing, but indifference? Phew, not happening. (I think we're all in agreement here about that – but you knew that.) Also, I think the term "lady boner" is hilarious. As for Doctor Who characters, I don't actually fantasize about them, but you might be amused to know that I think the lizard/dinosaur woman character (forget her name) is hella cute.

_hyperballad_ · 12-06-20 00:50:07

Ooooof redbird, that's some sizzling hot stuff. I'm sitting at my desk sympathy blushing rn. I also very much dig on silver foxes, I am very attracted to men who look like somebodies dad (make of that what you will) but in a pretty specific way. Remind me to tell you about Tinder Dad sometime! Heehee

Viva, I was trying to politely say while pissing in his mouth I watch him get an enormous boner. A very direct effect of pee in mouth = very hard dick. I'm not sure why I was trying to be so polite lol.

I wanna hear from moar peoples. I think my very favourite part of doing phone sex is getting to hear what truly gets people off. It tickles me so much.

privignus · 13-06-20 23:48:00

Oh, crikey. I talked about the one involving the chief marketing officer at Zoom and a seven-day course in what not respecting people's boundaries feels like right?

Or perving out about someone's butt and legs and then realizing it is a guy? I don't fantasize about guys or watch or read male-male porn though.

Do the Aussie women like yoga leggings right now? I get confused because I don't always know when people are wearing them to look sexy and when they just think they are comfortable, but damn.

Orgasm86 · 14-06-20 05:40:30

Viva, you always come up with fantastic topics!

I do have a little fantasy, actually.

I arrive at the home of a woman I love and knock on her door. She answers and practically pulls me inside. She doesn't say a single word and she's only wearing a robe and a smile.

She leads me to her living room where there is only a single chair. She gestures to my clothes and I remove all of them. She then playfully pushes me into the chair and climbs on top of me as we eagerly kiss. Her hands run all across me, eventually meeting my own and our fingers interlace.

I'm so lost in her mouth that I barely acknowledge how she is moving my arms around...but next thing I know, she has tied my arms behind the back of the chair. I'm now trapped onto the chair, unable to move.

The robe comes off now. She's completely naked. She then pulls another chair around and props it in front of me, just outside of the reach of my legs. And thus begins a torturous display as she proceeds to slowly touch herself, eventually bringing herself to a powerful orgasm as I'm watching helplessly, aching, dying for touch.

And with herself satisfied, she sits up, slinks back over to me, climbs on top, and fucks my brains out.

eden14 · 15-06-20 05:21:50

_hyperballad_ wrote:

Ooooof redbird, that's some sizzling hot stuff. I'm sitting at my desk sympathy blushing rn. I also very much dig on silver foxes, I am very attracted to men who look like somebodies dad (make of that what you will) but in a pretty specific way. Remind me to tell you about Tinder Dad sometime! Heehee
Viva, I was trying to politely say while pissing in his mouth I watch him get an enormous boner. A very direct effect of pee in mouth = very hard dick. I'm not sure why I was trying to be so polite lol.
I wanna hear from moar peoples. I think my very favourite part of doing phone sex is getting to hear what truly gets people off. It tickles me so much.

You pissing in a sexual way would definitely create a very hard dick for me, one time I drank my girls piss when she pissed through her panties on the walk home from the pub, the memory is giving me a boner now!

viva · 15-06-20 05:43:38

oh my gosh I am loving this thread... I have a new one that just popped up out of nowhere. I think because we were talking about the Louvre, with friends, thinking about how it's quiet and empty right now and how amazing it must be. I had a fantasy about the male security guards at the Louvre... they must be hot, right? Serious men, all they do is stand and guard the world-famous art... and I'm sure they're looking at the legs and breasts of all the beautiful cultured women (in my fantasy they are all beautiful and cultured), dressed for a day at the museum.. classy and sexy. Just looking, all day, never touching. I just think about this, and all the different women they're seeing, trying to control their erections..

weird, yes, pretty strange but doing it for me these last few days...

eden14 · 15-06-20 05:54:36

Currently thinking about myself being a security guard trying to control my erection around a all the beautiful sexy women in a art museum, I wonder how many of those women are secretly aroused by all the provocative art..

