Questions for the girls that squirt

Urkles · 08-05-19 18:47:12

Because squirting is of interest to so many men, and we see it frequently on many videos here at IFM, I have some question about this for the girls. I'm hopeful to get some answers because I'm quite curious!

1. If you do squirt is this something you can control or does it always happen with every orgasm?

2. If you can control it does squirting make an orgasm significantly better? If so would you normally chose to squirt given the opportunity is right to allow it?

3. If squirting can't be controlled, and it obviously messy, how do you manage this at home? What preparations, routines, do you have before you can wank?

4. Doesn't this prevent spontaneous masturbation, for example, in the morning when you wake up before getting out of bed?

5. I think many of us enjoy semi-public masturbation, the bathroom at work, dressing rooms, parking lots, etc. Do you have a strategy that allows for this exciting practice or is it off limits for you?

6. And finally, do you squirt on your partner when a penis is inside you?

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viva · 09-05-19 00:29:04

I love these questions! I hope someone comes and answers I remember going over some of these things in my lucubration with Emile...

Molly_f · 09-05-19 06:38:25

Heyyyy, I'm a new contributor and my videos are yet to be posted but seeing as squirting is also a fascination to me I would love to talk about it hehehe. I discovered I could squirt with my ex-boyfriend when we were fooling around on my kitchen counter.. he was vigorously fingering me and we were both surprised when it happened, and excited. As I don't typically penetrate myself when I masturbate I have never been able to do it on my own, also it may be laziness on my part because it takes a lot of pressure and effort. After the first time my boyfriend and I went through a fairly long phase of making me squirt every time we would have sex, always with his fingers. Squirting for me is an entirely different sensation than an orgasm, I have never come at the same time as I squirt. It feels good and is very intense but is not the same feeling. I haven't squirted (that sounds off... produced squirt? lol) in a long time as the novelty wore off, it's messy and I went through a long period of being single. Maybe now that my orgasms are more intense, and I am in a relationship and have a helping hand, I could experiment with squirting again and try to achieve it simultaneously with orgasms. Definitely glad it is an optional result as it is messy and I do love being able to masturbate discreetly in places I shouldn't. Very curious as to the relationship between squirting and orgasm that other women experience!!!

Since I'm not experiencing orgasm when squirting, maybe I'm just really pissing the bed. Would love to solve this mystery once and for all.

perfectlysexy · 09-05-19 07:54:45

viva wrote:

I love these questions! I hope someone comes and answers I remember going over some of these things in my lucubration with Emile...

deep dive?
http://www.ifeelmyself.com/public/main. … t_id=F5299

viva · 09-05-19 08:08:44

Molly, thank you SO much for coming and talking to us on the forum <3 I can't wait to write the caption for your IFM. I love your ISM shoot ... it's not published yet but here's a sneak peek!

I'm so interested in your squirting experience... so basically you were just getting fingered super fast and hard and it just happened? all over the kitchen floor? That is super hot.

when you did it again, did your position matter? I really hope you can have a go with your new beau and come back and tell us if anything has changed in the ensuing years... for science.

That whole thing about wetting the bed... I wonder. We have an amazing shoot coming up from Chantelle_A where she fully just goes for it and has a big wee and then wanks in the wet spot. The difference between that and the squirting we observe here seems to make it super clear theyre not the same thing. Does it feel different for you than weeing?

viva · 09-05-19 08:18:18

Also to address perfectlysexy - yep! thats the one.

Urkles · 09-05-19 19:01:22

Molly - I am most looking forward to your upcoming post (hopefully multiple posts) as the sneak peak Viva posted is extremely tantalizing!

I'd like to offer a big thank you for posting and your very candid responses. Hopefully your willingness to put yourself out there in such an honest manner will inspire others to do the same.

Miriam_R · 15-05-19 05:50:27

Squirting is quite new to me too!
I remember being shamed for it with my first partner actually, and it definitely took some time to get over, but it can only get better from here I squirted for the first time solo when I did my home made for IFM actually, but usually I can only squirt when I am with my partner, after edging and teasing.
I agree with Molly, it is different to an orgasm, but very intense and pleasurable!
And for the questions about "wetting the bed", Rose_P's Millenial Pink ( which is very wet), inspired me to get a satisfyer toy, and my partner and I were playing with it when it was new and he turned it up to full. It was so intense that it was like full on flood, but felt very different from peeing, and the orgasm was so overwhelming I was crying. I have since learned NOT to turn it up to full until I am ready, but when I have time, and usually in the shower now, I thoroughly enjoy recreating that moment.

viva · 15-05-19 06:08:49

*googles "satisfyer toy melbourne buy"*

Molly_f · 16-05-19 02:46:03

My pissing the bed was just a joke hehehehe... mostly to tease those that think squirt is pee. It's not!!!

Usually though I have to be on my knees or crouched somehow, I need leverage to sort of... bear down. If that makes sense.

viva · 17-05-19 04:34:30

Yeah it makes sense! I was listening to a podcast yesterday about the "origins" of the g-spot... or rather, the origins of our conversations about the g-spot... and they were saying that many women were having "incontinance" at orgasm, and avoiding orgasm cause they were so ashamed. But this nurse, Beverly Whipple, took notice and realised that while incontinence is usually associated with weak pelvic floor muscles, these women had abnormally strong muscles there! So yeah, the bearing down makes sense because it seems to kind of be associated with muscular activity as well.

Molly_f · 20-05-19 01:28:39

Ah cool! What is the name of that podcast? Would be very curious to listen.

