Rituals - IFM Browsing and Masturbation

ifmcr89 · 19-07-19 23:05:57

Over the years, I have become more demanding with my self-pleasure sessions. Sure, a morning masturbation, when we get up, before getting out of bed, it's delicious! Or one in the shower before going to work, it fills us with positive energy for the whole day. I'm sure I'm not the only one that have done those two. However, I have tried to take the process to a higher level of exploration, relaxation, and connection with myself. As the saying goes: "Nice and Slow"! As time permits, I prefer a long session, without hurry and without focusing on the climax since the beginning. In fact, it has become a personal challenge, the longer I can last without coming, taking the whole process to the limit before the climax, and leave. Wait a few seconds and continue, until I come, just when I really want or when I can not take it anymore!
I have repeated a kind of "ritual" that I love. At night, in the living room, I am fortunate to have a big TV (just imagine Perpetua, Georgia, Ellie, Samara, Joy, and so many more on big screen) So, I turn off the lights, turn on a few candles and enter IFM, full volume, If there is a new video that interests me to see it, I see it first. Or if there is a new contrinutor, that catches my attention. Then, I simply browse between new and old videos (I advise you to do this because there are SO MANY videos and spectacular contributors that are not so recent, but we tend to leave them forgotten. It happened with Maylah, for example). When I find a video that motivates me to see it, I go first to the profile of the contributor and I see first the Profile Intro (thats a game changer), I get a greater connection by understanding how she speaks, what her voice is, what interests her and what does not; and I create an image of the contributor in my mind. Then I try to explore several, if not all, of the profile's videos (I told them that it took me time, haha).
Now I tell you about the technical part. I like to smoke some marijuana before the session. Iit awakens my senses and the orgasm is immense! I have some toys that I use with my girlfriend, among them a rabbit and a hitachi. Now I understand why women like it so much. I discovered that simply putting the toy to vibrate on my dick, leaving it still or with very subtle movements, but mainly exerting pressure, is impressively luscious. I feel that the hitachi is very intense and I come faster, so I like to start with the rabbit. I start with some of the soft or interrupted vibration modes, while I watch the Profile Intro. From there, I increase the intensity as I advance in the videos. From there is a game that is not always the same, I do not always feel the same, I do not always play the same, then depending on that moment in which I get super hard and feel that everything contracts, from the legs to the anus, I try to hold on by removing the toy from my penis. There I can start again or even explore more videos or contributors in lower vinration-intensity modes. I can see 5, 10 or even 30 videos. Among those that I explored I always find a favorite; and as you know, the good should be repeated. When I want to come, I repeat the favorite of the session. The fact of repeating the video allows me to focus on parts that turns me on a lot. It is at this moment where the hitachi comes into play, I like it to be the most intense for me to come, and Violà, I come so so so strong, that there are times that I got cramps in my anus. There is another way that I like and thats keeping the rabbit on place, and putting the hitachi on the bottom of my dick, right next to my balls, ooor, putting the hitachi on full power in the space between my balls and my anus. Lovely feelling! There are just a few rules that I follow. I don't repeat videos during the session besides the favorite (that encourage me to explore more), I don’t pause any videos. I don't fast forward any videos, and finally, if it is a new contributor for me, I have to watch the profile Intro first.
It is amazing how these spaces of fantasy and meditation have helped me to improve my sex life. I think they are necessary and everyone should be able to choose to have them (in their own way and in their own time). Enough about me. Some of you want to share what you think. Do you also have some "ritual" that you practice and want to share? I send you a hug and I wish you a weekend full of IFM.

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viva · 22-07-19 01:06:12

this is SO amazing! I always wonder what people's IFM rituals are. I love that you're taking time to bliss out, luxuriate,and reach the height of your pleasure... and I love the organisation, it shows so much love for IFM and your own process. candles, intention, design, artistry, skill, intimacy... this is seriously so ace... you are making love to yourself the way you might with a highly cherished partner and that is SO in the IFM vibe. I commend you!

I truly wish I spent time doing something like this. I feel a bit torn about my masturbatory practices. Unless I'm turning on a camera and really doing something nice for myself, I usually take the path of least resistance. That means me, with my phone in the dark, browsing stories on the "non-con" tag of literotica. I read and touch until it starts to feel really good. I try to find a "good" story to come to, but with so much text and it being difficult to use my phone one handed, it can be challenging. Sometimes I end up coming to a scene that I don't even like that much! But it still feels just so good and I love the mental stimulation of the stories. I rarely read the same one twice, I'm not organised at all. In this daily practice, I usually only come once with no penetration, just my hands. But lately even these clitoral orgasms have been feeling like, out of control amazing. So that's alright.

I do love being with my partner but I cherish these alone moments too. Being able to fill my mind with super hot and not very wholesome dirty talk and text is such a freedom and a joy for me. On one hand I wish I could just totally "be in my body" - be in the sensation of my body without distracting my mind. But in another way, getting my mind distracted full of super erotic ideas makes my body feel SO good...