viva · 15-06-20 06:08:58

love it. I know I always feel super turned on when I visit art museums.

eden14 · 15-06-20 06:43:11

Museums and art galleries can be very erotic places, I don't know if you've ever been to MONA but I think you'd love it

eden14 · 15-06-20 07:16:54

_hyperballad_ wrote:

Oh goodness, I feel like the filthy internal parts of me have been turned up to 11 in iso.
Although a lot of what I've been fantasizing about is making pornography. Or really dirty live 'sex show' kind of stuff. All kinds of being watched & knowing that people are touching their dicks over me. You know what they say about not wanting something til it isn't on the table anymore...
I have been exploring & thinking about butt stuff considerably. I've found all of these intensely pleasurable spots inside my ass, to the point where if I'm having a regular mazz sometimes just thinking about the feeling of inserting fingers/a toy into my butt tips me over the edge.
Right now my brain is particularly enjoying 2 specific scenarios: 1) complete loss of autonomy, being restrained & forced to orgasm through all different kinds of methods. There is a definite element of being used as a play thing but mostly it's the restraints, being put on 'show' & the forced orgasms & 2) piss. I love everything about peeing, but I'm so very fixated on a fantasy of peeing directly into a mans mouth & watching him very much -react- in real time. Then pegging his nose & 'making' him drink it.
That's probably enough from me lol

I would love to hear more about what you love about peeing, is it being watched as you pee, having a sneaky outside pee, holding till you can't hold anymore, having a little on purpose accident, marking your territory?

privignus · 15-06-20 20:16:42

What about people we follow who are into creatively filthy things which are not 100% our jam? I follow Dr. Iago Faustus of https://eroticmadscience.com/ patron of filthy comics (he is into irreversible transformation, death, and tentacle sex) because he is another thoughtful weird person.

viva wrote:

oh my gosh I am loving this thread... I have a new one that just popped up out of nowhere. I think because we were talking about the Louvre, with friends, thinking about how it's quiet and empty right now and how amazing it must be. I had a fantasy about the male security guards at the Louvre... they must be hot, right? Serious men, all they do is stand and guard the world-famous art... and I'm sure they're looking at the legs and breasts of all the beautiful cultured women (in my fantasy they are all beautiful and cultured), dressed for a day at the museum.. classy and sexy. Just looking, all day, never touching. I just think about this, and all the different women they're seeing, trying to control their erections..
weird, yes, pretty strange but doing it for me these last few days...

I got mistaken for a docent at the Louvre once!

One day I would like to have a partner along for my trips to Italy. We could walk our legs off all day, enjoy beautiful art and great food and excellent music, then bone some other bits off all night.

_redbird_ · 16-06-20 08:20:51

Howland wrote:

_redbird_ wrote:
Silver foxes do it for me so much, and I find that in these fantasies I'm rarely ever adored or admired, as indifference and/or unwanted attraction turns me on much more than being told I'm desired ever could.
I might be able to do the silver thing, but indifference? Phew, not happening. (I think we're all in agreement here about that – but you knew that.) Also, I think the term "lady boner" is hilarious. As for Doctor Who characters, I don't actually fantasize about them, but you might be amused to know that I think the lizard/dinosaur woman character (forget her name) is hella cute.

The scaly Goddess you're referring to is Madame Vastra and she is indeed a mega babe. "Lady boner" also cracks me up but is sometimes more applicable than just saying that I'm wet or aroused, as when I get particularly turned on my clit is throbbing and engorged so much that it feels like it could be visible through my jeans like a dude boner is. Some people make my lady boner so intense that I can't be around them (or watch them if it's the case of an actor or musician). Matt Berry, Peter Capaldi, Salma Hayek, Joe Gilgun, Lizzo, Eva Green and Rosario Dawson are some of the people that I find so attractive that even if I rub one out, they are so appealing to me that it's physically uncomfortable to watch them for an extended period of time.

