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#1 12-05-06 13:26:30

footman2
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Ifeelmyselfonfilm

Friction, by Deanne reminded me of a film i saw awile ago. I think it was a dutch film about phone sex. The side view of her hand down her pants was similar to what turned me on in this film. i think it was called 06.

The Osterman Weekend was the first movie i saw that had a clip of a woman masturbating. I remember Ellen Barkin going solo in a field.
Single White Female had a brief scene, and of course, American Pie (yawn)

Naomi Watts in Mulholland Drive - that was hot and creepy at the same time.

Now i am starting to remember a few more

Kim Bassinger in 9 and a half weeks.

What movie was your first?
What movie has your favourite scene?

-Footman

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#2 12-05-06 15:43:18

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first fim I saw where a woman had an orgasm was a British movie called "The Fox" in the mid sixties.  It was probably the first film I remember that dealt with lesbianism as well.  I can't remember who was in it now but it concerned a lesbian couple living on a farm whose relationship was destroyed when a man showed up and seduced one of them.  Very hot for the time as films which graphically depicted sex were rare then.  It was probably the first time I realised women could orgasm. (I would be about 16 and we were far less informed sexualy in those days).

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#3 12-05-06 18:12:54

Khanada Faye
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Re: Ifeelmyselfonfilm

footman2 wrote:

What movie has your favourite scene?

-Footman

That would have to be Maggie Gyllenhaal in "Secretary."  There are a couple, actually--one where she's in bed, and one standing in a bathroom stall at work.  If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it--not just for those scenes, but simply because it's a brilliant film smile


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#4 12-05-06 18:58:26

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Laura Dern in a film called "Rambling Rose", where a young lad jumps in bed with her and she guides his hand. I was a spotty fifteen year-old at the time and didn't quite understand what all the groaning and face-pulling was about.

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#5 12-05-06 18:58:34

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I seem to recall a Canadian film called something along the lines of "Better than Chocolate", about an aspiring artist (a woman) who moves into a sort of bohemian artists' community. She hasn't quite come out yet, but there she meets a rather butch woman who introduces her to the wonders of lesbian love. I can't quite remember if it had an actual orgasm scene in it, but there were a couple of actually very beautiful love scenes between these two women.


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#6 12-05-06 20:46:24

nihpuad
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footman2 wrote:

What movie was your first?
What movie has your favourite scene?

I don't know about first or favorite, but there's a movie called When Will I Be Loved that has a number of very hot sexual scenes... the first of which has the female lead (Neve Campbell) masturbating in the shower. It doesn't really focus that closely on her orgasm (i.e., no obvious verbalizations or closeups of the "orgasm face"), but the commentary on the DVD (there's a whole special feature that spikes out all the sex scenes, just for us pervs! wink ) seems to indicate that she was actually masturbating, not just acting. Frankly, even though the masturbation aspect is somewhat subtle, the scene is worth your time anyway, just for her beauty and the sensuous nudity of the shower.

The movie itself is pretty dark -- sort of a darker, more serious take on the Indecent Proposal premise -- but it was deservedly well reviewed. As I noted, though, the DVD packaging makes it easy to watch just the sexy scenes, if you want to avoid the downer plot.

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#7 12-05-06 22:36:37

Jakeview
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Khanada Faye wrote:
footman2 wrote:

What movie has your favourite scene?

-Footman

That would have to be Maggie Gyllenhaal in "Secretary."  There are a couple, actually--one where she's in bed, and one standing in a bathroom stall at work.  If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it--not just for those scenes, but simply because it's a brilliant film smile

I'm with Khanada Faye on this one. "Secretary:" great film and interesting masturbation scenes. And Maggie is such a cutie.

I'm also a big Naomi Watts fan and loved "Mulholland Drive." Her masturbation scene in that film was intense.

Still, I remember watching near-X-rated movies late at night on Showtime(back when it was the original Skin-emax) after my parents went to bed. There was a foreign film--a period piece--where a woman, her husband neglecting her for some time, was resigned to masturbate to satisfy her aching desire. I can't recall what the name was but the actors, I believe, were fairly well-known European thespians. Italian, perhaps?

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#8 12-05-06 23:11:32

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Nowaysis wrote:

I seem to recall a Canadian film called something along the lines of "Better than Chocolate", about an aspiring artist (a woman) who moves into a sort of bohemian artists' community. She hasn't quite come out yet, but there she meets a rather butch woman who introduces her to the wonders of lesbian love. I can't quite remember if it had an actual orgasm scene in it, but there were a couple of actually very beautiful love scenes between these two women.

