Lube!!

Molly_f · 15-08-19 01:40:17

What's your favourite kind of lube??? Don't say spit or coconut oil! Both great options but am looking for another alternative. I have used Good Clean Love and liked it, was cruelty free, latex safe, vegan.... all of that good stuff. Just curious to what everyone else has discovered/likes. Has anyone tried cannabis infused lube? Oil based lube? Gimme the details!

_hyperballad_ · 20-08-19 01:38:36

I bought a tube of the regular Sutil water based lube about a month ago & it's now my go-to. It's the closest lubricant to my own moisture that I've found, it doesn't dry up quickly, is compatible with all of my toys, condoms & cocks in my life. I shared it with some of my friends at the BodySex retreat play parties & they were fans too, so that's my all rounder recommendation.

For butt stuff you can't go past UberLube, that stuff is the business! I particularly enjoy steel & glass plugs so it's perfectly matched for those kinds of objects.

Also! I have tried Foria wellness twice now & I have to say for partnered sex I am sold. (Foria is a CBD infused lubricant) First time I tried it I used a Sybian a little whiles after & I found the combination of very strong vibration & topical CBD numbed me out very quickly. But I tried it again with Magnus, we had a wonderful time. Noticeably heightened sensation & a really yummy engorged 'full' feeling all over my vulva & on the inside my pussy.

Side note: Foria is *fabulous* for pussy massage because it takes about 20-25 minutes to work. Topical CBD lubricants are largely considered a pre-lubricant because of the time frame it takes to work & it's more about the active ingredients than making you slippery, you add your own lube of choice on top of Foria (I also learnt how to give pussy massages at my BodySex retreat & it's a great skill to have!)

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viva · 20-08-19 02:18:06

oh god I want a CBD lube pussy massage SO BAD right now. SO BAD.

Molly_f · 20-08-19 05:16:19

I knew hyperballad would come through with some good lube suggestions. Thank you!! Eager to try them all

_hyperballad_ · 20-08-19 05:18:29

Incidentally I'm definitely going to have a go at making an infused lubricant myself, seeings as we can't get Foria or anything like it here. I was talking to the Cannasexual about it at BS & my 1:1 recipe should work just fine.

When I do I'll make sure some samples find you both!

viva · 20-08-19 06:06:01

speaking of pussy massage I am soooo wanting to do this 3 hour yoni mapping thing...

https://www.yonimappingtherapy.com/bonnie/

all this stuff is so expensive. But I realllllly want it!

viva · 20-08-19 06:07:08

ps I NEVER thought I would be the kind of woman to unironically say yoni but, Bonnie could convert me.

viva · 20-08-19 06:17:15

hyperballad you should look into this... certification as a yoni mapping therapist could be right up your alley.

ah I wish I didn't dislike that word so much. But in all seriousness, I think the idea of a woman "mapping" me internally, touching me while talking to me from a place of expertise, would help me so much. I often feel like I don't understand where my pleasure centres are and that makes me feel helpless and powerless about my own vagina and my own pleasure. I often try to get my partner to do this for me but because the sexual tension is so high when we are together, and because he loves me but isn't really an expert, I feel like ... a true expert... yeah. I want this! Time to start saving.

mori910y · 20-08-19 16:21:22

Hmm... this definitely seems to be a topic that's possibly maybe one where us men stand around looking slightly embarrassed and wondering where the beer is kept....

_hyperballad_ · 21-08-19 01:48:02

I am SO into vulvic/internal mapping (nope can't say yoni without feeling like an ass sorry!) it's definitely on the list of things to learn & be trained in. I am doing some hands on sexological body work tomorrow actually, so I'm on the path practically, but first I need to pay for the training I'm doing in November & my course enrollment.

Oh the things I could achieve if I had access to capital! Anyway.

Regarding your partner Viva, I would strongly suggest vulvic massage as an achievable (& pleasurable) middle ground. I feel that it's an especially helpful skill for ongoing sexual partners. Hmmmm. Should I perhaps run an intimate workshop on this in Melbourne soon? Would anyone actually come?

Mori - nah, I reckon you should watch & listen really keenly, you will absolutely learn something & if you care about your partners' pleasure I strongly believe watching/listening/learning is a very good thing

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viva · 21-08-19 04:18:08

I would LOVE to attend a workshop on vulvic (YES thats so much better than yoni) massage with my partner, but there aren't really any we can afford.

_hyperballad_ · 21-08-19 06:09:59

I think a big part of my shtick is going to be a focus on affordability because I feel there is a huge accessibility issue with sexuality workshops. It is something I'm definitely going to be talking & writing about because it bothers me. I already planned to allocate 'scholarship' place in every BodySex workshop I do for a low income/WoC/survivor - I have to work out what my 'break even' point is for BodySex participants but I feel prioritising accessibility from the get go is very important.

viva · 21-08-19 06:36:01

I'm so lucky to know you hyperb.

Molly_f · 21-08-19 08:43:15

Wow all of the work you're doing sounds so gooood. I like your intended focus on accessibility, everyone should be able to learn about their pussies.

Jsm536 · 23-02-20 14:52:19

Hi Molly,
Thanks for your amazing videos.
C

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