#1 26-06-19 17:15:14

Urkles

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What do you think about...

Two questions:

1. When you masturbate what do you think about or use to stimulate your mind? Do you uses images? If you do use images are you tying those back to someone "real"? Or do you fantasize about someone particular? Perhaps a mix of images and a real person?

My answer: It is almost always images with no tie back to a real person. The only time that would change is if I have a brand new partner, and to be honest in that case masturbation is rarely needed, but if it were to be needed then it would most likely be about them.

2. If you went to your favorite place (which that is another question all in itself) right this minute to masturbate, who would be your current top 5 go to video or ISM photos?

My Answer: Lately I've been on an photo kick and, in no particular order, my current top 5 are: Scarlett_R, Vanessa_T, Kylie_A (ISM Only but sure wish she was on IFM), Missy_Lee, and Leena.

_redbird_

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Re: What do you think about...

Oooh I like this question!! And the gorgeous women of ISM you listed are insanely beautiful, I can see why they do it for you.

When I masturbate (if I'm not watching porn and are just thinking sexy thoughts) I have some VERY specific scenarios that I play out in my mind. Almost all of them involve characters from things rather than real people. One of my favourite people to maz to is Peter Capaldi as the 12th Doctor from Doctor Who. I have a whole story where I'm his companion and he leaves me to go sacrifice himself to save the universe but I follow him and at first he's angry at me but then through being a sassy smart arse, I stumble upon a way to save everyone without the two of us also having to die and as a thank you he takes me to Alaska and we watch the Aurora Borealis on a frozen lake then go inside and have sex in a log cabin. Because the Doctor is almost asexual and he feels uncomfortable about being 1000's of years older than me, it's super awkward at first and both of us try not to hook up but we do and because he's so good at basically everything that includes sex. I like entire story lines around why I'm about to have sex with someone in my fantasies and quite often the actual sex part is quite minor. I get super turned on by sexual tension, build up, trying to deny your feelings and/or attraction, and hook ups that aren't necessarily easy, so most of my fantasies involve reluctance to change our current relationship but doing it anyway because we're undeniably attracted to each other.

If I were to go masturbate to some images right now, it would probably be a series of photos from Ellen Von Unwerth called Revenge. I first saw a few of the images in a magazine years ago and kept so many of them because they're so hot. (From memory) they're all in black and white and there's a whole plot to the photos where the servants of a wealthy woman punish her. There's loads of S&M-esque shots with absolutely stunning women, but it was the photos of the women in suits and harnesses that really did it for me.

Molly_f

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Re: What do you think about...

Lol redbird.... you should write some fanfic!!

When I masturbate using my imagination I like to think about sex I've had or porn I've seen... sometimes I find the memory of porn even hotter than the porn itself because you can edit it, loop it, exaggerate it. Sometimes I'll just think about a particular image or body part or position. I really get off on dirty talk so sometimes I'll just be focusing on certain phrases and language I think is really hot. I like to relive sex I've had, usually with who I'm dating at the time, but it's fun to think about exes too (once you've gotten over the emotional part). More often than not it's a more recent sexual experience because it's much easier to recall the physical sensations of the experience. After a while you forget how someone kissed you or touched you and what it felt like to be with them.

Uhhh lately I've been getting off on gay porn because I saw a Tom of Finland retrospective in a bookshop very recently and it really turned me on and now I just want to look at really strong men suck each other off.

_hyperballad_

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Re: What do you think about...

Lately I've been engaging in lots of self talk, but I find I'm so shy about it that not even Magnus has really heard about it. I say positively filthy things to myself & also very sweet encouraging things like 'that's it, that feels so good' for example. I almost never watch any sort of porn anymore & if I do it's pretty explicit/hardcore FE stuff.

Otherwise I've become much more sensation focused. I like to touch myself through my clothes & deliberately 'switching off' my brain, narrowing my perception to physical feedback as I undress myself. I have gotten really into noticing the way in which increasing levels of arousal affect my body & enjoying it.

Or I pop a little vibe in my panties & go do something completely unrelated & unsexy, like a household task & try to ignore the vibrations. That usually ends with me somewhere in my house up against a wall with my hands in my panties & bra making myself come.

If I was going to masturbate to anything it would probably be audio, especially 'live' audio like phone sex.

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Urkles

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Re: What do you think about...

It is fascinating to hear the inner thoughts coming from the female perspective. This is something not many people are willing to share and I hope more will. Guys you too!

I've not been in the forum for a couple of weeks and I was pleasantly surprise to see that a few people posted some of their most private thoughts surrounding the moment of the most extreme pleasure the human can experience.

People post! Open up and share!

viva

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Re: What do you think about...

Somehow I missed this thread....

1. When you masturbate what do you think about or use to stimulate your mind? Do you uses images? If you do use images are you tying those back to someone "real"? Or do you fantasize about someone particular? Perhaps a mix of images and a real person?

I kind of answered this one on the rituals thread but, if I'm not reading porn, I'm just using my mind to fantasise so that's a different story. When I fantasise I definitely use images. I seem to have a few go-to fantasies I will play out, in less or more detail depending on the moment. The two in highest rotation now are schoolgirl and hitchhiker. They are really what they sound like. They're not real people - the girl is never "me". Each one has a few different key images that I will often dwell on, sort of obsess over, and eventually come to. With the schoolgirl it's like, her tits with no bra on through her white cotton shirt, and his hand slowly peeling the shirt open, or squeezing her breast through the shirt, or like, holding the shirt against the side of her breast with his fingers while his thumb strokes her bare nipple on the other side. With the hitchhiker it's kind of about her thigh... the driver's hand on her thigh, pulling her legs open or moving up it slowly. Or his hand on her neck from behind while he makes her touch herself. Stuff like that.

2. If you went to your favorite place (which that is another question all in itself) right this minute to masturbate, who would be your current top 5 go to video or ISM photos?

Yeah I definitely don't watch videos to masturbate though sometimes I think I should try, but they are so fiddly and difficult to control and see what I want to see. That's why I like reading and my imagination. I get my stories from literotica.com and sometimes just browsing the tags is enough to turn me on so much.