#1 26-05-19 07:31:20

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Some old Greta Christina Essays

I still can't find the one on how sex with ladyfriends changed how she had sex with boyfriends (she had got into the habit 'when he ejaculates it is done, so if he comes too early that is a problem' but discovered that sex does not have to follow a checklist!), but I found another classic:

Are We Having Sex Now or What? https://the-orbit.net/greta/2006/09/17/ … aving_s_1/

another which taught me that some undergrads had very different lives than me and my friends was:

My Very First Orgy And What I Learned There https://the-orbit.net/greta/2009/06/09/ … ned-there/

Did anyone else here follow her back in the day?  She seems like she might be a hyperballad kind of person.

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Re: Some old Greta Christina Essays

I've never read her but these are awesome! The first one is so interesting. I definitely only count someone on  my "list" (which has pretty much fallen by the wayside as I sleep with such few people nowadays) if it's intercourse, but then, the one woman I've ever really had sex with (hi lovely, if you're reading this, being with you was sublime), I count her, even though there was no dick.

but yeah like when I think of, since falling for my partner and breaking up and getting back together in various ways over the last 4 years... it's meaningful to me that neither of us has had sex with anyone else during that time. I fooled around with a few different guys, been fingered, given and gotten some oral and given a bit of a handjob here and there, but no sex. And that's really been an important idea for me. I could only go so far with anyone who wasn't my love. I just never go to the point where I could have anyone else inside of me there.

Maybe girls with girls need different words. Girl sex is not a binary experience but sex with guys, more is. O/1. In, or out. For me with guys, intercourse is sex, anything else is just fooling around.

Lists are interesting too!

In my early 20s, I used to keep a careful list. I think it was around 33 (my age now ) when I met my ex-husband and I stopped. Before that my list had such illustrious entries as "bus stop guy" and "other sam" and "guy who tipped the candle and lit my bed on fire". Like the author of the article, I was super proud of my numbers