You are not logged in.
So I'm not entirely sure how much detail I can go into here... But I will say that Magnus found his exhibitionistic side & we had sex in the torch room & people including some of those who I work with definitely watched us!
Offline
I've found a really great phone sex groove these last few days. I have had some seriously hot calls & during a session with one of my fave repeat callers I accidentally squirted on my bed last night. Nothing quite like having to strip your linens off & dry your mattress with a hair dryer *right* before you were planning to log out & go to sleep! But also yay for my first ejaculation from clit stim alone.
I seriously need to start blogging again, don't I? I could write about so much sexy stuff, especially the very sexy stuff I experience on the phones all damn day!
Last edited by _hyperballad_ (05-01-19 13:32:43)
Offline
But also yay for my first ejaculation from clit stim alone.
That's huge! Congrats hyperb! <3
Offline
Hyper- Thanks for the clarification. I didn't know if your job had a call center that filter calls to you with details of what the caller is looking to experience. Its sound like it is more personal then that.
And WOW! Squirting or female ejaculating is one of my favorite female talents and I am happy for you that you found it. The thoughts that are flashing though my head right now with that knowledge. Let just say a snorkel, some arm floaties, and flippers are involved.
Offline
this is so amazing. I need your blog. I need you to blog!!!
Offline
Not set up for writing yet Viva (it currently redirects to my URL hosting page) but it's a step in the right direction:
pleasantlydangerous.com
Offline
yesss....
Offline
I have just taken THE best night of calls that I've ever had.
Long, languid, descriptive masturbation & erotic story telling sessions. Some were better than others, but I've spoken to a series of unhurried men who genuinely wanted their calls to me to be an exchange. Men who wanted to hear all about my turn ons, fantasies, adventures & asked me thoughtful questions about the things I told them. Men who opened up to me not only about their desires, but also their fears regarding their sexuality. Men who allowed themselves the opportunity to be vulnerable, to connect & come with me.
I'm probably high on orgasms right now but I seriously fucking love everything about the sex work I do right now.
And I'm so grateful.
<3
Offline
Oh Hyperballad, as a man who has made these calls this just makes me so happy. I always wanted someone like that on the other end, someone I could connect and share with. That's what I was missing at the time, and it honestly helped me to find myself and give me the courage to actually look for love and support in others at a time when I thought that was impossible for me.
Offline
awww i love you guys...
Offline
Monotreme, I'm so glad you were able to connect & be heard & affirmed in the ways that you most needed. I do believe in some small way I am helping the men I speak to, even if it's' just' to get off. I absolutely see many of the ways in which mens untold desires manifest & it has deepened my compassion for men seeking space/s to be vulnerable.
Sending you so much warmth & thanks for your response, it means a lot.
Offline
This is interesting as hell, I've always had a bit of a thing for phone sex, I've never called a professional line but I've done it with a handful of partners. Two stand out. The first lived about twenty miles away and we had one of the most intense sexual connections I've ever had, we'd always talk dirty via text and things when we couldn't be together, and we'd talk about all the crazy stuff that we wanted to do to eachother, but when we got together we were so insanely turned on by eachother that we'd just end up in missionary with her legs around my waist pretty much every time, and it was mind blowingly intense. Anyway one day I was out for breakfast with my workmates and she suprised me with a photo, out of nowhere! I know for a fact that my face turned instantly, visibly red, my skin prickled as the blood started to rush, and my stomach did a flip-flop. She was very cool. The other one was this amazing girl, she was a veterinarian, tae kwon do black belt, and an activist in Palestine! We met on online dating actually, and sadly we never met in person. It was my fault, I met a nice Italian girl before I had a chance to arrange a date with the vet. However, while I was on holiday we were texting and things got hot and heavy, she was quite kinky too, and she had a fantastic descriptive imagination. I put some real effort into some of the texts, and she told me I should consider writing erotic fiction Anyway, at the height of this sexting we agreed I'd call her, the texts weren't enough anymore. She was already touching herself and when she answered the phone she was breathing heavily, it was incredibly intense. We ended up getting back in touch after my relationship with the Italian girl ended but this time she got with someone, I guess it wasn't meant to be!
