#26 29-09-18 01:15:12

KikiCurls

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Hello again Hyperballad!  Yes, that is helpful and makes sense!!  Thanks x

tom1986

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

This is an old thread, but I've stumbled across it and it's really interesting to me! I've often wondered that myself about the way some men approach orgasm. I know that lots of people genuinely enjoy anal for example but I've long had a nagging suspicion that a lot of men do it purely for some kind of power kick, or to tell their mates etc and because they perhaps think (maybe subconsciously) that there is less pleasure in it for the woman. I can be very cynical in that way. Having said that, almost all of my male friends agree with me, but then again 'birds of a feather' etc.
Personally my first orgasm was very intense, I remember I was watching some kind of 70s vampire erotica, which I'm sure was very tame but it got me going anyway. I don't remember exactly what I did but I do remember being startled by waves of pleasure moving through most of my body. In the years since I went on a mission having heard that men can achieve multiple orgasms with practice, tantra and edging and so on. These days a good orgasm goes on quite a while, I seem to match the duration of quite a lot of women I see on here! I've often wondered whether other men typically cum for as long or... maybe I'm just bigging myself up haha! I can also cum at least six times in a session as long as I'm turned on enough, I say at least because that was my record and that was when my partner was too tired to continue. I should say that this isn't boasting, it's just that I really don't know how common or uncommon my experience of orgasm is for a man, very curious to find out whether all that edging was worth it!  Anyway lately they've regained their early intensity and sort of feel like an explosion, it's mostly centred around my cock, thighs, stomach, then there are a few spasms as well, kind of like a big firework with a few smaller ones after. Also as for technique I've found that consciously relaxing all my muscles and getting myself to feel 'open' really increases the intensity, my natural inclination is to tense up at the brink, but if I resist that, well, fireworks!
Regards women, it's been a big shock to me throughout my sexual life how many women I've met who have (in their 20s and 30s mostly) never had an orgasm before, or weren't sure. I wonder whether my fascination with female orgasm started with one of these partners or with this website (and BA of course)! It's been a while and I can't really remember now.
I also have to admit that I'm on my way to bed and haven't fully read the thread, I just couldn't resist joining in. I will read all your comments properly tomorrow!
Peace, love, and orgasms

viva

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Amazing comment Tom! It sounds like you can relate to the way most of us have reported wanting to open and not tense up during arousal and orgasm... I think it's a natural tendency of the body, and maybe a little easter egg in the human OS that if we use our will and control to relax rather than tense automatically, we get super good orgasms...

privignus

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Thanks for sharing tom1986!  It is sad that so many women don't have orgasms, or don't from partner sex, because after watching IFM I have a suspicion that women can have more fun in bed than guys can

A more experienced ladyfriend tried to get me to relax in bed, I think she was wise.

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in aspectu virginis mentem esse puram

Howland

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

I have a suspicion that women can have more fun in bed than guys can

The story goes that the ancient sage Tiresias, who had been changed by the gods into female form and back again (so he/she would know), proclaimed that, and I quote, "If the parts of love-pleasure be counted as ten, thrice three [that's nine for those of you keeping score at home] go to women; one only, to men." Upon hearing which Zeus looks pointedly at Hera, who fumes and renders Tiresias blind for his impudence (Zeus couldn't unblind him, so he gave Tiresias the gift of "inner sight," or wisdom.) So you may have a point there, privignus!

_hyperballad_

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Just want to chime in re male enjoyment of anal play - there's this thing called a prostate up your butt. It feels very good. Especially if it's massaged, it will definitely make you ejaculate. There are also bundles of nerve endings around the puckers & folds at the entrance. That's why it feels so good to get rimmed. In my experience men feel super shy about admitting to their enjoyment of anal play, it is not something they 'tell their mates'. They can barely tell me & I'm an anonymous woman on the phone.

Phone sex has given me a huge insight into the sexual psyche of men!

viva

pretty pretty princess

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

omg hyperballad... tell me more please... are you doing phone sex as a job??

_hyperballad_

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Yes! Although I don't want to hijack this thread though, should I go start a new topic?

viva

pretty pretty princess

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

YES PLS please yes

tom1986

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Re: What do your orgasms feel like?

Payday! I can reply again So butt stuff, I had a fuck buddy once who was determined she was gonna get a finger up my bum at some point but when the time came I'd been working on cumming for ages and I didn't want to jeapordise it haha
I've given it a go myself maybe two or three times, just to rule it out really. I get nothing from it, it ain't for me. I've also, with the exception of that one friend, never met a woman who was into it either! They all said similar things along the lines of 'oh thank god, me neither!'
Maybe it's a coincidence? Who knows.
Opening up, yes, I also tried to have a 'mental' orgasm once, hands free, with meditation, has anyone ever tried or succeeded with that? I got turned on and hard but in the end I had to just go the old fashioned way, I guess I'm not enlightened enough or something
The sensation was quite unique though, I've got to say...