Yes, it is called "Better than Chocolate". The one masturbation scene in it comes when the young woman's mother discovers a box of sex toys under the bed. It's very funny, because this mother is clearly inexperienced with toys (especially battery powered ones), but she's tempted, and tries one, then another, and thoroughly enjoys herself.

It's a good film. Lots of good scenes, and a few musical numbers that are better than I'd expect (best is "I'm Not a F***ing Drag Queen!")

The DVD is quite good, and can be ordered on Amazon. Don't expect to see it here in Australia.

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#9 12-05-06 23:35:26

Nowaysis
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Oh yeah, I'd completely forgotten about the mother. big_smile

I actually first laid eyes on it in a video store as a VHS rental, and was mildly attracted by its cover (dildos and stuff are pretty exciting for a teenager), but I was living at home, so renting movies based on "a tingle" wasn't so much a possibility. When I finally watched it on Swedish television I almost didn't realise it was the same movie because it was so much better and more serious (alongside the humour) than the blurb on the VHS ever made it seem.


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#10 13-05-06 04:31:31

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How about "Last Tango in Paris"?


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#11 13-05-06 07:03:37

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Some that I know:

1)Taty_-_Prostie_Dvizenija.avi- Tatu "orgasm" music video scene.
2) malabimbanun- Possessed woman Orgasm via stuffed bear then molests a nun to orgasm.
3)Ramrodder- Indian "orgasm".
4) The Click.- set of movies based on a "turn on passion" remote.
5)The enitity- Ghost induced orgasm
6)Boone- Two woman "orgasm" in farm pool scene. One is supposed to Never "done it before".
7)Almost all the movies Tinto Brass made.
8)Sailor who fell from grace.
9)Sexlucia
10)Getting into heaven.
11)chosessecretes
12)immortal tales
13)joyses flanagan
14)the reincarnation of peter proud.
15)female vampire?
16) Most of the misti mundae vids. exp. sin sisters, vampire vixens, etc.
17)And a bunch of movies I can't remember the name of.

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#12 13-05-06 18:02:12

gala
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guesswhatguesswhatguesswhat:

i just got a book called 'porn studies' full of essays on pornography and society and i'm super excited.  so prepare, at some point, to have my new findings reavealed and put up in the fray.  i will not make bakhtin references, promise. 

also: i love the sex scenes in secretary.  that film is so much more radical than it advertises itself to be.  and it makes me want to fuck james spader, which seems odd to me.  every time i watch that movie i really need sex, and for some reason am always embarassed to ask for it...because obviously i'm just wanting to imitate what i saw.

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#13 14-05-06 01:27:57

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gala wrote:

guesswhatguesswhatguesswhat:

i just got a book called 'porn studies' full of essays on pornography and society and i'm super excited.  so prepare, at some point, to have my new findings reavealed and put up in the fray.  i will not make bakhtin references, promise. 

also: i love the sex scenes in secretary.  that film is so much more radical than it advertises itself to be.  and it makes me want to fuck james spader, which seems odd to me.  every time i watch that movie i really need sex, and for some reason am always embarassed to ask for it...because obviously i'm just wanting to imitate what i saw.

Gala, can you give us some details on that book?

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#14 14-05-06 02:31:33

gala
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isbn: 0822333120

(i'm funny.)

i will tell you more when i read some of it.   it's about all aspects of the porn industry -- film, photo, mags, online, etc.  and the essays address representation of gender and race and sexuality, and the aesthetic and artistic aspects of it.  looks pretty hot.  i'm heading straight to the net.porn essays, of course. 

also, i am pleased to annouce that i spent my afternoon with betty dodson, annie sprinkle, carol queen, shar rednour, and other fabulous empowered sex-positive feminist &/or queer sex workers at a panel discussion at good vibes sex shop in the sf bay area.  it was super hot.  betty dodson is the grandmother of masturbation, and she told us how her new goal is to smoke weed every day and masturbate.  she's my kinda lady.  and annie sprinkle was amazing.  she is such a super porno queen.  it was really inspiring and more and more i feel like things are pointing me toward sexwork.  i want to be a porno warrior princess!