Anyway, phone sex. I think I know why it turns me on so much. I had a girlfriend once who would drive me wild by edging her pyjamas down at the hip, taking them off really slowly, no knickers underneath, I had a real thing for it. She told me she thought that the reason I liked it so much was because it felt illicit. I think she was right, I think it's the same feeling with phone sex. It reminds me of being a teenager, of stealing moments and hiding. Fooling around in the woods, or whatever other local spot we could find. And of course talking dirty on the phone. Well, I rambled on a bit more than I meant to, I just love talking about sex and ya know, you don't often meet people you can have these open conversations with!
I've got a question for Hyperballad as well, you mentioned a particular sexual type regarding the men who call you, and them being the same as the guys on this website (including me I presume), what type do you think that is? And do you think that the same kind of women are attracted to participate? And do you think the same kind of men that view this site become participants as well when their partners contribute? O.k, that's a load of questions. It's late, I'm supposed to be writing a boring essay, and clearly my brain is looking for distractions
Offline
I've got a question for Hyperballad as well, you mentioned a particular sexual type regarding the men who call you, and them being the same as the guys on this website (including me I presume), what type do you think that is? And do you think that the same kind of women are attracted to participate? And do you think the same kind of men that view this site become participants as well when their partners contribute? O.k, that's a load of questions. It's late, I'm supposed to be writing a boring essay, and clearly my brain is looking for distractions
You misunderstand me, I said my favourite, most enjoyable calls seem to come from men who are much like the men who subscribe here & that I interact with. They are respectful & want their experience with me to be an exchange. They get off on my pleasure just as much as their own & they seek a genuine depiction of that. Lots of men who call me want a hammed up porno script, which is fine, I can conjure an over the top session of moaning & sighing quite well but there is definitely a variety of call that is stand out to me & it reminds me of the flavours of my interactions here.
Regarding the type of woman who submits to IFM, we are most definitely diverse. In fact, I am a very VERY different Hyperballad from the woman you see in my first contribution here & I am 1 person! The way I masturbate & experience orgasm has definitely changed. My motivations for submitting content here has changed several times over the years. There are some contribs I totally relate to & others who I don't, I think as long as everyone who contributes is coming from a place of safe/sane/consensual then all types of contributors are valid.
As for partners, I can only speak from my own experience but I don't think Magnus would have necessarily sought out the kinds of work he has done with me, without me. And I reallllllly don't think he would have been doing the stuff that we self produce. It's explicit & very much not IFM like...
Hopefully that answers all of your questions?
Last edited by _hyperballad_ (15-01-19 00:02:25)
Offline
omg way to just casually drop that bomb about what you and magnus self-produce.
Offline
Oh! I thought people knew I have been making my own pornos.
Offline
NO WE DID NOT!!! THANK YOU...……..LOL You mean to tell me there is more. AAAAAGGGGHHH! WHERE!?
Offline
Send me an email & I'll give you all of the URL's: pleasant.danger.contact@gmail.com
(Defs don't think I should be posting links to other sites here, but 100% happy to give all of the deets to people who contact me)
Offline
So! I put up 2 additional intros on my phone sex line yesterday, I've usually just stuck with a main phone line & personality 'Alex' but you can put up additional intros either with different names/personalities or particular types of calls. I recorded pee play & JOI intros, I wasn't really sure how it was going to go...
It was AWESOME! I had such a great arvo taking calls. I am developing this really tender but powerful dominant style. I think it's telling when the people you're talking to go back & buy credit over & over so they can keep talking to you.
After having an absolutely shockingly shitty week last week it was nice to feel like I'm hitting my stride with something. Also really enjoying my continuing exploration of power dynamics.
Offline