Also curious about kegel balls and yoni eggs because I have read that stronger pelvic floor muscles can contribute to better sex! And is also just overall good for your health

viva · 20-05-19 01:56:53

It was this "Science VS" episode the podcast kind of takes on popular opinion and tries to find scientific facts to back up or debunk ideas. To be honest I don't find it very scientifically vigorous but it's interesting nonetheless.

Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3NCf6D … 7rEQDiO_pw

Web link: https://gimletmedia.com/shows/science-v … /the-gspot

Man I'm also keen for stronger pelvic floor muscles! But all the vague research I do (and I definitely have a late night google on the topic not-too-infrequently) seems to say that the only way is to really kind of be doing kegals all day every day. I usually try for like an hour and then forget. Definitely interesting in kegal balls and stuff... maybe we should try and report our findings.

Molly_f · 21-05-19 01:22:37

Thanks! Will take a listen.

I also forget to do kegals... having a tool like that to help you focus on it would be so helpful. Could also make for some funny stories, was reading about women trying yoni eggs last night. Many fell out during inopportune moments at first because their muscles were too weak.

viva · 21-05-19 02:05:34

Ooh that bodes well - like do people actually see results??

Molly_f · 21-05-19 04:43:16

I guess there is debate over whether or not yoni eggs actually work. Doctors have been advising people who have problems like leaking, painful sex or other pelvic floor dysfunctions against using them. As well they are not too keen on them because they are porous, therefore more difficult to clean properly. The sources I've read just have a general sceptical tone to them so I would like to read more about them from a more alternative health point of view. Many women do like them though... As with anything you just have to do your research and learn how to use properly I think.

They are also just really beautiful objects!

Mew · 22-05-19 04:05:47

Nicole S speaks about all things squirt in her first diary entry, I'm curious if anyone is interested in Loose End as I had to cut it out - this babe has too much good stuff to say! I you're interested in female ejaculation, I highly recommend you check her out if you haven't already

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viva · 22-05-19 04:25:14

*puts hand up* loose end please <3

Mew · 30-05-19 04:16:41

Be careful what you wish for Viva!

Miriam_R · 31-05-19 01:28:54

I second that motion! Loose end please, the more content from Nicole_S the better!

ThatIndividual · 31-05-19 03:08:34

Miriam_R wrote:

I second that motion! Loose end please, the more content from Nicole_S the better!

Thirdeded (eded)

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_hyperballad_ · 04-06-19 04:08:40

1. If you do squirt is this something you can control or does it always happen with every orgasm?

Sometimes I can control it, sometimes I can't. It doesn't occur with every orgasm, no. I can't usually set out to squirt, when I'm actually already masturbating or fucking I get a really specific feeling although I've been having more success with a really specific dildo in recent months.

2. If you can control it does squirting make an orgasm significantly better? If so would you normally chose to squirt given the opportunity is right to allow it?

For me squirting orgasms are very, very intense. They're loud & messy & unpretty, I release a lot of energy, so while I love doing it I wouldn't choose to always ejaculate. That said occasionally it just happens without warning & that's cool too!

3. If squirting can't be controlled, and it obviously messy, how do you manage this at home? What preparations, routines, do you have before you can wank?

I bought sex towels for this exact reason. They're rolled up in my bedside ready for absorbing action. Although my mattress copped a jolly good splashing before I worked that out. If I'm settling in for a good session I'll preemptively tuck one under my butt although truth be told I've soaked through multiple layers of stuff before.

4. Doesn't this prevent spontaneous masturbation, for example, in the morning when you wake up before getting out of bed?

Nope, ejaculatory orgasms require a really specific kind of penetration for me, so I can pop off a clit orgasm or use a glass or steel dildo no worries.

5. I think many of us enjoy semi-public masturbation, the bathroom at work, dressing rooms, parking lots, etc. Do you have a strategy that allows for this exciting practice or is it off limits for you?

I wank everywhere, all of the time. If one day I accidentally soak myself then I guess people will just think I peed my pants? Worse things have happened!

6. And finally, do you squirt on your partner when a penis is inside you?

That's a super personal question...

Monotreme · 04-06-19 04:27:02

Being of the male persuasion, I have a theory of squirting that I'd like to float here. (Pun unintentional but I'm leaving it, as silly and gross as it is.)

Over on the "couples vibe" thread, Viva and I were discussing the anatomy of female sexual response. There are three locations in the female genitalia that fill up with blood during sexual arousal: the clitoris (both the head and its little legs); the vestibular bulb (sorta behind and to the side of the clit, on either side of the entrance to the vagina; and Halban's fascia (the anatomical name for the famed G spot).

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Of these, the literature says the first two engorge with blood almost always. Halban's fascia is much trickier; it doesn't engorge in all women, and even in those where it does, it doesn't fill up all the time.

We've known for a long time that: 1) there's no way Bartholin's gland can hold that much fluid; 2) it ain't urine. (Without getting too graphic, it tastes and smells much sweeter and cleaner than urine.)

So here's my educated guess that I'd like to try out on the experts on this board. What if it's engorged blood filtered through the Halban's fascia at the anterior wall of the vagina? We know of lots of fluids in the body that are made this way, by passing blood through a really fine biological strainer. That would remove the cells (and therefore the red color) and leave just a protein-rich salt solution.

I've never seen this guess published anywhere. For those who have actually experienced this, is this plausible?

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_hyperballad_ · 04-06-19 05:52:15

It's my understanding that when women ejaculate it comes from the Skene's gland. The Skene's Gland is physically located in the lower end of the urethra & to me it makes sense for it to be the source of ejaculate.

I have some great detailed diagrams that I have from BodySex, I'll try to find them.

Very interested to hear what others thoughts are too.

Monotreme · 04-06-19 15:05:23

That makes sense. Your post, hyperballad, made me go back and find images of the Skene's gland that I had not seen before.

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