_redbird_ · 16-06-20 09:05:29

_hyperballad_ wrote:

Ooooof redbird, that's some sizzling hot stuff. I'm sitting at my desk sympathy blushing rn. I also very much dig on silver foxes, I am very attracted to men who look like somebodies dad (make of that what you will) but in a pretty specific way. Remind me to tell you about Tinder Dad sometime! Heehee
Viva, I was trying to politely say while pissing in his mouth I watch him get an enormous boner. A very direct effect of pee in mouth = very hard dick. I'm not sure why I was trying to be so polite lol.
I wanna hear from moar peoples. I think my very favourite part of doing phone sex is getting to hear what truly gets people off. It tickles me so much.

Holy heck HB, yes please do tell me about your Tinder Dad! I know what you mean about finding a really "Dad-ish" guy hot. I absolutely don't want children and have struggled with dating people that do (or indeed have children already) but there's something really appealing about a Dad type. The more ordinary looking the better, really. When I was 14 I had a massive crush on Dr Karl Kennedy from Neighbours and absolutely had the piss ripped out of me by my friends for it, but there ya go. I'd established my general taste in men quite early on it would seem, haha.

_hyperballad_ · 16-06-20 12:29:25

eden14 wrote:

I would love to hear more about what you love about peeing, is it being watched as you pee, having a sneaky outside pee, holding till you can't hold anymore, having a little on purpose accident, marking your territory?

It's a couple of different things really. Number 1 (teehee) would be being watched, I love everything about being watched & listened to when I pee. It's fun & cute & naughty & taboo. Sometimes when I am playing with a lover in a submissive role the person I am with denies me from peeing for ages then 'makes me' pee in a sink or outside & oh my goodness that ticks all kinds of boxes for me! I'm not sure if I'm supposed to talk about selling my panties here, but anyways sometimes I do that & my absolute fave orders are the guys who want me to wear their pair all day but every time I pee I don't wipe afterwards & let my panties absorb the errant drops. The idea of some random guy burying his face in the gusset of my pee stained panties turns me on intensely, I always masturbate after I've posted them off thinking about it.

For me pee isn't territorial & when I really examine my feelings surrounding this particular fetish basically all of my fluids turn me on. I definitely noticed an uptick in this when I started to have regular gushing orgasms. I have all of these nice, super yummy associations & it's just so fun & sexy to make puddles & expel liquids.

The next naughty pee thing I have planned is very specifically with Magnus & without going into details I'm going to fully wet myself through grey leggings for him. Obviously I'll 'get in trouble' & we'll have a nice time surrounding that.

eden14 · 17-06-20 00:00:17

Wow that's all instant boner stuff for me hyperballad, I love that you love being watched when you pee and that you like being "made" to pee in the sink or even hotter outside, that's really cool.
Women wetting themselves for sexual pleasure is a major turn on so your plans to wet yourself in grey leggings sounds amazing, I hope it's very bit as fun as you plan! I think making a big stain in your pants as a kind of showing off is perhaps the ultimate way of being watched peeing, someone can watch you pee and then still see you and your pee after your done, super naughty & taboo!

Mikaela · 18-06-20 05:21:25

After hearing all these erotic thoughts associated with peeing, I decided to explore this fetish myself a little. On the weekend I finally escaped the city and went for a lovely frolic in the bush with my housemates, and we got separated. I had to pee, and as I pulled down my jeans I subconsciously reached for my phone and decided to take a little video. It was a struggle because I was VERY conscious of all the leeches and nobody wants a leech where the sun don't shine, but when I watched it back later that evening, I found myself to be quite aroused. Something to play with further

alsbosilver · 18-06-20 09:25:33

Hello Viva! Your fantasy is absolutely extraordinary and I hope you have wonderful orgasms when you masturbate while thinking about it. I masturbated while watching the video where you are at home in front of the computer working on film montages imagining your feet sticking out of my screen, I sucked on my toes and I cummed on your foot! Incredibly exciting ... I hope that the technique will allow us to do it one day !!!

alsbosilver · 18-06-20 09:27:23

Viva, i sucked YOUR toes , sorry

medic1151 · 18-06-20 20:29:54

I love women who pee themselves intentionally in panties, combined with sensual masturbation. Its that connection that you build with your partner when she soaks her panties and pussy that is extremely erotic. The warm pooling pee alone seems to cause a "peegasm" for women, and I love how unexpectedly turned on women get from this experience of a warm gush of fluid!

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