So yeah it's a bit complicated... but I think if I were to have my ultimate masturbation ritual tailored to me, it would also involve candles, and the best would be if i could have recordings of sexy male voices reading those stories to me. I would spend time stroking and rubbing my body, and using penetration toys and lube, and coming more than once.

But to me that's a bit like going to the gym! A healthy thing I ought to do, but somehow I never do! Kudos to you IFMCR for taking that special time for yourself

Urkles · 22-07-19 17:20:17

Bravo IFMCR89 - this is an incredible share.

A bit of insight to me. I have five monitors (need them for the work I do) and I usually have four of them with images on them. Sometimes they will all have different contributors on each monitor, but many other times I'll have the bottom two monitors running with IFM videos and the top two running ISM images from the same contributor. This way I can watch my favorite person masturbate while at the same time watching slow slideshows (5 seconds between image change) with the explicit images of their bodies. My eyes will wander around the different screens and usually I will find one that my eyes will lock onto for the duration.

I too have been experimenting with edging, I actually found a long video that has a start and stop timer on it, and it really does increase the climax when you have to wait until you're given permission to cum. I find the timer actually helps me follow the stop and start otherwise I just go for it (this is what goes on the 5th monitor).

A ritual I have also found to be amazing, and guys open you mind to this, is a vibrating toy in your ass, up against your prostrate. If you are willing to try it I think you might find this is the most incredible sensation, explosion, you may ever have! A woman has a g-spot and you have a p-spot that you should try using. Personally, a small toy the size of a finger which easily fits with no effort has been best for me. For example, look at Doc Johnson's pleasure wand which like the design of a rabbit has an extra nub that pushes and vibrates against the area just below the penis. If you're brave enough to try it then I would encourage you to try it with your partner while having them give you a blow job. Teach them how to use it and the result will be simply incredible!!!

And since you mentioned it, I can't smoke weed before any sex, my mind just wanders all over the place and I usually can't get there.

viva · 23-07-19 00:39:18

Um this is fucking amazing. two IFM vids plus slideshows of the same contributors ISM folios on 4 monitors.. holy fuck. seriously. your practice is like an ode to feck sites. you are amazing.

ummmmm and just for curiosity sake... if you were a girl trying to inspire your man to use a prostate toy and he'd never tried before but was open to it... what toy would you buy for him?

Urkles · 23-07-19 19:53:45

Viva --

I would start small so it doesn't hurt.

There are many good ones but these are the two I've settled on over the years.

This first one is what I started with years ago and its good because its the size of a finger so it doesn't take any effort to use it and it won't hurt. It's not the best in terms of long term quality, but it get the job done, and I've had my current one for several years.

https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Pros … B001302OG4

Down the road this one is much better quality, but it takes some getting used to due to the size, therefore, I would not recommend it to start. That said, the really cool thing about this one is the remote control so you don't have a wire and either person can control it. Plus it has lots of modes, one of the modes allows you to simply tip it up and down to control the intensity with a simple hand movement.

https://www.amazon.com/LELO-Controlled- … r=1-1&th=1

Good luck

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viva · 24-07-19 00:44:38

thanks for sharing! <3

Miriam_R · 29-08-19 06:15:48

This thread is incredible! Hearing how subcribers make contributors of these sites a real part of their pleasure ritual is so nice.

Ifmcr89, I love the lighting candles technique, taking time to really set the mood, I find it so important when edging to orgasm, extra motivation to make the moment really count! And I agree that the use of marijuana enhances orgasms, for me personally, makes it feel like it is lasting for 10 times as long.

Viva, literotica is a constant part of my ritual too, something enticing about letting your imagination run wild, and always in the dark too. I find it super erotic to go to my room for some self love time, turn on the heater, climb under the blankets and read through story after story, usually with the "non-con" or "anal" tag. I always try not to touch myself for at least the first story I read, working myself up

My partner in the past has used a vibrating cock ring, which was pleasurable for me and him both, especially when it was pressed against my clit. I feel like thats not a bad intro into the world of toys either for guys, as it has definitly inspired some fun games with toys for me and partners

viva · 29-08-19 07:00:44

Omg tag talk! Okay I'm non-con (or noncon, theyre two different tags!) mmf, student, teacher, older man, slut, incest, mind control, big tits. HA!

Also best thing for literotica, on an iphone at least, is private browsing! I can come in the middle of a story and then flip back to my normal tabs and it saves my place... when i'm hot again I just slip back into that sexy dark world of private browsing and pick up where I left off...

The main problem with reading your porn is you only get one hand free I wish someone would read out loud to me but it's like, shockingly intimate for me and I'm not ready to ask my partner for this.

Miriam have you ever tried cannlube? I'm dying to try some.. I wanna get my pussy high.

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