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#15 14-05-06 02:39:53

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gala wrote:

isbn: 0822333120

(i'm funny.)

i will tell you more when i read some of it.   it's about all aspects of the porn industry -- film, photo, mags, online, etc.  and the essays address representation of gender and race and sexuality, and the aesthetic and artistic aspects of it.  looks pretty hot.  i'm heading straight to the net.porn essays, of course. 

also, i am pleased to annouce that i spent my afternoon with betty dodson, annie sprinkle, carol queen, shar rednour, and other fabulous empowered sex-positive feminist &/or queer sex workers at a panel discussion at good vibes sex shop in the sf bay area.  it was super hot.  betty dodson is the grandmother of masturbation, and she told us how her new goal is to smoke weed every day and masturbate.  she's my kinda lady.  and annie sprinkle was amazing.  she is such a super porno queen.  it was really inspiring and more and more i feel like things are pointing me toward sexwork.  i want to be a porno warrior princess!

I hope you discussed Agony and IFM with these people?  Perhaps they'd like to contribute...

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#16 14-05-06 06:09:40

gala
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you can, and should, totally be in my gang.  i've already put in my request to richard that you be sent quickly to me and the groundwork be laid for our band of merry masturbators.  the way you eat a lollipop when interviewing certain people in certain parks makes you an ideal candidate.

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#17 14-05-06 08:50:54

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gala wrote:

guesswhatguesswhatguesswhat:

i just got a book called 'porn studies' full of essays on pornography and society and i'm super excited.  so prepare, at some point, to have my new findings reavealed and put up in the fray.  i will not make bakhtin references, promise.

Stop pissing about and get it read then girl.  We want to hear all about it. (It could keep the forum going for months on its own by the sounds of it).

Elfman.

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#18 15-05-06 08:47:36

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gala wrote:

and it makes me want to fuck james spader, which seems odd to me.  every time i watch that movie i really need sex, and for some reason am always embarassed to ask for it...because obviously i'm just wanting to imitate what i saw.

this is normal Gala- everybody should want to fuck James Spader!!! Oh and the other stuff I think thats perfectly normal also!

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#19 16-05-06 23:10:53

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gala wrote:

also, i am pleased to annouce that i spent my afternoon with betty dodson, annie sprinkle, carol queen, shar rednour, and other fabulous empowered sex-positive feminist &/or queer sex workers[...]

Somewhere among my effects, from some Downtown art opening/charity benefit during... could it have been (dating myself, which I guess puts it on topic) the eighties?  Let's say nineties.

Anyway, somewhere in my apartment there's this Polaroid of Annie Sprinkle's breasts on my head.  It was a warm, crowded room;  I remember that they were kind of sweaty, and surprisingly heavy.

My interaction with an icon.

Does she still do that?

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#20 17-05-06 09:33:26

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Liandra wrote:

Yes I am certain there must be some ruse under which Max, Richard and I can justify a tax deductable trip to SF.

Please do. I'd be honored to pick you all up from the airport.

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#21 18-05-06 01:39:23

gala
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annie sprinkle's breasts do look heavy.  she used to do tit prints where she'd dip them in paint and make prints to sell/give to people, and she said she had done some thousand of them, but she doesn't do them anymore because she had a little fight with the breast cancer a few years ago (she's ok now). 

jakeview: we'll have to arm wrestle for picking-the-ifm-kids-up-from-the-airport.  and anyway, i'll do it in stockings and heels...what will you offer?

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#22 18-05-06 11:34:12

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Not really masturbation but the scene in bergmans Persona where Alma tells the story of her having sex on a beach with her friend and two strange boys is unbelievably sexy.

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#23 18-05-06 20:31:26

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Cate wrote:

Not really masturbation but the scene in bergmans Persona where Alma tells the story of her having sex on a beach with her friend and two strange boys is unbelievably sexy.

I remember being quite shocked the first time I saw that scene. I was just a young boy and had never heard anyone talk like that before. I thought the movie was incomprehensible (I like it much better now), but that scene stuck with me, and after a while I agreed with myself that the shock it had given me wasn't all that unpleasant smile.

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#24 19-05-06 09:29:17

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gala wrote:

jakeview: we'll have to arm wrestle for picking-the-ifm-kids-up-from-the-airport.  and anyway, i'll do it in stockings and heels...what will you offer?

I'll wear just one appropriately adorned sock.

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#25 20-05-06 04:07:08

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Jakeview wrote:
gala wrote:

jakeview: we'll have to arm wrestle for picking-the-ifm-kids-up-from-the-airport.  and anyway, i'll do it in stockings and heels...what will you offer?

I'll wear just one appropriately adorned sock.

Oh my did I just have a laugh! I have visions of Gala in her stockings and heels (and that is all) standing next too Jakeview (whom I've not seen but imagine to be tall and thin with dark hair ??) in his appropriately adorned sock standing together in the airport terminal oblivious to all the stares of everyone else waiting at the airport.

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